After watching two episodes of "Dear Child", I have to say that Teacher Liu Lin is really too good, acting like what.
In this TV series, she plays Sister Yue. Some viewers said that the big lady in "Know It or Not" came, and it must be more than just a sister-in-law.
Sure enough, when she appeared, she was accompanied by the pursuit and appreciation of countless audiences; when she went offline, she left countless audiences with scolding and anger.
The role of Sister Yao is very small, and the before and after adds up to about one episode.
But in this short episode of the TV series, the audience's evaluation of her has gone from full score to negative score, how did she do it?
01, it seems to be a very professional sister-in-law
In fact, the newcomer sister gives a very good impression, the image of a fully professional sister-in-law.
As she entered the house to disinfect herself, she apologized that she was late and that the adults and children of her previous employer's house could not live without her.
Although the subtext is to boast that he is very professional and excellent, it is not disgusting at all, but gives people a very kind and joyful feeling.
The child cried incessantly, Fang Yinuo coaxed out a sweat and could not coax it well, and Sister Yan calmed the child with three or two clicks.
She also taught Fang Yinuo how to treat the secretions of the navel eye for the child, and how to hold a diaper for the child.
The language was gentle and kind, the movements were capable and professional, and Fang Yinuo looked at her eyes as if he were looking at the savior.
In the middle of the night, Fang Yinuo got up to feed the child, so thirsty that he wanted to ask Xiao Lu to pour her a cup of water to drink, but the big pig's hooves slept so deeply that he couldn't wake up no matter how he called.
Fang Yinuo shed tears in grievance, but Sister Yao sympathetically brought a cup of warm water over, which immediately warmed Yinuo's heart.
Sister Yao won the hearts of a large number of viewers with her professionalism and thoughtfulness, and many female viewers sent bullet screens saying that it was really worry-free and reassuring for a new mother to meet such a sister-in-law in the month.
Sister Ying's liking is also reflected in the fact that she leaves a lamp for Xiao Lu who works the night shift and intimately gives him a hot meal. Worried that he had eaten too much and could not digest it, he carefully estimated the amount of food.
Xiao Lu was very touched, saying that he used to go home after working overtime and sleeping hungry. Sister Yao immediately said that this was not good for the stomach, and she would leave him food every night and wash his clothes.
After Fang Yinuo gave birth to a child, his attention did shift to Hehe, and Xiao Lu would be a little unbalanced.
But there is such a caring sister, so that Xiao Lu, who is hungry after overtime, has a hot meal to eat, which can also indirectly ease the relationship between the husband and wife.
What a good person, nominally a sister-in-law, but a family of three, she took good care of everyone.
Unexpectedly, Sister Ying not only deceived the family, but also deceived the vast audience.
It's easy to disguise a moment of kindness and enthusiasm, but it's hard to keep it for a long time, after all, nature is not so easy to hide.
02, more and more flaws in the confinement
As the plot progresses, Sister Yao's fox tail is also revealed.
She once said to Yinuo: I am your sister-in-law, and I am here to take care of you.
But the truth is that she is not attentive to the baby, not enthusiastic about Yinuo, but very intimate with her male employer Xiao Lu.
On the first night, Sister Yao was lazy and slippery. Yinuo fed the child and told her to hurry back to the room to rest.
Sister Yao said to set an alarm and sleep for half an hour to hold the child. Yinuo also thoughtfully asked her to sleep a little longer, who knew that she did not turn on the alarm at all.
Sister Yan explained that she had slept too deeply and did not wake up, and promised that she would not make this mistake in the future.
But as a professional sister-in-law, the first night was so careless, it is obviously unlikely that the alarm did not wake up, and the only explanation is that she did not turn on the alarm at all.
Because the alarm is turned on without manually turning it off, it will continue to ring every once in a while.
Yinuo is a new mother, worried that the child is the nature of the mother, she found that the child has jaundice and thought of going to the hospital for examination. Sister Yao, believing that she had experience, vigorously persuaded her not to go to the hospital and eat more.
Caring for the child is her main responsibility as a sister-in-law, but she does not even record the number and time of the child's feeding.
