Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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The most difficult person in the world to obtain self-redemption is a person who is deeply hurt in his feelings and does not know how to let go! The most easily healed wound in the world is the wound after experiencing betrayal!
Whether or not you can get self-salvation is actually a thought!
People who have experienced betrayal often say" I am in pain, I can't finish the pain..." Why?
Because, from the moment they learned of being betrayed, people who experienced betrayal turned their attention off when they faced problems because they were deeply affected by emotions.
After experiencing betrayal, what should I do first?
And betrayer hysteria?
Questioning the betrayer?
Launching an active attack on a third party?
Preaching your anger to friends and family?
In fact, if you do these actions, it proves that you are very wrong and very wrong!
And betrayer hysteria, what are you going to get? The betrayal has been formed, you know the facts, and you still question the betrayer whether it is "superfluous"?
Attacking a third party? How ridiculous! Aside from the fact that men are women, do you know how many people can be third parties? Do you really think that the person responsible is a third party?
Promote your atmosphere with friends and family? What a foolish act! What kind of empathy in the world? Don't care if others transpose you, you must know that what you should do is never to be a "Xianglin sister-in-law".
In the face of betrayal, you should only do the following:
First: To what extent does the current relationship make you "nostalgic"?
If your relationship continues, can you be betrayed again, and treat the experience of betrayal as if it did not happen, these two psychological preparations? Nostalgia, you must have enough ability to withstand another betrayal or the ability to stop crying out for the hurt you have suffered.
If you are reluctant to bear the pressure enough, it can only mean that you are not in pain enough!
If you want the relationship to end, then you should not be in your own pain, can not extricate yourself.
Second: Whether the relationship continues or ends, what should you focus on?
The betrayer has done something that betrays you for the sake of lust and selfishness, and you mention your toil and your feelings or children to him again, do you think it is useful?
Even if you make the betrayer soften for a while, this must not be his heartfelt "nostalgia".
So, in the face of such a situation, whether you choose to continue or end the relationship, you should consider your own interests, not crying with your eyes for reasons you don't know.
If, if you really feel that you are wronged or unwilling, you will fight for your own best interests.
Third: At the most appropriate time, seek ways to maximize the benefits from professionals!
Some people who have experienced betrayal will only cry and find someone to complain about when faced with an irreparable marital relationship. As a result, it was finally discovered that the betrayer had disappeared along with the common good.
When experiencing betrayal, be sure to consult a professional at the most appropriate time to protect your due interests.
Of course, if you think that the benefits are not important, and you just want to stay away from people who are not worthy, then you can simply turn around neatly, provided that you don't regret it!
In real life, we see more people who have experienced betrayal and always "call for help" to the betrayer. I always feel that the pain of experiencing betrayal is given by the betrayer, and he can heal himself.
In fact, the betrayer in this "game" only bears the responsibility of stabbing you. To cure this thing, he will not do it, and he will not be able to do it.
Once a wound is formed, it is an irreparable wound. Unless, however, the deeply hurt person himself has let go and forgiven completely, he will be healed.
And the person who heals himself is not someone else, but he knows how to let go and stop the loss in time.
After experiencing betrayal, learn to "pluck the thorn" for yourself! You can attain salvation. Only by doing so can we help you get out of the predicament!
After experiencing betrayal, the answer to whether you are still loved is no.
Whether or not they can get the real care and care and heartache of the betrayer is also negative.
Whether or not you can believe the betrayer's answer is even more negative.
That being the case, if you still want to rely on the betrayer, it only means that your mind is not very clear.
Betrayal, the reason why people have self-doubt and too many negative emotions, is because they feel deeply bruised and frustrated. However, such emotions do not benefit themselves at all.
Even the people who know you best and care about you can empathize with you, but your life is ultimately your own, and no one can share the pain of your experience.
At most, others can accompany you occasionally. How long it will take you to get out of the pain, you must not hope that no one, whether a betrayer or a relative or friend, will not be able to fundamentally redeem you.
In addition, although you have experienced betrayal, you must not lose confidence in your feelings from now on.
You know, there are too many beautiful people in this world waiting for you to hug, and there are really right people waiting for you to hug each other, why let yourself lose the opportunity to be interlinked with the beautiful from now on because of a wrong combination?
Don't hate the third person, thank this person, so that you can recognize the true face of the person in front of you.
Don't always hate the betrayer too much, and thank him for giving you the freedom to face life at the right time.
Don't always think that the people around you don't feel empathy for you, understand that only the cold of the world can make you understand what growth and maturity are.
No matter how old you are, remember:
The rest of your life is still very long, even if you are fifty or sixty years old, but you still have decades to go! So, you have to love yourself and redeem yourself. When you truly become a powerful person, what the betrayer has done, you are truly relieved!
Because, when you stand at a certain height, you don't care who you are looking down on!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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