Wen 丨 bean sprouts
Editor 丨 Lazy Worm Entertainment
In 2022, Zhou Xun took her boyfriend Excellence, who was 13 years younger than her, back to her hometown to meet her parents.
However, the old couple who have been looking forward to their daughter's family and a baby are not very happy when they see the first side of excellence.
In full view of everyone, Zhou Mu even pulled her daughter aside and asked her seriously: "You think clearly, this man is 13 years younger than you, is it reliable?" ”
In the face of his mother's worries and doubts, Zhou Xun was very understanding.
Zhou Xun's parents and Dou Jingtong
After all, over the years, she has talked about a total of 10 boyfriends, and finally broke up.
It was not easy, there was a very loving man Gao Shengyuan in the middle, but unfortunately, after 6 years of marriage, he was finally divorced, and he did not even have a child.
This made Zhou Mu Chen Yiqin worry and feel sad for her.
Now that Zhou Xun has brought back a boyfriend of 13 years younger, Chen Yiqin's heart is like a big stone, so that she can't sleep all day and night.
Why is Zhou Xun so open-minded in the face of feelings?
Chen Yiqin, who is now broken for his daughter's love affair, has the big stone in his heart been put down?
1.
Zhou Xun grew up in a very loving family, and his parents were ordinary workers.
Because Zhou Xun is an only child, the love given to her by her parents is sufficient and full.
As long as the daughter's request is not excessive, they will basically agree.
For example, when he was in junior high school, Zhou Xun saw several girls on TV wearing very retro skirts and dancing together.
They stooped in a circle, their hands swinging back and forth like two slender willow branches, which was very moving.
Looking at their beautiful dance posture, Zhou Xun suddenly wanted to learn, and then he told his mother what he thought.
In terms of cultivating education, Chen Yiqin has always respected her daughter's ideas.
So when Zhou Xun graduated from junior high school, Chen Yiqin found various teachers to consult which school could learn dance.
Finally settled in Zhejiang Art School, major in ethnic dance.
Zhou Xun has always looked very beautiful, his big round eyes are full of aura, a small face, white and red like a very Nianhua doll.
Because of this, the moment she stepped on campus, she attracted everyone's attention.
She was even spotted by a modeling agency and invited to take pictures of her.
At a young age, Zhou Xun has long become the focus of the campus.
However, her luck didn't stop there.
By chance, Zhou Xun starred in a small role in the movie "Tomb Desolation" directed by Xie Tieli.
Although there are not many scenes, Zhou Xun feels the beauty of being an actor.
As a result, Zhou Xun had a thought in his heart.
She wanted to go out and wander, to be a free little bird, to meet more people, to see the bigger world.
This larger world is Beijing.
So as soon as she graduated, she proposed her ideas to her mother.
But what Zhou Xun did not expect was that her mother, who had always respected her opinion, directly rejected her.
In Chen Yiqin's eyes, Zhou Xun was still young, a little girl wanted to run out alone, what if she met a bad person?
What's more, their old couple has always wanted their daughter to stay by their side and help if there is any difficulty.
But the more his mother objected, the firmer Zhou Xun's inner thoughts became.
She pestered her mother and chatted for a long time: "Mom, I also want to grow up and be independent, I can't always let you raise me, right?" If it's really not okay outside, I can't come back again, okay? ”
Zhou Xun was like a kitten, rubbing around in his mother's arms.
In the end, Chen Yiqin finally softly agreed, but she made a request for her daughter: whether good or bad happens, she must tell her family.
The daughter is alone and alone, alone, and her home is her harbor.
Chen Yiqin had always thought so, but Zhou Xun at that time did not think so.
2.
After leaving the arms of his parents, Zhou Xun talked about his boyfriend called Lei Ming.
The two met at a bar.
At that time, she still had a feeling of ignorance about love, and she didn't understand what it was to like.
So when she saw a man with long flowing hair sitting in the center of the stage, holding a microphone and singing softly, she couldn't help but be moved.
Her inner feelings told her that she liked this man.
Since then, Zhou Xun has come to this bar every day to listen to songs, and over time the two have become familiar with each other, and finally developed into lovers.
At that time, the two were moving in the direction of marriage, but as Zhou Xun's career became more and more prosperous, the two gradually disagreed.
Once, director Chen Kaige invited Zhou Xun to star in his movie "Wind Moon".
Such a good opportunity, Zhou Xun naturally will not let go.
But when her boyfriend Lei Ming heard it, he directly ordered Zhou Xun to cancel this cooperation.
"Don't show your face all day, which girl do you see like you?"
"I love acting, this is my profession, please respect me!"
