Author: Xue Mo Editor: Jia Fangfang
Source: Journal of Marriage and Family
ID：hunyinyujiating99
Recently, Zhang Fengyi and Chen Baoguo co-starred in "Mountains and Rivers Moon Ming" is being broadcast.
Who would have thought that this great general played by Zhang Fengyi who dared to fight with the emperor was actually afraid of his girlfriend at home.
In order to eat the roast goose and hide in Tibet, he was finally caught by his girlfriend and was taught a lesson, saying that he did not follow the doctor's advice, and he was aggrieved but did not dare to return his mouth.
So much so that Xu Da, played by Zhang Fengyi, with the speed of flying, likes to mention the name of "female treasure father".
However, in the play, it is the "female treasure father" loved by everyone, and Zhang Fengyi outside the play is not like this at all.
Known as a "tough guy", he was married twice and had a son with his ex-wife.
He was quite "harsh" towards this only son: he openly said that his image was not good, not suitable for show business, and even refused to attend his son's wedding.
But rao was so, but the son said that his father was his life's role model.
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A "tough guy" complex that grows in the bones
Many people like Zhang Fengyi because they love his heroic spirit of "taking a submachine gun and going to the battlefield".
Jiang Daya in "The Sky of History", Sun Liren in "The Chinese Expeditionary Force", Xue Yue in "The Defense of Changsha"...
And he himself is particularly fond of this genre.
I remember someone once asked Zhang Fengyi, after acting in so many "tough guy" dramas, will he be aesthetically tired?
He was surprised to say that the tough guy role was not enough, how could he get bored?
When he was young, he wanted to be a tough guy, the kind of muscular and cerebral man.
And all this is related to his family background.
In 1956, Zhang Fengyi was born in a military family in Hunan, and went to Yunnan with his father at a very young age.
From a young age, he had a military complex.
When he was young, he had been to the National Martyrs Cemetery in Tengchong, Yunnan, and the impact made him unforgettable and made a wish:
In his lifetime, he must take over military dramas and anti-war dramas, and he must carry up his guns and fight fiercely with the enemy.
To this end, he has also been preparing.
At the age of 11, he went to the drama school to learn Peking Opera, specializing in the role of martial arts students. In 1971, with his outstanding basic skills, he was successfully admitted to the literary troupe and soon became a "pillar of the platform".
However, Zhang Fengyi, who aspires to be far away, is not satisfied with this.
In 1978, after the national college entrance examination was resumed, he was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy and became classmates with Zhang Tielin, Xie Yuan and others.
At that time, they were flourishing and were the leaders of the entire industry. Like the big guys, Zhang Fengyi also had an inexplicable confidence in his heart, thinking that he could one day become the second Zhao Dan.
Of course, self-confidence is not the same as conceit, his self-confidence comes from hard work.
In his words:
"You have to be ready, always ready, the so-called always ready is that you act to the end is to fight culture, you read a lot of books, and then constantly exercise to maintain that momentum." 」
That's what he said, and he did even more.
In addition to practicing acting kung fu, he exercised for many years, maintained 8-pack abs, and was particularly strong in learning culture classes, so that his homework often became a model for his classmates to copy. He also practiced English diligently, thinking that if he encountered large sections of English lines in the future, he could also speak them fluently.
It is often said that opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared.
Zhang Fengyi interpreted this sentence very well.
In his sophomore year, he had a contract to play the male lead in "Treasure Hunting Outside the Plug", and the next year he was selected to play the protagonist "Shoko" in "Shoko the Camel".
In 1983, "Camel Xiangzi" won 4 awards at the third Golden Rooster Awards, although Zhang Fengyi personally did not win anything, but he debuted and met a good role, which was already a great gain for him.
Because of the role of "Shoko", he felt the charm of the performance for the first time.
Since then, he has won several outstanding actor awards. In 1993, he starred in "Farewell to the King" with Zhang Guorong and Gong Li, and "Duan Xiaolou", who was heavy and handsome, captured a number of fans.
After that, he smoothly turned to the TV drama circle, realized the dream of "resisting the robbery on the battlefield" in one fell swoop, completely became synonymous with "tough guys", won the award and got soft hands, and the best works followed one by one: "Fog Capital", "The Name of the People", "A Generation of Hong Shang"...
Coupled with his domineering appearance and personality, he has become a well-deserved "drama bully". For this title, he was very happy, and joked: "Drama bully, that is, the meaning of the performance artist." ”
However, the so-called "success is also Xiao He defeat is also Xiao He".
Domineering, in the career can often become a god assist, but in life is often mixed.
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Two marriages, the ending is very different
In 1988, Zhang Fengyi married actor Lu Liping.
In the same year, the son of the two, Zhang Boyu, was born, and the family of three was happy and harmonious.
