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Text: Mu Chen
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preface
He is known as the "screen English-Chinese".
He has starred in many classic film and television works such as "Camel Xiangzi" and "Mansion Gate".
But his career is thriving, but the relationship between him and his wife Lu Liping, which should have been a good story, was quietly broken.
Time flies, time flies.
Nowadays, their lives after divorce have become very different.
Zhang Fengyi's childhood was plain and smooth.
Since he was a child, he was taller than children of the same age and had outstanding appearance, and he was already a young man in junior high school.
Zhang Fengyi, who had an artistic dream, decided to grow up and take the road of art.
Before graduating from junior high school, he was recruited by the Dongchuan Art Troupe in Yunnan Province to learn Peking Opera performance.
In the days of the art troupe, Zhang Fengyi trained hard, and he was never sloppy in every move.
In 1971, he was admitted to the Dongchuan Art Troupe with excellent grades and became an actor.
On the other hand, Lu Liping, who was born in Beijing in the 60s, grew up in a family of educators.
His father is engaged in the study of the history of ethnic minorities at the Academy of Social Sciences, and his mother is a doctor.
There are three brothers and sisters in the family, she has an older brother and a younger brother.
Lu Liping has been filial since she was a child, has outstanding literary and artistic talents, and is the backbone of the school's literature and art.
Although he lived in poverty, he never went hungry because of his family background.
Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping's brother Lu Xiaogang are classmates.
The two had a relationship before, and after this meeting, the two talked freely, and the relationship became closer and closer.
As time went on, their feelings became closer and closer, and they soon fell in love.
In 1988, Zhang Fengyi participated in the movie "Police Officer in the Year of the Dragon".
Coincidentally, Lu Liping served as the heroine of this film.
The two who had a good impression of it, after this drama, their relationship quickly warmed up, and they reached the age of talking about marriage, so the two got married soon.
After marriage, Lu Liping gave birth to her son Zhang Boyu.
In order to support Zhang Fengyi's career, she chose to temporarily retire from the entertainment industry and concentrate on her husband and children at home.
However, the reality is often harsh.
With the prosperity of Zhang Fengyi's career, the gap between the two gradually widened.
Lu Liping revolves around children and housework all day long, losing her former brilliance.
And Zhang Fengyi is busy filming, dealing with various female stars and female fans.
Gradually, the two have fewer and fewer common topics, and the contradictions continue to escalate.
The birth of the child did not alleviate the contradictions between them, but became the fuse of the contradictions.
Lu Liping was physically and mentally exhausted in order to take care of the child.
She treats Zhang Fengyi as a "garbage can" for emotions.
But Zhang Fengyi felt that Lu Liping had become unreasonable.
Quarrels pervade their lives.
In 1991, Zhang Fengyi, who couldn't bear it, filed for divorce.
He left everything, even Zhang Boyu, to Lu Liping, and he "escaped" from the family that made him feel depressed.
After the divorce, Zhang Fengyi focused more on his career.
And Lu Liping lives alone with her two-year-old son.
This once envied marriage ended in tragedy.
When Zhang Fengyi's career was on the rise, he often stayed in the crew for ten days and half a month to film, focusing on his acting career.
And Lu Liping resolutely gave up her originally promising acting career for the sake of her family.
This huge contrast caused the communication between the two to gradually decrease.
Zhang Fengyi is exposed to all kinds of fresh people and things in the crew, while Lu Liping is trapped in the trivial affairs of the family.
Lu Liping longs for her husband to give her care and companionship in his busy time, and provide her with emotional value.
But for Mr. Zhang, it's almost a luxury.
He can't meet Lu Liping's needs anytime and anywhere, after all, most of his time is occupied by work.
As time passed, this imbalance between career and family became more and more serious, and contradictions gradually accumulated unconsciously.
The trivial things in life became the fuse of their contradictions.
Lu Liping is a little woman who longs to be cared for and pampered in her bones.
But Zhang Fengyi's machismo and busy work prevented him from giving Lu the care she expected.
Under the pressure of family chores and taking care of her children alone, Lu Liping became more and more emotionally unstable.
She began to complain to Zhang Fengyi.
But Zhang Fengyi couldn't understand Lu Liping.
The differences in their personalities become more pronounced in the face of these problems.
For example, on the issue of the child's illness, Lu Liping was both worried and self-blaming.
But Zhang Fengyi couldn't understand her feelings.
These contradictions continued to accumulate, and gradually escalated from the initial small quarrels to fierce quarrels.
They have tried to communicate, but often end up failing.
After a long time, both of them felt haggard, and their marriage was on the verge of breaking down.
After Zhang Fengyi divorced Lu Liping, he was introduced to Huo Fan, who was 14 years younger than him.
She is a dance teacher, young and beautiful with a gentle personality.
Zhang Fengyi had a good impression of her, and then launched a passionate pursuit, and the two came together smoothly.
