Suddenly, I felt that in addition to the simple plan, in "The Season of Encounter", everyone was a bitter person who was tricked by fate.
On the side of the Jian family, Jian Minmin's youth was used as a chip, and people fell empty-handed in middle age; Zhang Lixin operated for half a lifetime, after all, he could not escape the fate of the chess pieces, Jian Hongcheng not only lost love, but also was forced to leave his hometown by his sister, and even the later marriage was difficult to say.
On the cui family's side, although Ning Yu forced herself not to take revenge, but over the years, she has never been truly happy, her father committed suicide, her husband betrayed, her brother misunderstood, and all the pain was added to her head; as for Ning Forgiveness, because of the sins that Jian Minmin did, she endured the torture of illness all her life, she has been living for revenge, missed love, lost her family affection, and finally ended up in prison.
The younger generation suffered a lifetime, the older generation was no exception, Ning Hui was worried all his life, Jian Zhiguo died early, Cui Hao committed suicide with guilt...
As for the others, although Hao Qinglin was not a good person, such an ending was definitely not what he wanted; Cai Lingxiao wholeheartedly paid for his sweetheart, but it was only a tool for revenge.
In addition to this, there is another person who also has a very unfortunate life, that is, Jian Hongcheng's ex-wife Chen Xin'er.
At the beginning of the story, seeing Chen Xin'er's unreasonable appearance, I really hated this character, but as the story slowly progressed, and then looked at their stories of that year, my point of view changed -
Chen Xin'er is annoying, but from a certain point of view, she is also a bitter child who is tricked by fate.
And what tormented her was because of her "love" for Jian Hongcheng, but also because of her paranoia about being killed in her feelings, not only losing the person she loved the most, but also becoming her most hated look.
Screenshot of the TV series "Meet the Season"
At the beginning, Jian Hongcheng, Ning You, Chen Xin'er and Tian Jingye, four people from Linshui were admitted to the same university together and enrolled in the same major, known as the "Four Masters of Linshui".
The combination of two men and two women, if Tian Jingye and Ning You had become a couple, and Jian Hongcheng and Chen Xin'er had come together, it would have been a good ending.
When he was partial to creating people and making mistakes, Jian Hongcheng fell in love with Ning You. After all, at that time, Jian Hongcheng was not only her hometown, but also their squad leader, and it was reasonable to be emotional.
In my intuition, Chen Xin'er at that time probably already liked Jian Hongcheng, but Jian Hongcheng liked Ning You, and as a friend of both sides, she had to choose to quit.
If the Jian family and the Ning family did not have a feud, and Jian Hongcheng and Ning Yu successfully cultivated the right results, Chen Xin'er might be dead hearted, and after a long time, he might be able to meet true happiness.
Later, Jian Hongcheng and Ning Yu collapsed, and Jian Hongcheng had an accident at home and had to drop out of school.
Ning Yu did not care about "affection", insisted on not sending Jian Hongcheng, Chen Xin'er was very angry, in connection with the cause and effect, the reason why Chen Xin'er was so angry, in addition to the love of classmates, I am afraid it is because of the heartache of Jian Hongcheng - in my world, he is such a perfect man, in others, but it is just an object discarded casually.
(Some people say that Ning Yu's doing this is excusable, which is indeed irrefutable, but Chen Xin'er does not know all this, and her resentment is also excusable.) ）
After graduating from university, Chen Xin'er also went to Shenzhen and married Jian Hongcheng. I thought this was the starting point of happiness, but I didn't want to be just the source of suffering in the future.
Although there is no direct explanation in the play, it can be seen that their married life is not happy, and they cannot escape the end of separation in the end.
In order to give Chen Xin'er a spiritual sustenance, Jian Hongcheng made concessions on the issue of child custody, in addition to the child's maintenance, he also paid chen Xin'er child support, so that Chen Xin'er could safely take the child at home.
To some extent, as an ex-husband, Jian Hongcheng has indeed done his best to be kind and righteous.
It's just that Chen Xin'er can't accept such an ending, although the two are already married, but in her heart, Jian Hongcheng is still her husband, and she is still Jian Hongcheng's wife.
Therefore, she not only still claims to be Jian Hongcheng's wife, but also does not allow Jian Hongcheng to have contact with other women.
That time, after receiving the news of the class reunion, she immediately thought that this was the bureau of Jian Hongcheng and Ning Youbu, in order to meet the two privately.
