Wen | Wu Qingqian
In the TV series "The World of Man", Cai Xiaoguang was deeply involved in the final stage of the marriage between Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng, persuaded Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng to reconcile, and finally persuaded Zhou Rong to accept the divorce proposal proposed by Feng Huacheng. What is Cai Dao doing here, and is it to persuade peace and to persuade him to leave? In fact, Cai Xiaoguang has no malice and no selfishness, whether it is to persuade or leave, it is for Zhou Rong's good.
Since Feng Hua was assigned to the house, but also for the development of his personal career, after winning the first prize of the Fifth Songshan Poetry Creation Competition through gift-giving, Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng began to quarrel frequently. When the house is not assigned, it is to focus on the house quarrel, after the house, it is for Feng Yue to not kiss them, unwilling to go home to live in the quarrel, a quarrel, Zhou Rong will take Feng Huacheng to give gifts and awards and ask for rooms to say things, Feng Huacheng will take Zhou Rong can not be divided into rooms to get gifts back and self-centered to say things. Once, Feng Huacheng, who was red-faced and red-eared, said that I Feng Huacheng had no ability, and even the twelve flat unity households could not be divided, and then Threw the door out. Zhou Rong did not expect that this quarrel directly sent Feng Huacheng to Wang Zi's arms, laying a landmine for the divorce that would not be long ago.
Seeing that Feng Huacheng had not returned for a long time, Zhou Rong was anxious, although she could not accept the idols she had worshipped and worldly to give gifts for the sake of profit, but after all, after living for so many years, the emotions were there, and she called Cai Xiaoguang in worry. Cai Xiaoguang was still as enthusiastic as ever, and as soon as he received the call, he ran to persuade her and asked her if she still admired Feng Huacheng, and Zhou Rong shook her head. Cai Xiaoguang persuaded her to leave, but Zhou Rong did not give up. Cai Xiaoguang said that she was contradictory to herself, since worship is the basis of love, even the foundation is gone, how to be together. Zhou Rong said that she had been with Feng Huacheng for nearly twenty years, and Feng Huacheng had become her and Feng Yue from Beijing to Jichun, and he did almost all the housework in the family.
Cai Xiaoguang heard that Zhou Rong didn't want to leave, so he said--I think people are still very good, right. There are some things I should have told you sooner. Once, huacheng said a lot of heartfelt words in my place (Zhou Rong couldn't get a room, and went to the person in charge of the school to ask for the gift sent by Cai Xiaoguang, the couple had a big fight, and almost moved their hands, Cai Xiaoguang in order to calm their anger, dragged Feng Huacheng to his home to drink and talk). Want to know what his biggest opinion is about you? It's you who look down on him, maybe you don't feel it yourself. Worship is the foundation of love, and that's what he told me that day.
Zhou Rong said, "He thinks I don't love him anymore?" Then I have no other way, worship is the basis of love, without worship there is no love. Cai Xiaoguang said, what are you doing together after you don't love each other? Zhou Rong asked, did Feng Huacheng want to break up? Cai Xiaoguang said, if you continue like this, you will really be divided. People can't stand it when they can't stand it, we don't say it from afar, let's say that today, are you divided into a two-room and a living room, and he is looking for someone to give gifts, not even a unity household, right? Zhou Rong said with a straight face, this is the truth. Cai Xiaoguang's attitude toward Feng Huacheng's sore spot is the same as Zhou Bingkun's dislike of Zhou Zhigang poking him in the sore spot - can the facts be said? It really shouldn't be said.
Zhou Rong said on the surface, "I will pay attention to it later, and I will not say it." "But I don't agree with it in my heart. Cai Xiaoguang advised Zhou Rong not to treat people as fools, "You look for problems from the roots, your problems, are you not feminine, do you know?" I'm not talking about looks, we are absolutely the best among women. I'm talking about the spirit, you have to learn to be weak, naïve, docile, and from time to time you also learn to ask — you see what we should do about this. Even if you know what to do, ask, pretend to ask. ”
Zhou Rong said that she was not an actress and did not have that talent, and asked Cai Xiaoguang if she was not saved. Cai Xiaoguang said, you know that you have this problem, in the future, you should pay more attention to it, tighten your brain, and open your mouth slowly. You don't have to worry too much, I'll talk to him when I get the chance. But from the root, the responsibility is yours, you held him too high, and now people can't get down. You think, a young teenage, extremely intelligent and beautiful girl, not far away alone, running to the depths of the mountains of Guizhou to find him, for a man, what a sense of accomplishment. How high the starting point is, how much there is loss. Of course, if you two really want to make trouble, I will definitely be on your side, and I will only take a position on this matter, whether it is right or wrong. But, to be honest, in the relationship between the two of you, you are the active party, and the passive party will always be more painful.
