Not giving the other half a bad rating is respect and education.
Author | Blue Camel
Do you remember Zhu Wushuang, played by Ni Hongjie, in "The Legend of Wulin"?
In the play, Zhu Wushuang has a classic line: "Let me come." ”
Every time the words came out, it seemed like an omnipotent look.
Colleagues listened to it at the time and felt particularly uncomfortable.
Whoever "wins" loses is the child
Once watched a street interview show.
The program team asked questions to the children in front of the parents:
Dad and Mom, who do you like better?
What a cruel question for children.
If the child says he likes his father more, then the mother will be unhappy. If the child says he likes his mother more, then the father will be upset.
When a child has to choose one, he feels that he has failed the other and feels guilty.
When we realize this problem, please don't give your child any more problems. After all, the love and care that family members give to their children is different in dimension.
For the child, Mom and Dad are like his left hand and right hand, one is indispensable.
They never wanted to make an either-or choice between two people.
Moreover, as the poet Gibran's "Children":
"Your children are not your children.
They are the children born of life's desire for itself.
They came into this world through you, but they did not come because of you,
They are by your side, but they do not belong to you. ”
The children we love the most, one day, will have their own more loved people.
Therefore, in front of children, do not "compete for favors", do not be emotional contenders, and give them a real sense of belonging.
Love in time.
Sufficient.
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