The father's virtue is the best legacy of the son. —Cervantes
Father's virtue has an immeasurable impact on the formation of children's values, the father's every move is subtly influencing the child, only the parents have good virtue, supplemented by correct and responsible education, the child can become a talent.
Since the internet celebrity Tianyou was exploded last year, he has attracted the attention of many netizens because of his loving education for his son, and this discussion seems to be different from the previous criticism.
A serious and loving "loving father"
Since last year, the Internet celebrity Tianyou, who has been controversial because of the "illegitimate child" issue, has a "new melon".
Tianyou has also paid a wave of attention to educating children.
A video of Tianyou taking him to experience life with him on the big night to educate his child was posted on the Internet, because his 6-year-old son was disobedient and said that he would rather pick up the rags than write homework.
In order to educate his mischievous son, Tianyou fulfilled his son's wish to pick up the rags and took him to the side of the road to experience.
According to the videos circulating on the Internet, it can be seen that Tianyou is still more patient in educating children, and does not forget to reason with children when he accompanies his son to pick up rags, and helps children understand the difficulties of life.
Tianyou told his son that it is not easy to earn money and cherish his current life, so he took him out to pick up the rags, and reminded his son that the toys he threw away were bought with money, and the money he picked up the rags could not buy anything.
When Tianyou was educating children, Chen Jingying was live broadcasting on the side, and she also said that Tianyou and the child came out at night, and she was very distressed, but the child really could not get used to it, hoping that she could use this way to make her son remember sex for a long time.
Tianyou's performance has also made many netizens change their minds about him, after all, combined with his previous performance, he has left the impression of a person who is "responsible for his mouth", and there is no practical action, let alone what kind father is set.
Now his performance has also made many netizens feel pleased, at least he can patiently educate his children, but the follow-up performance still needs to be examined, after all, he has not done a good job since he became a father.
The first is his daughter with the internet celebrity "Little Venom". Last year, "Little Venom" revealed that she had a daughter with Tianyou.
Afterwards, Tianyou also admitted the matter, and also said that if he came, he would be safe, saying that he could but not talk about children, and also said that he would assume his responsibilities, and that adults could not hurt innocent children.
But Tianyou seems to be a loyal spokesperson for "saying one thing and doing one thing", and after revealing that he does have a daughter with "Little Venom", the two have repeatedly exposed each other on the Internet because of the maintenance fee, and they have made a lot of trouble.
"Little Venom" broke the news that after the birth of the child 8 months later, he began to ask Tianyou for maintenance, he had never taken the initiative to give it before, and he was unwilling to give it on time after giving a maintenance fee of 10,000 yuan, and said that Tianyou said that if he wanted maintenance, he could go to court to sue him.
After admitting that he already had a daughter, Tianyou revealed that he and Chen Jingying already had two sons.
The eldest son is 6 years old, and the reason why he chose to expose himself is that Tianyou said that he was afraid that his son would complain about not publicly recognizing them in the future.
Although Chen Jingying now lives with her two sons and Tianyou's parents, she seems to have become a daughter-in-law in the sense of fact, but their family's education of their children is not "in place".
Once, Tianyou's mother asked Tianyou's eldest son "Shell" what his father's name was in the live broadcast, and he refused to answer, and later even said that he did not know what his father's name was.
However, The grandmother was very satisfied with the grandson's answer, saying that Chen Jingying taught the grandson very well, especially smart, and no matter who asked him, he never said his father's name.
Seeing this, it is inevitable to feel a little ridiculous, as a biological father and son, the son never dares to say his father's name, and the adults in the family are still very proud, such a family education is inevitably slightly "deformed".
And after the birth of Tianyou's son, he wears the hat of "illegitimate son", although today's social tolerance is high, but social tolerance may not be accepted by children.
Under the influence of the environment and the irresponsible education at home, even the most basic father can not be said, you can imagine how much impact on the child.
Some netizens left messages to mock him for being responsible for his mouth, but not doing a single responsible thing.
The real responsibility is to give the child a complete home, rather than to let the child bear the identity of "illegitimate child" all the time, unclear, and the harm caused to the child cannot be repaired under any circumstances.
Incomprehensible view of marriage and love
In the case of always declaring that he is single, Tianyou suddenly broke out that there are already three children, not born of the same person, and as soon as the news came out, netizens were greatly surprised.
However, even though Chen Jingying and Xiao Venom had given birth to two sons and a daughter to him, he was adamant that he would not marry any of them.
He has repeatedly said in the live broadcast that he is not ready to get married in his life and wants to live a free and comfortable life. Not only that, he also sneered at his daughter's mother "Little Venom" many times during the live broadcast.
When asked why he did not get married, he responded with a metaphor of wanting to eat pork without opening a pig farm, and said that he did not have love, but he was very excited to see everyone, and he made a scumbag remark.
Without the shackles of marriage, I can see one who loves one, and I can live freely, and this kind of scumbag behavior can be said to be thoroughly carried out by God's blessing.
As for Tianyou's concept of marriage that "insists on not getting married", his mother also expressed her support for her son's decision in the live broadcast, and even said that "not marrying" is the correct practice of modern people.
As soon as this remark came out, it triggered the "criticism" of many netizens, and I have to say that the three views of this family are really incorrect, which can be called strange.
When asked how many objects he had talked about in the live broadcast before, Tianyou's answer was even more shocking, which was called the scumbag spokesman, he said that men always have to find thirty or fifty, otherwise they will live boring.
Not only did he make scumbag remarks, in addition to his relationship with "Little Venom" and Chen Jingying, he was also photographed wearing couple outfits and dating with other women.
What a Father
Let the child become an "illegitimate child" from birth, and make the same mistake twice, and afterwards he even prides himself on his unmarriedism.
After giving birth to a child, you cannot be responsible for yourself and your family, and just by virtue of one or two education that seems to be "heart-wrenching", you will be gorgeously among the ranks of "loving fathers", which is not a kind of blasphemy against the word.
As a father, the most important responsibility is to use the strength of your personality to educate and influence your children, and as a man, you are only worthy of being a father when you take on the responsibilities you should bear, and there is still a longer way to go to become a loving father.