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Today's dog food group Q&A extension:
I am particularly easy to fall in love with the brain, chatting and chatting began to suffer from gains and losses, and began to brain supplement each other, especially some boys who have not yet met, I will first attack myself.
How do I maintain a stable mindset?
First of all, I think that if a person is just excellent, I will appreciate him as an idol, appreciate him as a paper person, and appreciate him as a very good little friend next to me, but his excellence has nothing to do with me.
The difference between appreciation and admiration lies in the word of love.
A person's excellence intersects with me, and when he starts to show me his altruism, I think this person may have something to do with me.
So in order to push the feelings to the point where he is willing to show me altruism, in the early stages I may do everything in my power to make the other party notice my existence, recognize some of my strengths and characteristics, and in some intersections, he further understands me, judges me as a person in the range of his mate selection through some of the good feelings I release, and calculates my value.
If my value is okay in his evaluation system, I think he shouldn't skimp on giving me the altruism I want.
Yes, all the good people who don't show me any altruism are my to me.
I can't unilaterally start liking a person because they are good, and this kind of crush is better for me than to go to dinner and idol obsess over paper people.
At least the likelihood of collapsing is a little smaller.
People are divided into stirring and not moving.
If he can't move, let him not move.
Originally, I also did my best to obey the destiny, and I had touched it myself, and I didn't regret it.
So when I meet a boy who is OK, I can be very active in behavior and very skilled in skills.
On the one hand, I want to see this person and I can't move, on the other hand, I want to see what else can be discovered after his surface, is it a plus or a minus?
But when I was flirting with the man, my mentality was as steady as an old dog, really stable as an old dog.
Young people like to fall in love with love, and they are touched by the beautiful qualities made up by their own brains, and all kinds of catching winds and shadows prove that they are loved.
We old single dogs don't waste our feelings at this stage.
Our ultimate goal is to get the other person to like me, and then recalculate the value of the other person to see if he is worthy of our further likes.
Because if I plan to fall in love, I may use the perspective of God, that is, the feeling of really playing the game of love.
I think if I play a few more different female-oriented otome games, I will almost know what the routine is, and then know how to test.
You think, this person he did not express good feelings for me, why should I be impressed with him? Isn't that a terrible thing? Why should I take my heart out at such an early stage, and why should I suffer from gain and loss for such a person?
It's really hard for me to understand why some people should be moved so early.
At this stage of pimping, this man I have never met, he is not as good as my ordinary female friends, ah, why do I have a heart for this kind of person?
I have never seen him, what is the object of my affection? What am I doing to someone who made up my brain?
How much do I know about him?
So, so I will think: Ah, this person is actually very far away from me, I just want to be friends with him, I just want to get acquainted with him.
Then if I want to get acquainted with him, I must show myself to make intersections, check his account, and further judge his value, especially his value to me.
Instead of me thinking there: Oh, this person is actually very good, how can it satisfy my fantasies.
Then I'm going to unilaterally like him, like someone I make up for.
I wondered:
The object of my gain and loss, how to pay the willingness and ability to pay are all understood, hey, this person really hardware passed, the software is OK, he really likes me, I'm a little afraid of delaying people, people are already with me to force the official announcement.
I'm now wrestling: I want to stop looking? Or am I going to go from here now?
At this stage, I will suffer from gains and losses, and I will be a little entangled in my heart: Hey, this person has chased me like this, the salary card is about to be handed over to me, how can he ignore me.
I have to make a decision, whether I like people or not, whether to talk about it?
I probably won't get tangled up until this stage.
What is pure chatting, what has met once or twice, what has only played cards together, is this kind of person worthy of occupying such a precious emotional quota of mine?
I'm really curious as to why some people fall in love with love.
We make a friend, every girlfriend has to consider each other's personality in an all-round way, the attitude of handling things, whether it is compatible or not.
There are a few things that we have to go through to see if the other person deserves to stay in our inner circle.
Why do some people put love, which should obviously be more cautious than friendship, on a person who does not understand at all.
What's so special about it, isn't it just a good hormone outbreak?
How many people loved people to death and come back to life, once they passed that stage, they couldn't bear to look at it directly.
What is the black history of this life going to do?
Park the tip of the iceberg at the tip of the iceberg, really want to know, drive your boat, walk around the iceberg, and then dive down to see what he is underneath, don't take the tip of the iceberg to make up how beautiful and harmless the whole iceberg is.
To fall in love with your own brain patch, to fall in love with your fantasies, is to suffer, little girl.