Romain Rolland said in michelangelo's biography that there is only one true heroism in the world, that is, to love life after recognizing the truth of life.
Everyone's life will not be smooth sailing, when the flowers bloom, enjoy the sunshine and the beauty of flowers. When encountering a rainstorm, you must also learn to hide from the rain, and continue to work hard to wait for the rainbow to appear.
Teacher Mai Jia said in the "Ace to Ace" program: How a person faces vicissitudes does require experience and wisdom, if you can face it correctly, the vicissitudes as a kind of wealth, or even a kind of energy accumulation, life slowly has a thickness.
Everyone has a highlight moment in life.
For example, academically, the spring breeze is proud, and I am admitted to the university of my choice, and it does not take much effort to go to graduate school.
For example, the career is smooth, in all aspects of the work is very easy, onboarding, promotion, everything is so smooth.
For example, love is smooth, there is a person you like, and the other party also happens to like yourself, and the two are happy with each other, and the circle is complete.
For example, the family is healthy and healthy, the parents are safe and sound, the children work hard to learn to be well-behaved, the family sits around, the lights are amiable, and everything is quiet and good.
However, one day, life seems to become gray and dark.
The career suddenly fell into a trough, how to turn the tide can not do, can not make money, by others secretly ridiculed.
The person in love suddenly turns his face, and the original sweet love suddenly becomes a joke.
Parents are old and old, often sick, and even admitted to the hospital for a serious illness, which requires meticulous escort and a huge amount of money.
Everything seems to be the heavens grinding you, so difficult, how can you survive?
In fact, in this life, in addition to life and death, it is a small matter.
When you figure this out, there's nothing you can't get over.
Career downturn, perhaps only for a while, as long as you are willing to start from scratch, willing to suffer hardships, willing to dry your tears and dry sweat, willing to hide all the suffering quietly, one day, there will be a time to break through the clouds and see the blue sky. At that time, please hug yourself and say to yourself: Hard work, thank you for not giving up, survive.
The loss of a loved one, that is not called loss, that is no fate. Never cry for a person who leaves you, when the other party can't see your strengths, only see your shortcomings, when the other party and you no longer have a sharp mind, leaving is only a matter of time, please be sure to believe: there is no herb at the end of the world. Survive the trough of feelings, there will be real people waiting for you in front.
Parents who are slowly aging are not our burdens, but noble people who we see one side and one less side. Parents take us to this world, taste the sweet and sour of the world, when you think that the world is worth it, please deeply thank your parents, for their old age, please be a little more patient, if you can use money to buy your parents ten years younger, I believe that every friend is willing to pour out their bags.
The trough of life, survive it, you win.
Don't be intimidated by the tribulations of life, since the great things of heaven are not as good as the word life and death, then what is there to be afraid of?
In the "Yu Shi Ming Yan", it is said: "A person is born with troubles, and he knows that he has no choice." And peace and security is the first key to standing. ”
Yes, when encountering tribulations, instead of lamenting and complaining, blindly complaining and complaining, or even lying flat, it is better to be widowed and unspoken, lying down and tasting courage.
Some time ago, in the emotional hit drama "The World of Man", Zhou Bingkun said a word to Zhou Nan: "Do you feel bitter? Chewed and swallowed. ”
Friends who have seen this play will remember this line, although it is very simple, but it is very wise. No one's life will always be sweet, and in the face of bitterness, chewing and swallowing is the great wisdom.
As the saying goes: don't rush on a rainy day, the weather has its own way
Yes, there are clouds and storms in the sky, and there are ups and downs in life. Heavy rain is the day's retention of footsteps, and the trough is a hint to life: life is not always moving forward, and sometimes, it is necessary to stop, lick the wound, accumulate energy, and be ready.
The trough is when people have reached the time to meditate and accumulate energy and precipitate themselves.
At any time, when you encounter a hurdle that can't survive, friends, please don't be discouraged, please believe that after surviving, you will definitely win, and the rainbow always appears after the wind and rain. Believe in yourself, you must do it.
Mr. Yang Dai said: "We once longed so much for the waves of fate, and in the end we found that the most beautiful scenery of life is the calm and calm in our hearts."
In life, although the pass is difficult, it can survive and pass; it is difficult to walk step by step, and it can be done step by step.
I wish you, who are in the trough, with a firm heart, survive the difficult situation and find the best self again.