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If you lose your only daughter in middle age, will you have another child to accompany you? If you don't have an answer, read today's story! The protagonist of the story is named Guo Min, born in Nanchang, Jiangxi in 1954, when he was young, he worked as an accountant in a factory in his hometown, and later met and married a worker surnamed Liu in the factory. In 1981, at the age of 27, Guo Min had a daughter, Liu Linghui. Because she is an only daughter, Guo Min regards Liu Linghui as a pearl in her hand.
In 1992, in order to provide a better life for her daughter, the 38-year-old quit her hometown job, left her hometown, and came to Beijing alone to work. Due to the long-term separation of the two places, the husband filed for divorce and took away the only daughter of the two, Liu Linghui. In 2001, at the age of 47, Guo Min remarried to marry her current husband, Ren Hansheng. When the days were more stable, she couldn't wait to bring her daughter to Beijing to make up for the emotional debt she had for her daughter for many years.
In 2003, when a SARS attack hit Beijing, Guo Min's ex-husband asked his daughter Liu Linghui to go home and live for a while to avoid SARS. At 12:00 p.m. on November 21, 2005, Liu Linghui was about to go out because of an affair, and finally died in a car accident. Hearing of the death of his beloved daughter, 51-year-old Guo Min was devastated, white hair overnight, felt that the sky had fallen, insomnia all night, could not see hope, could not see the light, there was no hope for the future, and did not want to live.
Unable to release her daughter's death, Guo Min is ready to adopt a child, so she often pays attention to adoption information. In 2008, at the age of 54, she saw in the newspaper that a 60-year-old Japanese woman had given birth to a son through test tubes. Guo Min thought that she was 6 years younger than her, she could give birth to children with test tubes, then I could also, after I gave birth, I would not have to adopt again. Then, she successfully conceived herself through a test tube.
However, 9 days later, Guo Min miscarried. However, she did not give up, and according to the doctor's advice, she raised her body at home for more than 1 year. In 2010, 56-year-old Guo Min finally gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses through test tubes, the daughter was called Jiayi, and the son was called Jiabin. With both children and daughters, has Guo Min begun to live happily ever after? Not really. In July 2013, Guo Min's 65-year-old wife was paralyzed in bed, unable to move, and was sent to the home of her son born to his ex-wife.
At this time, Guo Min was 59 years old. After the husband was taken back to his son's home, his pension Guo Min could not be used, and he could only raise 2 children with his pension of 1700 yuan per month. It is conceivable that the lives of these 3 people are extremely difficult. How hard is it? She returned the original 600-block January house and rented a 400-block cottage with an area of less than 20 square meters. Every day at 5 o'clock, Guo Min has to get up early, cook for her two children, and send her to kindergarten at 7:30.
After that, Guo Min took the steamed buns, took a bus of about 4 cents, and went to Beijing's Haidian District and other places to help 7 small companies sort out their finances, so that there was an income of 1400 to 2100 yuan. Coupled with a monthly pension of 1700 yuan, there is a total income of about 3500 yuan in January. In order to save money for meals, the steamed bun is her lunch. On the way to pick up and drop off children, Guo Min also has to pick up some garbage to sell, because this can have a subsidy of more than 20 yuan a week.
Because the income is too low and the burden is too heavy, Guo Min and 2 children have to be careful to eat: 1 3 catties of fish is bought back, and 3 people have to eat for 1 month. The first time I chopped the fish head and tail to boil the soup, the remaining fish body was chopped up with 2 knives and frozen, and stewed for 3 sections for 3 weeks. Every time I buy pork belly, the child doesn't have enough to eat. The most tragic time was that she took her child to eat steamed buns for 6 consecutive days, stayed up for 6 all night to finish the work, and did not have time to make a fish head soup for the child until the 7th.
As for the children's toys and clothes, they were all given by others. You know, this is in Beijing, China today. But even if it is so difficult, Guo Min still does his best to provide the best life for his longfeng fetal daughter ~ milk powder, milk, yogurt are guaranteed every day, eggs are eaten once a day, and dumplings are eaten once a week. And she herself often only eats some sour radish and pickles, in order to save money to raise her children.
In addition to basic education, Guo Min also enrolled her son for 80 yuan a month of physical education classes, and her daughter also reported 80 yuan a month of dance classes. Later, Guo Min's salary also rose a little, and it could be about 5,000 a month. Therefore, she calculates at home every day: 2560 yuan per month for various expenditures, and can save 1500 a month. The money saved is kept for Guo Min when he is old and cannot make money, and is used for 2 children. It's not much, but it's better than nothing.
In 2018, Guo Min's wife died of a stroke, which made her realize that she should try to live more time, make more money, and preferably work for another 10 years without getting sick and save enough for the living expenses of her children. Because once you get sick, not only can you not earn a penny, but you also have to spend money to see a doctor, and the 2 children are not taken care of. As long as you can work for another 10 years, even if you are gone, a pair of children are 18 years old, have grown up, and you have nothing to worry about.
Today, Guo Min is 67 years old, and her twin children are only 10 years old. What if she had three long and two short ones? For this question, Guo Min also considered giving it to others to raise, so he asked the two children: "Mother is sick, do you want to live in a rich family?" "But they were all rejected by the children, who said they were willing to live a hard life with their mothers." After hearing the child's answer, Guo Min felt that he could not stand the 2 children and let them suffer with him.
However, she was very relieved to see that the child was so obedient. After all, as long as the family is happy and peaceful, what does it matter if the days are bitter. Previously, there have been media reports on Guo Min's affairs, many people came to her, some asked her for advice on the method of giving birth to an advanced age, some helped her, donated money and materials, and some wanted to adopt Long Feng's brothers and sisters, but they were rejected. For now, although the life of the family of 3 is a little difficult, don't worry too much.
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