The weather is getting warmer, spring is warm, the park is full of people, some people sing, some people dance, some people fly kites, some people sit in the shade and chat, everyone enjoys the gifts of nature in their own way. Busy and idle, I went to the park to relax myself, in the shade of the trees, watching people coming and going, and overheard a person complaining about the kindergarten teacher, the reality surprised me.
"When I graduated from college, in an internship in a public kindergarten, during the training, the principal repeatedly stressed to me: When you can't control it and lose your temper with the children, you must repeatedly emphasize their mistakes with the children? In this way, even if the parent asks, the child will not tell the adult, because in their consciousness, the teacher loses his temper because he has done something wrong. This way cattle not cattle? The teacher brainwashes the child after the child: scolding you is because you did something wrong! terrible! "A pretty girl complains to a friend about her experience.
"It was because of this kindergarten experience that I firmly sent my son to a private kindergarten, where the teachers were more loving and responsible. In fact, the principal asked the teacher to repeatedly emphasize the reason with the child, that is, to brainwash the child, and to wash many times a day. Some young teachers, who have not brought children, are likely to scold children when their patience is exhausted, which is the magic weapon for teachers to avoid responsibility. ”
When I heard this news, I was really shocked that my son went to a public kindergarten, because I recognized their educational philosophy and let the children grow up naturally. I wondered, has my son ever experienced something like this? Up to now, my son still listens to the teacher's words and obeys the teacher's orders! As a student, listening to the teacher's words is the right, but also to have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, it is undeniable, most of the teachers are conscientious, for the growth of children to do their best, but can not rule out some crooked dates.
In fact, this beautiful girl, because of her own internship experience, the public kindergarten is all negated, a bit of a partial generalization, I think this is only the principal's own point of view, not a common phenomenon. For the small flowers of the motherland, most people will take good care of them, not so cruel. No rules and no circles, from an early age, let children know how to abide by the rules and develop good habits, which is the responsibility of parents and the obligation of teachers.
However, as a parent, we must pay attention to the changes in children's thoughts and behaviors, and once abnormalities are found, we must guide them in time. From my son's mouth, I have also heard of the teacher's excessive behavior, but the teacher's original intention of getting angry is still the children's naughtiness. If the children are all well-behaved and study well, the teacher will naturally not lose his temper. But then again, children are children after all, and inevitably they will make some mistakes, and it is not terrible to make mistakes, but it is terrible to not be guided correctly.
Parents and teachers have the responsibility to guide children, and teachers face dozens of students and cannot be meticulous. Finding problems also depends on parents, especially mothers. Moms are the ones who know their children best, and the little changes in their children are capable of being discovered by moms. Children must eventually grow up, and in the face of all kinds of people and things, they must have the ability to adapt and overcome. It is good for children to encounter some problems, and the key is for parents to do a good job of protection and guidance, so that children can grow up healthily.
For the problems mentioned by the beautiful girls, parents should pay attention to them, but do not worry too much, the most important thing is to strengthen the care and observation of the children, and help the children grow in an all-round way. Friends, for the problem mentioned by the girl, the teacher brainwashed the child after killing the child: scolding you is because you did something wrong! What do you think? Welcome to leave a message, comment, bookmark, forward!