In 1990, "The Year of the Dragon Police Officer", which made Zhang Fengyi win the Outstanding Actor Award, was a film cooperated by Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping.
However, what caught people off guard was that the residual temperature of winning the award had not faded, and the relationship between the two was broken.
The two often quarreled fiercely over trivial matters, and neither of them would give in. The quarrel is much more, and the feelings are gradually exhausted.
In 1991, the 3-year marriage ended.
Zhang Fengyi knew that in this failed marriage, he had an unshirkable responsibility, and he was even more ashamed of his son.
However, in a broken marriage, what is not a kind of torture?
After the divorce, Zhang Fengyi fought harder in his career.
In 1993, a "Farewell to the Overlord" not only made him reach the peak of his career, but also accidentally met love.
One day, a friend told him that his classmate's sister was a die-hard fan of his and wanted to see him. Unable to wipe his face, Zhang Fengyi had to see it. And that fan is his current wife, Hovan.
At that time, Huo Fan was only 25 years old, 12 years younger than Zhang Fengyi, a dance teacher, and looked exactly like Lin Qingxia.
She especially admired Zhang Fengyi, and with the deepening of understanding, she transformed this worship into meticulous love and care. But Zhang Fengyi only regarded her as a little niece, and he felt that the gap between the two was too big.
In the end, Huo Fan still defeated Zhang Fengyi's toughness with gentleness.
What is amazing is that after marrying Huo Fan, the "tough guy" Zhang Fengyi turned into a model of "fear of wife".
He especially pampered his wife, took care of all the housework, had to call and report when he went out to shoot a scene, and gave the money to his wife.
On the issue of having children, he also had special respect for Hovan. The other party was afraid that the early birth of the baby would affect the dance career, and he did not say anything, even if later due to physical reasons, the two never had their own children.
Not only that, Zhang Fengyi, who has always pursued low-keyism, has also "shown his face" because of his wife's words.
I remember when he participated in "Lu Yu Has a Date", Lu Yu asked him why he came, and he smiled and said that his wife forced him.
Perhaps many people will wonder why in the two marriages, Zhang Fengyi's style does not seem to be a person?
In fact, leaving aside love and non-love, in marriage, the word appropriate is particularly critical.
As a "tough guy", Zhang Fengyi has some machismo in his bones, and such a person naturally needs to be worshipped.
On the contrary, Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping are both strong people.
You know, the love of incompatible personalities, in the marriage, the flowers that bloom are all piercing.
Huo Fan is just the opposite, her love for Zhang Fengyi began with worship, and Zhang Fengyi, his career gradually entered a better state, and he learned the lessons of the failure of the previous marriage and began to understand management.
The combination of "big man + little woman", one is not stingy to pamper, one is not stingy to worship, and finally a harmonious flower can bloom.
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Exclusive humor, only for those who understand
However, the marriage is not suitable and can be restarted, but the parent-child relationship has no room for choice.
After the divorce, Zhang Fengyi often went to accompany his son, so that the son did not know that his parents were divorced. However, the paper package could not hold the fire, and the son was still hurt after he knew about it.
The son began to alienate Zhang Fengyi, overeating when he was unhappy, resulting in a surge in weight.
Zhang Fengyi saw the situation and tried his best to take his son to exercise with him, which once eased the relationship between father and son.
But because of the schooling, the two fell out again.
Zhang Fengyi has always opposed his son entering the show business circle, and he is afraid that as the second generation of stars, his son will inevitably be pulled out and compared with himself. Therefore, his plan for his son is to take the road of learning.
Who knows, after graduating from junior high school, his son actually sneaked into the Stars Art School opened by his mother to learn acting.
Zhang Fengyi, who was angry, said harshly: "If you insist so much, don't contact me in the future!" ”
Not only that, he also publicly said that his son's image is not good enough to be suitable for show business.
However, his bluntness did not scare off his son, but made him want to prove himself even more.
Through the vicious supplementary culture class, the son was finally admitted to the Central Academy of Drama. When he graduated, he specially invited his father to watch his graduation drama.
Unexpectedly, I suffered another critical hit. When Zhang Fengyi heard that his son was male number one, he blurted out: "Can you still see it?" ”
And what made the father-son relationship drop to the freezing point was not these blunt words, but when his son Zhang Boyu got married, Zhang Fengyi, the biological father, was absent.
In this regard, Zhang Fengyi gave 3 explanations:
First, ex-wife Lu Liping and Sun Haiying have formed a new family, and if they attend, it will not only be embarrassing, but also cause media hype;
Second, the weddings he had attended were divorced in the end, and he did not want such a "curse" to happen to his son;
The third is that he has always been low-key, he has been married twice, both are simple, I hope that my son will only run one table, who knows that his son has done 27 tables, too publicity.