After Cai Xiaoguang did this ideological work, Zhou Rong was not angry with Feng Huacheng, and in order to wait for Feng Huacheng to come back, she also stayed on the sofa for a night. Feng Huacheng, who had done something unfaithful, returned home and saw his wife waiting for him, very guilty, and hugged Zhou Rong and cried and said "I'm sorry." However, Feng Huacheng was ultimately difficult to resist Wang Zi's gentleness, Zhou Rong's shortcomings were just Wang Zi's advantages, Zhou Rong was strong, always regarded himself as very high, and looked down on Feng Huacheng with a downward attitude, while Wang Zi was good at showing weakness and regarded Feng Huacheng as very high, just as Zhou Rong worshipped Feng Huacheng at the beginning. In addition, Wang Zi and Feng Huacheng are both writers, very understanding of Feng Huacheng's career is not smooth, from time to time will encourage Feng Huacheng, it can be said that the two are sympathetic to each other, but also know that Feng Huacheng is a husband with a wife, but willing to be Feng Huacheng's underground lover, which makes Feng Huacheng find confidence and value here in Wang Zi, and deeply apologize to Wang Zi, so that he finally chose Wang Zi.
In the face of the woman who has loved for more than twenty years being abandoned by her husband, Cai Xiaoguang still does not hate Feng Huacheng, he does not blame anyone, and still calmly advises Zhou Rong - did not love him for a long time, then let it go, why do you have to make it up together. It must be a little sudden for you. You are uncomfortable is self-esteem, is self-esteem can not stand, feel that for so many years, you have paid a lot for this family, for him, sacrificed a lot, to mention divorce you have to mention ah, he has this qualification, right. However, you have to think in reverse, Zhou Rong, the people Feng Hua became this family, and sacrificed a lot for you, and none of you owe anyone anything. Away, liberate you, but also liberate Feng Huacheng, the two people complete each other, live the life they want, day by day. As a man, I understand that Feng Huacheng, the more he falls, the more he needs the worship of women, even if it is degraded.
Cai Xiaoguang said that Longge to seek means that Feng Huacheng chose Wang Zi, in Cai Xiaoguang, Zhou Rong is always the best, even if she knows that she has shortcomings, so naturally feel that Wang Zi is not as good as Zhou Rong, Feng Hua became Wang Zi to give up Zhou Rong, that is, to degrade to seek. But he did not look down on Feng Huacheng because of this, whether it was the previous persuasion or the final persuasion, it was enough to show that Cai Xiaoguang was a very rational and belly-bound person, and before and after two persuasions, he did not pull up and step low, blindly elevating Zhou Rong and stepping on Feng Huacheng. You must know that he said that these two people are making trouble, he only talks about the position, whether it is right or wrong, but only the attitude of taking sides, rather than evaluating people, in the evaluation of Feng and Zhou, he is always realistic and not emotional, and it is precisely this that makes him become the white moonlight in the minds of many female audiences.
Objectively speaking, Cai Xiaoguang's evaluation of Feng Huacheng and Zhou Rong was very pertinent, and he also pointed out the problems in the marriage of Feng and Zhou to the point. Zhou Rong did pay a lot for this love and marriage, for Feng Huacheng did not hesitate to run away from home, and even broke with the family, the big old man ran from the northeast to the southwest, but Feng Huacheng did not pay less, for Zhou Rong's mother and daughter went to the library that they did not want to go to, and then gave up their hometown Beijing, came to the northeast Jichun, started again, and also gave gifts in a low voice to please people in order to share the house, and the two really did not owe anyone. Unfortunately, Zhou Rong always ignored Feng Huacheng's efforts and looked at each other with a lofty posture, and it was no wonder that Feng Huacheng couldn't stand it and accepted Wang Zi. In this love that opens with a vigorous opening and ends with Lao Yan's separation, the responsibility is really in Zhou Rong, wang Zi's appearance is just a catalyst, even if there is no Wang Zi, Feng Huacheng will eventually divorce Zhou Rong, the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to move.
From the two persuasions before and after, it can also be seen that Cai Xiaoguang is a true love for Zhou Rong, his love has never faded, he has not taken advantage of the danger of people, blindly belittled Feng Huacheng, did not stir up dissension or even persuade Feng Huacheng in every quarrel, but actively persuaded, even if in the end Feng Huacheng proposed divorce, did not desperately say bad things about Feng Huacheng and fully expressed himself, but gave a pertinent evaluation, persuaded Zhou Rong to liberate each other, and let everyone live a better life. Such a man is really rare in the world, no wonder in the end Zhou Rong still chose Cai Xiaoguang, even if she never worshipped Cai Xiaoguang. Because Cai Xiaoguang was good to her, since the death of her parents, she felt that she was an orphan and she was too eager to be loved, and Cai Xiaoguang just satisfied her in this regard.
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