In 1994, they entered the marriage hall together.
After marriage, Zhang Fengyi lived with Huo Fan and his stepdaughter, and rarely interacted with his biological son Zhang Boyu.
Zhang Fengyi dotes on his wife Huo Fan very much, and often praises her for her gentleness and temperament in interviews.
It is reported that they call every day to report their safety, and they also like to show their affection in life, and the relationship is indeed very good.
With Zhang Fengyi's remarriage, his career has also been soaring.
During this period, he starred in many classic works, such as "Farewell My Concubine", "Age of Peace" and other classic film and television works.
The high-quality works have also made his position in the entertainment industry more and more stable.
On the other hand, Lu Liping, after divorcing Zhang Fengyi, lived alone with her son.
In order to create better economic conditions for him, she chose to return to her old business.
However, after many years of absence, the environment of the entertainment industry has long been different from what it used to be.
However, although Lu Liping's acting career has gone through twists and turns, she finally ushered in the second spring of her career with "The Story of the Editorial Department".
During this period, Lu Liping met the football player Tao Wei.
Tao Wei is not only an outstanding athlete, but also a well-respected live commentator.
One day, when Lu Liping and her son were playing on the football field, Zhang Boyu and Tao Wei met each other late.
Tao Wei noticed that Zhang Boyu was frail and sickly, and offered to be his football coach to help him improve his physique.
Under Tao Wei's careful guidance, Zhang Boyu's physical condition and personality have changed a lot.
Lu Liping had a different feeling for Tao Wei, and the two finally decided on a relationship.
and registered their marriage in Los Angeles, United States, in 1999.
However, the marriage lasted only two years before it ended.
Both of them are too strong and stubborn, and they often quarrel over trivial things, and their relationship gradually breaks down.
Lu Liping, who has experienced two failed marriages, also fell to the bottom for a time.
But she continued to have peach blossom luck, and in 2002, she met Sun Haiying again because of filming a TV series.
Similar experiences resonated with the two, and they withstood external pressure and came together firmly.
After marriage, Lu Liping and Sun Haiying lived a happy life.
Sun Haiying is also very good to Lu Liping's son Zhang Boyu.
On weekdays, he will often buy delicious food for Zhang Boyu and give him endless care.
Zhang Boyu also admitted frankly that for so many years, all the father's love he got was given by Sun Haiying.
After experiencing emotional twists and turns, Lu Liping finally found her true spiritual sustenance.
Looking at Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping after the divorce, their lives are indeed very different.
Zhang Fengyi enjoys the sweetness of his new marriage with Huo Fan, and his career is also in full swing.
However, he left many regrets in his relationship with his son.
After experiencing emotional twists and turns, Lu Liping finally met the other half of her life.
Her career also began to flourish.
However, after the divorce, Zhang Fengyi's relationship with his son Zhang Boyu became more and more estranged.
After graduating from junior high school, Zhang Boyu entered an art school founded by his mother, Lu Liping, without his father's consent.
This made Zhang Fengyi furious.
He believes that his son should finish high school first before considering entering the entertainment industry.
In addition, Zhang Fengyi also felt that his son's image was not suitable for acting.
Unexpectedly, this sentence made his son and ex-wife very angry.
Lu Liping's expectations for him have also been lowered to the freezing point.
In 2014, Zhang Boyu got married, and Zhang Fengyi was absent from the wedding, which caused many controversies.
He explained that his son's wedding scene was too big and extravagant and wasteful, and he couldn't afford to lose face.
And Sun Haiying and Lu Liping would be present that day, and he felt that he would be embarrassed to go.
This huge contrast makes people think about the importance of suitability and love in marriage.
Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping once fell in love because of the drama and loved each other passionately.
But in the triviality of marriage, love is gradually consumed.
Their differences in personality and career pursuits made their marriage eventually break down.
On the other hand, Zhang Fengyi and Huo Fan may be more of a suitability.
Huo Fan is young and beautiful, with a gentle personality, and can give Zhang Fengyi the companionship and understanding he needs.
The same is true for Lu Liping and Sun Haiying, who have similar experiences.
Sun Haiying can satisfy Lu Liping's desire to be pampered and pampered.
In marriage, love is important, but suitability may be the key to long-term stability.
Love may fade over time.
And the right two people can support and understand each other in the face of life's challenges.
Just like Lu Liping and Sun Haiying, they can still move forward hand in hand after going through ups and downs.
epilogue
Today, Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping have embarked on their own life paths.
Zhang Fengyi is still working diligently in his acting career.
On August 6, "Lonely Boat" starring him also began to be broadcast.
But Lu Liping looked a little unsatisfactory.
Her inappropriate remarks with Sun Haiying have also become a hot topic of discussion among the audience.
I only hope that Lu Liping in the future can reflect on her mistakes and live her life in a down-to-earth manner.