The two quarreled over this matter, and Lei Ming did not like the profession of an actor, nor did he like his girlfriend to show his face often.
But Zhou Xun has her own ideas, she likes to perform, so she and Lei Ming proposed to break up.
After the breakup, Zhou Xun met Dou Peng again.
Dou Peng is two years older than Zhou Xun and loves to sing and compose, and his talent quickly attracts Zhou Xun's attention.
The two met and fell in love with each other under the introduction of friends.
Little couples who have just fallen in love are always sweet and sweet.
During that time, Dou Peng was very good to Zhou Xun.
Zhou Xun could not receive a job, and Dou Peng went around asking for a relationship to find a suitable place for her.
Finally, settled down in a restaurant.
Zhou Xun is responsible for singing to the guests after the meal.
At first, it was fine, but I didn't expect that suddenly a drunken-looking man came to Zhou Xun, directly grabbed her hand and dragged it outside, and muttered in his mouth: "Drink with me." ”
Zhou Xun was still the first time to see such a scene, and he was suddenly overwhelmed.
Before she could call for help, she saw that the man in front of her had fallen to the ground, and his face was still swollen.
It was Dou Peng's hand.
Originally, Dou Peng just wanted to come and visit his girlfriend, who knew that he had encountered such a scene.
With this experience, Dou Peng's heart was also full of fear.
In order to prevent this from happening again, he directly arranged Zhou Xun at home.
Zhou Xun only needs to be a little princess every day, and he is responsible for making money to support his family.
Every day after work, Dou Peng would bring back some small snacks to Zhou Xun, such as osmanthus cake and chestnut crisp, and buy all of them that Zhou Xun liked to eat.
At the same time, Zhou Xun was not idle, when she was at home, she called her mother and asked her mother to teach her two good dishes, and she had to cook for Dou Peng herself.
During that time, it was the happiest time for Zhou Xun and Dou Wei.
Zhou Xun wanted to maintain this beautiful life, so she began to plan her marriage with Dou Peng.
The premise of marriage is to buy a house of their own.
Because the house in Beijing is very expensive, Dou Peng does not want to go back to his hometown.
So Zhou Xun began to run in the major crews, she found a relationship with the director, and she literally "spliced" to receive three movies.
In the end, Zhou Xun gave dou peng all the remuneration for filming.
Among them, Zhou Xun's parents heard that when their daughter wanted to get married and buy a house, their old couple also gave Zhou Xun the savings they had saved for many years.
In their eyes, as long as their daughters are happy, they are happy.
Zhou Xun gave dou peng his savings for buying a house, and let Dou Peng decide where to live.
The marriage house is bought, the feelings are in place, and the license is almost obtained to get married.
However, at the critical moment, Dou Peng changed his mind.
"I don't want to get married yet, I'm sorry."
When Zhou Xun heard Dou Peng's words, the whole person fell into a state of shock: "Why? ”
Dou Peng's eyes were sad, and he said, "I want to do a good job in my career first, as long as my career improves, I will definitely marry you." ”
"But your career is already very good, how can you make a difference?"
Zhou Xun suddenly found that he couldn't see through Dou Peng, did he really love me?
However, Zhou Xun did not give up this relationship because of this, and she changed her tricks every day.
Dou Peng likes to eat shiitake mushrooms, so she learned more than a dozen kinds of dishes about the practice of shiitake mushrooms online.
But these efforts were ultimately in vain.
Once, Zhou Xun returned home from filming and found that all the things about Dou Peng in the family were gone, leaving only a text message sent to her by Dou Peng: "I have thought about it, let's still separate." ”
Dou Peng (left)
Looking at the text message, Zhou Xun was so sad that she broke down and cried, and she drank five bottles of beer in one breath that night.
However, there was no intention of getting drunk.
She realized that if you want to get love, you must first learn to love yourself and make yourself stronger.
So, Zhou Xun began to work hard to fight for her career, and she once thought that she did not need a man.
But until the appearance of Jia Hongsheng.
3.
In 1998, Zhou Xun met Jia Hongsheng while filming the movie "Suzhou Creek".
Jia Hongsheng is 7 years older than Zhou Xun, divorced once, and is also an actor.
Perhaps Zhou Xun has always liked men with artistic cells, so she also fell this time.
However, this relationship did not last long, and in just one year, the two broke up.
This relationship, Zhou Xun did not tell anyone.
Later, Chen Yiqin still saw it on the Internet, when she called her daughter at the first time and told her to polish her eyes and not to give all her heart because of a small advantage.
Zhou Xun naturally understood, but who in love is right and who is wrong?
Once you fall in love, you may not be able to take care of so much.
