Knowing Su Zhaohe and the old man has been more than ten years, the first time I met Su Zhao and the old man, I think he is quite pitiful, a person living in a dilapidated house, every time I see those old people who have a difficult life, there is always an unspeakable heartache in my heart, this time when I see Su Zhao and the old man, it is obvious that his body is much worse than before, and he has already had white hair, and it can be seen from the wrinkles on his face that he has experienced a lot of ups and downs.
Sometimes, I will ask myself in my heart, why do people live in this life, I have not yet found the answer, this time to see Su Zhaohe and the old man, I bought him a few clothes, by the way to change the sheets and bedding for him, many people do not understand Su Zhao and the old man, in fact, when he was young, he was also a young and promising young man, but what happened later, the blow to him is too big, I feel that fate is really unfair to him, should not treat an old man like this.
In 1974, Su Zhaohe went to the countryside to beidahuang farm for 5 years, these years he has not returned home, because when he came to beidahuang farm, Su Zhaohe was very unhappy in his heart, as the second eldest in the family, Su Zhaohe could not have had to go to beidahuang farm to suffer, but at that time, his parents were biased and gave the only job quota to Su Zhaohe's eldest brother Su Mingcheng.
Su Zhaohe has three brothers and sisters, Su Mingcheng is the eldest in the family, but also the most unconscious one in the family, junior high school graduation began to work, but because of the low eye, the family to find a job is not good to do, just in 1969, as the old three high school graduates Su Zhaohe also urgently need a job, otherwise he can only go to the field to join the team, Su Zhaohe's parents are hard to entrust people to find a job in the power plant, originally this quota was intended for Su Zhaohe, But the boss Su Mingcheng felt that the work at the power plant should be easier and more comfortable, so he shouted for his parents to give themselves the opportunity to work.
Su Zhaohe's parents are also in a dilemma, the palms of their hands and the backs of their hands are meat, but their parents feel that the boss Su Mingcheng is not young, if he can find a decent job, it will be much easier to find a partner, Su Zhaohe's parents are also anxious to hold their grandson, they did not consult with Su Zhaohe, and gave the opportunity to work to the boss Su Mingcheng.
Su Zhaohe felt very wronged in his heart, but in the brotherhood, Su Zhaohe still chose to be patient, in 1974 the eldest brother Su Mingcheng wrote that his mother was seriously ill, let Su Zhaohe hurry home for a trip, Su Zhaohe only went back to his hometown in Tianjin, seeing his mother lying on the bed, Su Zhaohe's inner complaints have disappeared, he has forgiven his mother, a month later Su Zhaohe's mother died of illness, after taking care of his mother's affairs, Su Zhaohe returned to the Northern Wilderness.
But soon after returning to the farm, there was gossip about Su Zhaohe, saying that Su Zhaohe had an affair with the farm breeder Wang Xiaoyan, at that time Su Zhaohe belonged to the 22nd Regiment 4 Company of the Production and Construction Corps, and there were regulations in the regiment that it was not allowed to fall in love, because it involved the problem of style, Su Zhaohe and Wang Xiaoyan were investigated at the same time, and the results of the investigation were artificial rumors, and the person who spread the rumors was Su Zhaohe's ma Wancai in the same dormitory, because Ma Wancai had always liked Wang Xiaoyan in his heart, but Wang Xiaoyan and Su Zhaohe usually walked closer. After Ma Wancai confessed to Wang Xiaoyan that he was rejected, he wanted to take revenge on Su Zhaohe and Wang Xiaoyan, so he made rumors behind his back that the two of them were in love.
Because of this matter, it gave Su Zhaohe and Wang Xiaoyan the opportunity to contact, originally the two people liked each other, the two people were talking about love in a bright way, in 1978, Zhiqing began to return to the city one after another, and also allowed Zhiqing to fall in love and get married, just in this year Su Zhaohe and Wang Xiaoyan married.
After marriage, Su Zhaohe stayed in beidahuang farm, because Su Zhaohe even if he went back to have no place to live, Su Zhaohe's old family house has long been occupied by his brother's family, in 1982, Wang Xiaoyan gave birth to his daughter Su Fang, because Su Zhaohe's hukou is in Beidahuang, in order to facilitate his daughter's future schooling, Su Zhaohe wants to put his daughter's hukou under the name of his father in Tianjin, but he was opposed by the eldest brother's family, and the eldest brother felt that Su Zhaohe still remembered the house in his heart, and he did not agree. In addition to Su Zhao and his sister-in-law's divorce, Su Zhaohe and his father did not agree to Su Zhaohe's request, and Su Zhaohe severed relations with the family in a fit of anger.
In 1987, Su Zhaohe took his wife Wang Xiaoyan out to work, leaving his daughter Su Fang alone, did not expect that his daughter Su Fang secretly ran out to play with his friends when she drowned, and when Su Zhaohe saw her daughter, her daughter had no breath, and the death of her daughter hit Su Zhaohe very hard, and Su Zhaohe once suffered from depression for a while.
Fortunately, with the company of his wife, Su Zhaohe gradually came out of the pain of losing his daughter, but another accident made Su Zhaohe completely collapse.
In 1992, Wang Xiaoyan found out the advanced stage of liver cancer during an experience, Su Zhaohe heard the news, his heart was very sad, the doctor said that Wang Xiaoyan could last for half a year at most, if there was any unfulfilled wish to hurry up, Wang Xiaoyan knew that he did not have much time, at that time they were not rich, Wang Xiaoyan was not hospitalized, took some medicine and was discharged.
Su Zhaohe accompanied Wang Xiaoyan through the last period of time, and Wang Xiaoyan said to Su Zhaohe before she died, "If you have the chance, find another one!" You alone I don't feel at ease", Su Zhaohe suffered from mental illness after suffering one blow after another, and recuperated in the hospital for three years before gradually recovering, Wang Zhaohe has been living by doing odd jobs since then, and now Wang Zhaohe although he has a low guarantee, he is not happy at all, he said that his happiness was not as early as thirty years ago.