Zhou Bingyi died of illness for just over 4 months, Hao Dongmei got married in lightning, and before marriage, he also went to South Korea for a plastic surgery, dressed himself beautifully, and happily married.
Hao Dongmei's behavior makes many people wonder, obviously she and Zhou Bingyi have a good relationship, why did Zhou Bingyi just die of illness a few months ago and she married?
In fact, as long as you understand the feelings of Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei, and understand the personalities of the two of them, you can understand why Hao Dongmei remarried so quickly?
Zhou Bingyi is the son of a third-line worker, and Hao Dongmei is the governor of the province, and the status of the two is very different, if they could not walk together in peacetime. However, they were born in a special era, Hao Dongmei's parents were beaten into rightists, life and death are unknown, and Zhou Bingyi's identity is the red five categories of the root of Miao Hong, making their identity drop one by one at once, which also makes their love no longer have any obstacles.
Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei's love has no artificial obstacles, but they all have psychological obstacles.
In Zhou Bingyi's heart, he did not know when Hao Dongmei's father would be able to take off the hat of the rightist and restore his status as a provincial governor, and he was not sure whether Hao Dongmei was willing to marry himself at this time.
In Hao Dongmei's heart, she did not know whether Zhou Bingyi was willing to marry herself, after all, she was the daughter of the rightist.
Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei are very much in love, but they love each other too rationally, have concerns, can't let go, can't be casual, so zhou Bingyi had a psychological activity in the original work.
His love relationship with Dongmei has always been tender as water, the level is like a mirror, the water level has neither risen by a point, nor has it dropped by a point, it is so gentle and gentle in the state of stopping the water, at first Bingyi is not dissatisfied, but year after year of gentle love, love the past, he gradually feels that there is a lack of some important factor in their love, that is, the warm passion that his sister Zhou Rong said.
A pair of male and female love in their twenties, without any passion, is completely warm, and every time they see each other is a routine formula, only a hug, which makes Zhou Bingyi feel dissatisfied, he wants to change.
However, whether it was his personality or Hao Dongmei's personality, they did not break this tender and watery mode of getting along, so their love was not pure.
They have become accustomed to each other, getting along year after year, they have regarded each other as a part of their lives, as relatives, rather than lovers and lovers, so they lack passion.
When Zhou Bingyi had the opportunity to work in the Shenyang Military Region, he chose to give up because he could not lose Hao Dongmei.
His choice this time is not so much that he is not willing to lose Hao Dongmei, but rather that his sense of responsibility and morality makes him unable to abandon Hao Dongmei at this time. Or with the heart of a villain, speculating on Zhou Bingyi's political sensitivity, he has realized that Hao Dongmei's parents will definitely be rehabilitated, and he can't fall into an ungrateful crime and abandon Hao Dongmei, if so, it is equivalent to picking up sesame seeds and losing watermelons, after all, Hao Dongmei's father is a provincial governor, and his mother is also a big person with high qualifications and ranks.
Hao Dongmei knew that he had the opportunity to work in the Shenyang Military Region, but for his own sake but did not go, he was very angry, and specially talked to him deeply, hoping that he would not worry about himself and go to work in the Shenyang Military Region.
People who really love each other, people who love each other purely, want two people to be together and not separate. Just like Zhou Rong, who also had to run to the southwest to find Feng Huacheng, completely disregarding his own involvement, and regardless of the dangers and hardships of the future, Hao Dongmei's anger made people feel a little puzzled.
Zhou Bingyi's sense of morality, responsibility, or selfishness made him unable to abandon Hao Dongmei, and Hao Dongmei was unwilling to delay his future, for fear that he would blame himself in the future, and tried his best to persuade him to work in the Shenyang Military Region.
Both people seem to be very great, both thinking about each other, both for each other's good, but this just shows a problem. There was no hot love between them, no intense possessiveness. They are a little dissatisfied with their love, they all have the desire to change, but whether it is the environment or habits, they do not have the courage to bring it up, nor do they have the courage to terminate the relationship, and they are married in this situation.
After they got married, Zhou Bingyi, under the interference of his mother-in-law, went to the military factory as the party secretary, and in order to solve the problems of the military factory, he went to the Soviet Union alone.
