When we call a place that shelters the wind and rain "home," what exactly are we talking about? How is this space different from other spaces? Through the life of the Qi family, we may be able to find the answer to this question.
I decide my turf
At home, no matter how nonsensical your behavior is, it will be reasonable, because all your petty and willful nature is cared for.
In order to let Qi Tian buy a marriage house for his father, Qi Tian made a series of "strange" behaviors. First use bitter meat to calculate sympathy, pretend to be ill and go to the hospital to make Qi Father worried; then it is the radical method, knowing that Qi Father has always wanted to wait for the three of their brothers to get married and start a family before finding an old partner, so he deliberately said that he was going to beat a bare stick for a lifetime, so that Qi Father had to compromise; finally, he planned to give Qi Father a trick and arranged the action plan to persuade the second brother and second sister-in-law to the old man clearly.
Qi Tian's behavior made people speechless and even a little annoyed, nearly thirty years old is still so ignorant, it is really a lao tzu. But for Qi Father, Qi Tian's every word and deed touched his heart and made him fidget. Even the second brother Tianyou, who can see through the truth at a glance, will follow Qi Tian, and inevitably worry about his younger brother.
Home, in a way, is a place where you can "act arbitrarily." Your waywardness is understood, and your bad emotions are accepted. No need for disguise, no need for masks, just need to be the most authentic version of yourself, even with a little "madness".
However, such willfulness should also be appropriate, and mature people know better that "feelings of being taken care of" should be a two-way street.
Open 24 hours
No matter when and where, home is always a place to open its doors.
Ye Minyi, who pretended to be his wife, turned out to be the master's daughter, and a oolong broke Qi Tianzuo's peaceful life, and was forced by Liang Dawei to be cornered, and he could only escape from Macau to his hometown in Jiangning overnight. The Qi family only has two bedrooms, Qi father let Tianzuo and Qi Tian sleep together, Tianzuo said that they can't sleep together, so the sofa became his fixed bed.
Tianyou and Xiao Nan divorced again and left with their luggage. In the taxi, the driver asked "Is this going to move?" Tianyou said , "Go home." His own little family was scattered, but the home he grew up in was still there. After leaving the small home, it is necessary to return to the original home. In this way, Qi Father and his three sons lived together again.
After some twists and turns, Tianzuo and Ye Minyi got married, because the Qi family's space was limited, the two first lived in the Liang Dawei family next door, and later rented a house by themselves. Tianyou's first draft was rejected, and he did not want his son to lose money, and Qi's father finally agreed to let him move out. The eldest and the second were gone, and there were two people left, Father Qi and the third elder, and the old man was depressed and his heart was empty. Once there is any bustle, the coldness is particularly unbearable.
Home, this is a place that will never "close". It may be rudimentary and cramped, but it always has a place for you. Here comes and goes freely, when you need it, you can stop and rest; stay away for the time being, it will never stop you from pursuing life.
Reassuring pills
Without a home, in the world, it seems to have lost the greatest warmth.
Before the family banquet, Tianzuo said that after getting married, he rented a house and moved out, but Ye Minyi refused, saying that he would move to Liang Dawei's house next door. In order not to disturb Tianyou's writing, Father Qi also moved next door and lived with Liang Dawei, the eldest and the eldest daughter-in-law. Living with two old people is always inconvenient, Qi Tianzuo has repeatedly proposed to move out, but Ye Minyi enjoys this family atmosphere.
When Ye Minyi was three years old, her father, Liang Dawei, left the house, leaving her and her mother to rely on each other. When she first pretended to be Tenzo's wife and Qi family video, she said, "I like your family too much." On the surface, she is very independent and very personal, but in fact, she lacks a sense of security in her heart, and the growth experience of the original family makes Ye Minyi have a deep yearning and expectation for home. The feeling of a big family living together is something she has never had before, so she immerses herself in it and cherishes it.
Home, it's a place with a sense of security. It may make people a little uncomfortable, but it can save a lot of trouble and hard work; it may crowd out private space, but it will also output a sense of dependence and happiness; it may be crowded and noisy, but it can also make people feel down-to-earth and at ease.
The meaning of home may not be to shelter the body from the wind and rain, but to give us inner comfort and comfort. The golden nest and the silver nest are not as good as their own grass nests, here, I am in charge of my territory; here, I stop as I go. Home is always everyone's needle.