When I first watched "Xue Pinggui and Wang Baojun", I didn't like the role of Princess Daizhan because I used modern thinking, and I always felt that Princess Daizhan was the culprit who destroyed the marriage between Xue Pinggui and Wang Baojun, interfered in their marriage, and harmed Wang Baojun.
After the second brush, I found that this actually resented the princess.
When Princess Daizhan fell in love with Xue Pinggui at first sight, Xue Pinggui had not yet married Wang Baojun, at that time, Xue Pinggui was just a beggar, Wang Baojun was a Xiangfu Qianjin, and the affairs of the two of them were strongly opposed by Wang Baojun's father, and the possibility of being together was extremely low.
After Xue Pinggui married Wang Baojun, he went on an expedition to Xiliang and met princess Daizhan on the battlefield. Xue Pinggui was framed by Wei Hu and Wei Bao, poisoned, rushed into the enemy camp, and was saved by Princess Daizhan. If it weren't for Princess Daizhan falling in love with him and trying to protect him, Xue Pinggui would have been killed by Xi Liang long ago.
Seeing that his daughter was obsessed with Xue Pinggui, it was useless to oppose it, so the king and queen of Xiliang had to agree to their marriage, but Xue Pinggui was still worried about waiting for his own Wang Baojun in Wujiapo at this time, and had to go back to see Wang Baojun and obtain Wang Baojun's consent to marry Princess Daizhan again.
Wang Baojun's existence, Princess Daizhan did not know, in order not to hurt their daughter, the king and queen of Xiliang also refused to accept their only daughter, the honorable Princess Xiliang and other women to serve a husband, so they let Ling Xiao go with them and killEd Wang Baojun.
Due to the persecution of Wei Bao and others, Wang Baojun left Wujiapo and also released rumors of remarriage, which made Xue Pinggui misunderstand, discouraged, no longer nostalgic for the Central Plains, returned to Xiliang, married Princess Daizhan, became a donkey, and also inherited the throne of Xiliang.
Poor Wang Baojun not only lost his child, but was also misunderstood by Xue Pinggui, and only with the hope that Xue Pinggui might still be alive, he kept the cold kiln for eighteen years.
18 years! How many eighteen years can there be in life? What is even more cruel is that in these 18 years, Wang Baojun painstakingly guarded the cold kiln, ate chaff vegetables, relied on wild vegetables and other fruits, and suffered a lot, but Xue Pinggui became a king, had a pair of children, and lived a happy and harmonious life with the Daizhan family of 4, enjoying glory and wealth. If ge Da Geqing had not gone to him and brought Wang Baojun's blood book, he would have decided that Wang Baojun had failed him and remarried him, but he did not know that he was the negative man.
Why are they all married to Xue Pinggui, all very obsessed with him, and the experiences of Wang Baojun and Princess Daizhan are very different?
Comparing the life trajectories of Wang Baojun and Dai Zhan, you can find that the reason why their experiences are different is mainly because one has fallen out with the mother's family, and the other has the support of the mother's family.
01. Wang Baojun rebelled against her parents for love and was expelled from the Xiang Mansion, and Xue Pinggui was the only hope to support her to live;
In order to marry Xue Pinggui, Wang Baojun did a very stupid thing, cutting off his own back road, that is, falling out with his father, breaking off the father-daughter relationship with his father three times, and being expelled from the Wang family.
Wang Yun's opposition to Wang Baojun's marriage to Xue Pinggui is really understandable. First of all, no father wants to give his spoiled daughter to a beggar and let her live a life without eating.
Secondly, Wang Yun is a minister, a being above ten thousand people under one person, what kind of son-in-law can't find it? How could he possibly look up to Xue Pinggui?
In the end, Xue Pinggui was unruly and repeatedly brushed Wang Yun's face, how could Wang Yun not be annoyed?
However, Wang Baojun was blinded by love, only knowing that there was love to drink and drink, but he forgot the truth that it was difficult for a smart woman to cook without rice, and regardless of the actual situation, he had to marry Xue Pinggui and cut off the back road of his mother's family.
Wang Baojun rebelled against her parents for love and was expelled from the Xiang Mansion, and Xue Pinggui was the only hope to support her to live. She had been guarding the cold kiln for eighteen years, which was not only a love affair, but also a helpless move, after all, she had nowhere to go.
Although wang yun still had this daughter in his heart, he asked Wang Baojun to bow his head and ask Wang Baojun to marry someone else, but Wang Baojun refused to compromise with his father, and his mother's family naturally could not go back.
02. If Xue Pinggui wants to sit firmly in the position of the King of Western Liang, he cannot do without the support of dai zhan, and he does not dare to live up to dai zhan;
On the other hand, here the Princess of Daizhan is here, and the mother's family has become the biggest confidence for the Princess of Daizhan to seize Xue Pinggui's heart.
First of all, Xue Pinggui was originally from the Central Plains, and he was once a fierce enemy of Xiliang, and he could become the king of Xiliang by relying on the princess of the battle. He married the only daughter of King Xiliang and became Xiliang's son-in-law, so that he had the opportunity to show his ability to govern the country, let King Xiliang look at him differently, and definitely pass the throne to him. If it weren't for the Princess of Daizhan, he wouldn't have the qualifications to become the King of Western Liang at all.
Secondly, Dai Zhan is the Princess of Xiliang, the goddess in the minds of the people of Xiliang, and the existence that they most do not tolerate the insults of others. If Xue Pinggui failed the Princess of Daizhan, he would most likely lose the hearts of the people and lose everything he had now, and he did not have the courage to fail the Princess of Daizhan at all.
In the end, Ling Xiao, the cousin of Princess Dai zhan, has always had a crush on dai zhan, but unfortunately, the sky is not against people's wishes, and in the end, Ling Xiao chooses to let go and complete Xue Pinggui and Dai Zhan. In order to keep the happiness of the Princess of Daizhan forever, Ling Xiao would rather let her misunderstand, but also take charge of the military power, so that Xue Pinggui can be restrained and unable to do whatever he wants.
The mother's family is the underpinnings of the princess xue pinggui, as long as Xue Pinggui dares to bear her, Xi Liang will not finish with Xue Pinggui.
Even if Xue Pinggui didn't consider the feelings of the two people and didn't care about the children of the two people, he had to take care of his hard-won happiness.
Feeling guilty, he went to see Wang Baojun, but he never thought of leaving Princess Daizhan and Xiliang, but planned to take Wang Baojun back to Xiliang to live together.
03. Mother's family is a woman's big confidence.
The writer Yi Shu once said: "No matter how far you marry, the girls please keep a return ticket for themselves." ”
If you have a strong mother's family behind you, you will have the courage to face any tribulations when running a marriage, dare to give up the impact, even if you fail, the marriage is broken, you don't have to worry about the way back.
If a woman's mother's family is very powerful and will protect her, men and in-laws should also weigh their attitude towards women, if they touch a hard nail, or lose both, it will not be good for them.
Mother's family is a woman's great confidence, but whether it can become your backing depends on your performance.
As a daughter, if you do not honor your parents, do not have a grateful heart, and let your parents feel disappointed, your parents will not always tolerate you and protect you.
As a sister-in-law, if you can't handle the relationship with your brother's wife, and the sister-in-law's relationship is not harmonious, which affects the brother's marriage, then you will also lose your mother's family. Therefore, women must deal with the relationship with their mother's family, which is good for you and your parents.
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Today's topic: What do you think of Wang Baojun's three high-fives for love and his father, and the severance of the father-daughter relationship? Feel free to share your views in the comments section.