When the Soviet Union encountered difficulties in buying warships, he met Oria, and with the help of Leah, Zhou Bingyi successfully bought a warship, and the two also developed feelings, kissed in public, and spread lace news. After returning to China, under the pressure of Hao Dongmei, Zhou Bingyi admitted that he had real feelings.
However, Hao Dongmei did not have a big fight with Zhou Bingyi, nor did he overly jealousy, as if he accepted it so much, and did not mention the matter again after that.
Zhou Bingyi's move seems to be a helpless move, and Hao Dongmei's move seems to be very generous, and it is precisely in this way that it is more telling. People who have watched "Parental Love" know that Anjie has been married to Jiang Defu once, and there is a rural wife who has always been grumpy and must mention it when he thinks about it.
Why is Anjie so jealous? Is it because she loves Jiang Defu and wants to monopolize Jiang Defu? He was once upset with a woman, but what about Hao Dongmei and Zhou Bingyi? During their marriage, the husband confesses to his wife that he has real feelings for another young woman, and the wife is like that, is there really love between them? It's suspicious.
Zhou Bingyi became an official everywhere, hao Dongmei accompanied his mother in Jichun, and the two have been separated from each other, rarely see each other, and even sometimes do not spend the Spring Festival together.
Hao Dongmei's mother can still have an excuse when she is alive, Hao Dongmei wants to accompany her mother, but after her mother's death, the two of them are still separated.
Even during the Spring Festival, Hao Dongmei had to spend the Chinese New Year's Eve with Zhou Bingkun and Zhou Rong in the old house of the Zhou family first, and then took the car to find Zhou Bingyi in the first year.
This makes people unable to understand, the two people are not together as adults, the New Year, do not hurry to get together to get together, warm storage, Hao Dongmei instead with the Zhou family brothers and sisters to spend the Chinese New Year's Eve, before going to find a husband. It was as if it were a ritual, and there was no urge in the mind to see the other person.
After they retired, they got along like a normal couple day and night, and they later traveled abroad together, and the people who received them were Hao Dongmei's children, most of whom were second-generation officials, and none of them were Friends of Zhou Bingyi.
I don't know if there are indeed no friends of Zhou Bingyi abroad, or Hao Dongmei began to miss her childhood friends and began to miss her former circle of life, so their Hong Kong, Macao and Taiwan tourism, New Malaysia-Thailand tourism, Japan-Singapore tourism, and later European tourism, all of them received them were Hao Dongmei's friends.
After their retirement trip, Hao Dongmei basically stringed together her original friends again, as if she had returned to her original circle of life.
At that time, Zhou Bingyi's stomach cancer was already very serious, and they all knew that Zhou Bingyi had little time left.
After their retirement, this trip has traveled most of the world, and they tacitly let Hao Dongmei return to the original circle of life, and have already considered the meaning of his posthumous affairs.
Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei are two people who raise their eyebrows together, and their feelings are like water, they are feelings like relatives, but they lack the fierce love of exclusivity. Moreover, they are both people with a strong sense of morality, a strong sense of responsibility, and strong self-discipline, so their feelings and lives have formed habits and have become a model.
Understand their feelings, understand their personalities and their way of life, and understand why Hao Dongmei got married in a lightning bolt?
Because Zhou Bingyi knows that he owes Hao Dongmei, and his love for Hao Dongmei is a family-like love, he hopes that she will be happy. Therefore, Hao Dongmei's remarriage is not only Zhou Bingyi's wish before his death, but also Hao Dongmei's own plan.
Hao Dongmei's second husband is also a second generation of red, almost 70 years old, has long held a U.S. green card, is her expatriate friends to tie the line and bridge for them.
Hao Dongmei underwent cosmetic surgery in South Korea before marriage, and when Zhou Bingkun saw her again, she felt that she was suddenly five or six years younger, and her face was once again satisfied.
Hao Dongmei, who is more than 60 years old, also went to South Korea to do plastic surgery for love, and it is really a woman who is pleasing to herself, she finally returned to herself, found a new home, and found love.