However, no matter how grandiose the reasons, the biological father did not attend his son's wedding, how can not be said. Even though Zhang Boyu understood, he was still sad.
At the critical moment, it was Huo Fan, the stepmother, who acted as a "microphone".
In fact, for many years, Zhang Boyu and his stepmother have been getting along well. His stepmother told him:
"Your dad loves you so much that you snubbed him during this time, causing him tremendous pressure and pain. At night, I thought you couldn't sleep, so I hid in the study and looked through your albums. Two years ago, when he learned that your weight had soared, he was so anxious that his mouth was full of blisters, and the father-son relationship in the world could never be separated. ”
In this way, the relationship between father and son eased.
A few years ago, Zhang Boyu participated in a show.
He confessed that his father had always been his role model.
He has always hoped to get his father's affirmation, but he is not good enough, and there are always people in the outside world who say: You are not like your father at all, you are too instigated.
Once, he was particularly uncomfortable and called his father and said that he had humiliated him.
After Zhang Fengyi listened, he immediately told him, no, you are doing a good job.
Zhang Boyu, who was touched, said for the first time: Dad, I love you.
And Zhang Fengyi, the strict father, also said soft words for the first time in the world: Daddy also loves you.
Years of grievances, misunderstandings, everything melted in a word "love".
Maybe it is the older, no matter how tough people are, their hearts will become soft.
In recent years, Zhang Fengyi will watch his son's plays and guide him how to act better; in his spare time, the father and son will also play ball and eat together... The relationship is getting more and more harmonious.
I remember that someone once commented on Zhang Fengyi: People think he is a nail household, and his mouth cannot be pried open with a crowbar, but acquaintances say that he is humorous enough to say stand-up comedy.
In the past, many people did not understand why he was blunt and almost desperate for his son, and his son still regarded him as an example. After watching "Lu Yu has a date", I found that Zhang Fengyi's "straight" was all given to the people around him.
He said that once, he watched a play performed by his old classmate Zhang Tielin, bluntly said that he needed to tie him to a chair to watch it, and called Zhang Tielin and said: What do you do with this acting, in addition to blowing your beard and staring at your eyes, what else will you do?
As a result, Zhang Tielin laughed and said after listening to it, that it was all a problem left over from the performance of "Huan Zhu Gege". The crowd burst into laughter.
No wonder that episode was called Zhang Fengyi's "Exclusive Humor."
This kind of humor is often bitter on the surface, but inside it is caring, it is a point of mention, it is an expectation, and it is for the good of the other party. And beyond the bitterness, the familiar person can taste the real sweetness.
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My jianghu, I am in charge
In addition to seeing people's hearts for a long time, Zhang Fengyi's bluntness is not hated by people, and more importantly, he treats others harshly and treats himself even more.
In the recent hit "A Generation of Hong Shang", Zhang Fengyi played Liu Yunxiang, as an "acting director", his performance was as wonderful as ever.
In the play, there is a sinking pond scene soaking a pig cage, which was filmed in December when the cold wind was biting. But Zhang Fengyi, who is more than 60 years old, feels that since he took this play, he has to act it himself, so the whole person is really immersed in the water and filmed.
After reading such a passage, I feel that it is particularly pertinent:
Zhang Fengyi is the mainstay of China's film and television industry, low-key and calm. Maybe he will be crazy, but crazy and not dry; maybe he will be proud, but proud but not proud; he will not give easily with words, but he will thank with deeds; he will be angry about things he is afraid of, and he will laugh when he is happy. He says one thing and one thing, his world is black and white.
If you can't learn to be smooth and don't know how to cover up, then it is better to be strict with yourself and treat others sincerely.
As for the merits and demerits, there is a judgment, and the joys and sorrows brought about by this are self-absorbed.
As Zhang Fengyi said:
"Actors should live for the art in their hearts and the characters they have created, not to highlight themselves and live for their fans." That's what we advocate for actors who are for the arts, not for themselves. ”
When the "tough guy" Zhang Fengyi has been traversing the rivers and lakes for decades, he relies on his own set of logic:
My jianghu, I am in charge.
Resources:
Cultural guest: Traffic stars are reluctant to wear old age makeup? Zhang Fengyi: There is a mental burden to be a bad actor
Oriental time and space: "tough guy" true color - Li Xiaomeng interviewed Zhang Fengyi
Beijing News: [Character] Zhang Fengyi: I am a "drama bully" who has been so arrogant all my life
Xi Nan said: Zhang Fengyi - the rivers and lakes are not old, only I am at ease
Bian Mu Character Chronicle: "Tough Guy" Zhang Fengyi, married to a 12-year-old wife for the second time, did not have children for 28 years, and was still favored as a princess
Lu Yu has an appointment: An interview with Zhang Fengyi