So a year later, Zhou Xun, without exception, fell into the whirlpool of love again.
At that time, Zhou Xun was filming the movie "When the Flowers Bloomed", and the unique temperament of The Musical Talent on Park Shu deeply attracted Zhou Xun.
Not only that, Zhou Xun also felt that There was a sense of solidity in Park Shu that many men did not have.
So, the first time she was with Park Shu, she told her parents.
Chen Yiqin knew Park Shu as a person, and she felt that Park Shu was quite honest as a child, but she didn't like to talk very much.
In her eyes, it is better for men to be cheerful, otherwise there will be contradictions in the relationship in the future, which will be difficult to solve.
Park Shu when he was young
Zhou Xun's mother's words have always been kept in mind, and she has thought of various ways to make Park Shu become more cheerful.
But the naturally introverted Park Shu, quiet has been carved in the bones, even if it changes, there will not be much change.
Later, Zhou Xun deeply realized this.
Once, the two had a big fight over a small matter, and Zhou Xun originally thought that if the other party could coax himself, they would be reconciled.
Unexpectedly, several days passed, and Park Shu did not move at all, and did not look like he wanted to solve the problem at all.
Park Shu's youth
This made Zhou Xun feel that this relationship was not as beautiful as she imagined, so she proposed to break up.
However, Zhou Xun, who was born with strong peach blossom luck, was once again visited by love.
In 2000, when Zhou Xun was filming "Smoke and Rain Red Face", he and Song Ning had an affair because of the drama.
Song Ning is 4 years younger than Zhou Xun, perhaps because of the problem of age, the two always have contradictions in discussing issues.
Song Ning likes to progress things first and then consider the results.
Zhou Xun is just the opposite, before she does things, she will think of all the results, and then choose the most stable path.
Perhaps it is precisely because of this that two people who often disagree with each other, the relationship finally came to an end.
This year, Zhou Xun was 26 years old, which was exactly the age of a flower.
The love affairs she talked about outside were all known to her parents.
Thinking that the boyfriend her daughter talked about was not successful, Chen Yiqin, as a mother, tossed and turned in bed every day, and it was difficult to sleep.
She often wondered if her girlfriend would be left like this?
Chen Yiqin, who could not rest assured of her daughter, ran directly to Beijing, and she had to take care of her daughter personally.
Zhou Xun is a filial daughter, she settled her mother in the house, and also called a nanny to take care of her.
But Chen Yiqin was always unhappy.
She came to Beijing to see her daughter, but her daughter was too busy at work to meet her.
Fortunately, Zhou Xun understood her mother, and she took two days off to come back to accompany her mother.
After catching her own little girl, Chen Yiqin directly gave her a long talk all night.
She told Zhou Xun: "We must be stable as women, whether it is a career or a relationship, we must have a down-to-earth heart." ”
"Looking for a boyfriend, it's not that he's good-looking and talented enough to be a boyfriend, character is the most important."
Chen Yiqin spoke bitterly to his daughter.
Zhou Xun naturally understood her mother's meaning, but she still wanted to go according to her own ideas: "Mom, I have grown up, I understand what you said, life is my own, I want to choose the path I want to take, love is not terrible, right is right, wrong do not have to be afraid." ”
Chen Yiqin was unable to persuade her stubborn daughter after all, so she decided to respect her daughter's ideas.
After all, people grow up in setbacks.
Not long after, Chen Yiqin returned to his hometown, and at the same time, Zhou Xun ushered in his new love again.
4.
In 2001, Zhou Xun and Li Yapeng collaborated on the TV series "The Legend of the Eagle Shooter", and the two soon got together because of the drama.
At that time, Zhou Xun also said:
However, it was such a man that Zhou Xun still did not grasp his heart.
After breaking up with Li Yapeng, Zhou Xun talked about love with Li Daqi, Wang Shuo and others one after another.
But even if the love process is romantic, it still has not entered the palace of marriage.
Until 2013, Zhou Xun was 39 years old, but he was still single.
The Parents of the Zhou family were very anxious, and also arranged various boys to give Zhou Xun a blind date.
However, Zhou Xun refused all of them, she likes free love, likes the man she chooses.
For their daughter's mentality, the Zhou family's parents are very relieved and worried.
Every time Chen Yiqin saw Zhou Xun, she would always sigh: "When will my daughter get married, and when will she be able to let me hold my grandson?" ”
Hearing this, Zhou Xun always smiled and nodded: "Soon, very soon." ”
It's pretty fast.
No, in May of the following year, Zhou Xun officially announced his love affair, and he was with an actor named Gao Shengyuan.
Then, two months after the official announcement of their relationship, they held a wedding.