In order to protect her "marriage", she left her children at home and killed them from Shenzhen to Shanghai regardless of their disregard. Because of her agitation, Jian Hongcheng had to go to a classmate's party and met Ning You.
From the perspective of an outsider, Chen Xin'er wants to guard her "marriage", and it is no problem to start over with Jian Hongcheng, but leaving a child of a few years old at home, no matter how you look at it, you can't accept it.
Stealing chicken does not become erosion of rice, it may be chen Xin'er's situation, she desperately prevents Jian Hongcheng and Ning You from meeting, but instead let the two run into each other.
Fortunately, Jian Hongcheng is not bad, even if Chen Xin'er is so fierce, in front of everyone to think of herself as Mrs. Jane, he has not debunked, has been cooperating with her acting.
But even if Ning Yu and Jian Hongcheng had already made their words clear, Chen Xin'er did not think so, and still made trouble there, and finally Jian Hongcheng threatened the custody of the child, and Chen Xin'er reluctantly complied.
I thought that Chen Xin'er could stop here, but I didn't want Chen Xin'er to come out as a demon again in the later story.
Although Jian Hongcheng and Ning You met again, and Jian Hongcheng also knew Ning You's true identity, under such circumstances, the possibility of two people coming together again was really unlikely.
But Chen Xin'er didn't see it that way, and after seeing the photos sent by their teacher that time, her paranoia was committed again, and she left the child again and killed her alone in Shanghai.
This time, though, she became smarter, leaving the child alone in the house, but entrusting it to the neighbors.
Chen Xin'er believes that Ning You hooked up with Jian Hongcheng, so after arriving in Shanghai, she killed the company where Ning You worked, and just happened to meet Hao Qinglin's affair to find Ning You, and she immediately borrowed the topic to play and let Ning You leave Jian Hongcheng.
Jian Hongcheng wanted to put an end to Ning Ren and find someone to take the child away, but he didn't want Chen Xin'er to be more ruthless, so he ran directly to the upstairs of Ning Yu's residence to threaten him with death.
In the end, it was Ning Yu who clearly explained his grudge with Jian Hongcheng, and Chen Xin'er barely calmed down.
However, seriously, Chen Xin'er is also miserable enough, since coming together with Jian Hongcheng, in order to help Jian Hongcheng, she stole the company's bid, and at the same time that Jian Hongcheng flew Huang Tengda, she also broke her career road.
When I saw this section, I also understood Chen Xin'er's obsession - when she was desperate for Jian Hongcheng, she did not hesitate to take her own future, to some extent, Jian Hongcheng is her everything, naturally she must firmly hold it in her hands.
Most importantly, over the years, she has been staying at home, away from society for more than a decade, coupled with the black history of that year, even if she wants to re-enter the workplace, she can't find a suitable job.
It is not difficult to find out that although Chen Xin'er is very unpleasant, it seems that it is impossible to say that she is a bad person.
She's just too paranoid in her relationship, paranoid to the point of losing herself.
Because she has lost herself, in her world, Jian Hong's achievements are all, but she has forgotten that feelings are like sand in your hand, and the tighter you hold it, the easier it is to lose.
According to this point of view, the reason why the two divorced that year is probably because Chen Xin'er grasped Jian Hongcheng too tightly, and every time Jian Hongcheng went out, Chen Xin'er always "killed a series of calls".
Frankly, as an ex-husband, it is really rare to be able to do such a thing as Jian Hongcheng, if Chen Xin'er can be satisfied with the identity of his ex-wife and take good care of the children, Jian Hongcheng will definitely be able to take care of her as promised.
If one day she has a new relationship, Jian Hongcheng will definitely sincerely bless her.
Thinking about it this way, Chen Xin'er's biggest problem is that obviously the two people have come to an end, and she is still stuck in her former feelings, not only embarrassing Jian Hongcheng, but also abusing herself.
Even without Ning You's presence, if she tossed and turned like this, it would only push Jian Hongcheng farther and farther away.
Love is voluntary, and there is no regret.
We are all longing for love from holding hands to whiteheads, but this is not the case, there are always some who walk and walk and disperse, and for those who have left, we can't even bless, we don't have to dwell.
After all, when a person has an iron heart and wants to leave, you can't keep it no matter what, even if you trap his body, you can't trap his heart.
When love becomes a kind of paranoia, it is no longer happiness, but the prison that traps each other.
I only hope that in the follow-up story, Chen Xin'er can understand this truth, and when that time comes, she will really be born again.
(Originality is not easy, if there is a reprint, please indicate the source.) ）