Gao Shengyuan and Zhou Xun's previous boyfriends are similar in type, talented and handsome, full of literature and art.
At first, Chen Yiqin also advised her daughter to think more about it, talk about love for a while, and then consider marriage.
After all, Gao Shengyuan is a Chinese-American, and their two old families hope that their daughter will find a domestic man.
Parents' opinions, Zhou Xun listened.
She discussed the matter with Gao Shengyuan, and finally the other party promised her that she would come to Beijing to live.
The newly married couple is very loving, tired of being together all day, even the street media said: "These two people are too sweet, and they can't dig up any information in them." ”
In this way, just two years after the sweet life of the husband and wife, Chen Yiqin opened the urging mode.
When she sees her daughter and son-in-law coming to the house, she will always ask consciously or unconsciously, "When are you going to have children?" ”
"Are you thinking it's time to have a baby?"
Zhou Xun and Gao Shengyuan also had this intention, but they both tried hard, and as a result, there was no sign of pregnancy at all.
Chen Yiqin took her daughter to the hospital for examination and found that it was caused by her long-term work pressure and overwork.
The doctor prescribed some medicines to Zhou Xun and told her to take them on time to adjust her body, and soon there would be signs of pregnancy.
This good news is very happy for everyone.
However, Zhou Xun's body had just been nurtured, and her marriage to Gao Shengyuan had problems.
5.
In 2017, Gao Shengyuan went abroad to develop, and the husband and wife began a life of separation.
It is said that a long period of separation will cause the feelings of husband and wife to be estranged.
Zhou Xun and Gao Shengyuan were like this, they were in two foreign places, and at the beginning they called every day and interacted very intimately.
Later, with the reason of work, the number of phone calls became less and less, and even not contacted once in the last two weeks.
Such a marriage in name only, Zhou Xun did not want to settle again, so she proposed divorce.
Chen Yiqin, who had always wanted to hold his grandson, fell into depression when he learned that his daughter was divorced.
Everything is unpredictable, I did not expect that my daughter's emotional road was so bumpy.
Chen Yiqin shook her daughter's hand, sat on the sofa, and said with shame: "Before it was all bad mothers, if I hadn't been a mother to urge you, maybe you wouldn't have come to this step." ”
Seeing that her mother had been blaming herself, Zhou Xun felt bad in her heart, she saved her mother, and said softly: "Mom, I have to thank you, thank you for so long to tolerate me, no matter how willful I am, you support me." ”
The relationship between mother and daughter is very deep.
Chen Yiqin no longer urges her daughter to get married and have children as before, she just wants her daughter to live happily and have her own happiness.
In 2021, Zhou Xun met her 13-year-old excellence at the party.
Excellence is the guitarist of the mosaic band, and his idol since childhood is Zhou Xun.
At that time, when Excellence first saw Zhou Xun at the party, he was nervous and did not dare to look up.
I didn't expect that one day, he would be able to see his idol.
On the contrary, Zhou Xun was very generous.
Zhou Xun loved the music of their band, and when she first saw Excellence, she felt that this boy was not ordinary.
Later, after participating in several concerts of their band, Zhou Xun found that Excellence was not only talented, but also had a very good personality.
Gradually, the two became more and more acquainted, and it didn't take long for them to be together.
At first, Zhou Xun planned to stabilize for a while, and then tell his family the news of his love.
Unexpectedly, Chen Yiqin saw this news directly on the Internet.
She called her daughter directly to confirm whether the news was true, but she was surprised.
They did get together.
This news was somewhat unacceptable to Chen Yiqin, as a mother, after all, the age difference between the two was too big, which suddenly made her insomnia for several nights.
Later, Zhou Xun took Excellence back to his hometown to meet his parents.
Chen Yiqin strives to guide herself and make herself accept excellence, after all, her daughter's happiness is the first.
But will this relationship really make Zhou Xun happy? Chen Yiqin didn't know, nor did he dare to think about it.
epilogue
There is a saying that goes, "A daughter is always a parent's little cotton jacket." ”
Zhou Xun is indeed his parents' little cotton jacket, but this little cotton jacket also has a confused time.
Once Zhou Xun, free, dare to love and dare to hate, in the face of these 10 boyfriends she has paid 100% sincerity.
Although the result was not so good, Zhou Xun never regretted it.
Even though life is full of ups and downs, there are still many good memories.
Zhou Xun's mother, Chen Yiqin, has always wanted her daughter to have a happy and happy family, but as of 2022, this wish has still not been realized.
However, she saw that a marriage and a family needed two people to run it together, and it was far from enough for only one party to pay unilaterally.
All she wanted her daughter to be happy for now was enough.