Yinuo plans to breastfeed the child until the age of one, sister Yao ignored Yinuo's idea and secretly fed the child milk powder, was found to be cunning and did not apologize, and in turn taught Yinuo not to trust the information on the Internet too much, saying that mixed feeding is also very good.
When Yinuo once again pointed out that the child's face was too yellow and too abnormal, Sister Yao repeatedly packed the ticket and said that she was professionally trained and was fine. If it were not for Yinuo's insistence on taking the child to the hospital for examination, the child would most likely be in trouble.
All these indications showed that Sister Yan did not focus on the child, because her attention was all focused on Xiao Lu.
Xiao Lu returned from work, and Sister Yao warmly greeted her with slippers and tea. This is not at all like the performance of a sister-in-law, but a bit like a nanny.
Yinuo was anxious to wait for Xiao Lu to come back to send the child to the hospital quickly, Sister Yao was not panicked at all, but she was very leisurely to make a cup of green tea for Xiao Lu and had to let him drink a sip and then leave, no wonder there were many bullet screens saying that she had no intentions.
Hehe went to the hospital for examination, and the results showed that the jaundice value was very high.
Afraid of taking responsibility, sister Yao forced the nurse to say that other children had jaundice from breastfeeding onto Yinuo.
The first few things can be said that she is unprofessional and unreliable. But now in order to shirk responsibility, black and white are reversed, which is definitely a problem with character.
The audience also shouted blind, deceived by the sunny and positive good people set up by Sister Yao as soon as she appeared.
This incident also gives us a lesson: to judge whether a person is good or bad, we cannot just listen to her three words or two words, nor can we look at what she does in the short term. Don't rush to conclusions, time will always make some people with ulterior motives reveal their true faces.
03, doing the work of the sister-in-law, put up the master's money
I saw that some viewers were deceived by Sister Yao like Xiao Lu, and felt that her sister-in-law deserved to be wronged this month.
In fact, if we sort it out a little, we can find that Sister Yao is not wronged at all.
Take the fact that Sister Yao and Xiao Lu cried that they did not feed milk powder to Hehe, saying that she only wanted the child to smell and sleep well when she soaked milk powder.
This reason sounds very reasonable, sister Is thinking about the child. But if Xiao Lu could think about it deeply, he could find that there were many problems here.
Question 1: If Sister Ying's purpose was really as simple as she said, she could have consulted with Yinuo generously, letting Yinuo watch her just let the child smell milk and sleep without really giving her a drink.
She takes the money to do things, takes care of the children is her duty, and if there is a good way to negotiate with the employer. However, she did not discuss or report in advance, and even if she was wronged afterwards, she would not be wronged.
Question 2: How expensive is the child's milk powder, in order to let the child sleep, soak the milk powder for her to smell and then pour it out, is this not a waste of money? It is not tao rice water, how much and how much. How much milk powder money does it take to coax the child to sleep in this way?
Even if Yinuo uses this method of wasting milk powder to coax the child to sleep, it is likely that Xiao Lu will say "too luxurious".
Why does Sister Yan think that she has the right to be extravagant and wasteful? Doing the work of the sister-in-law, but putting up the master's money.
Looking at Hehe's jaundice more and more serious, Yinuo proposed to go to the hospital for examination several times, but was rejected by Sister Yan on the grounds of "no problem" and "I am professionally trained".
When watching the TV series, I had to mistake her for the child's grandmother, so I made a decision so arbitrarily.
The child has a situation, and the child's mother wants to take the child to the hospital to see. As a sister-in-law for a month, even if she has rich experience in child-rearing, she has no right to make decisions for her employer.
When Hehe was really hospitalized because the jaundice value was too high, she actually ran away in fear, without any sense of responsibility.
The sister-in-law is to help the employer take care of the children together, can not take the salary of the sister-in-law, but also want to be the employer's master, and if something happens, they are afraid of taking responsibility.
Can such a sister-in-law who has no professional ethics and is not in charge of the decision be a good sister-in-law, and she is questioned and blamed by Yinuo, and there is nothing to be wronged about.
04, what identity should be done
Teacher Liu Lin should be a friend to play the role of Sister-in-law, after all, "Dear Child" has too many old drama bones, and ordinary actors may not be able to take over the plays of Ren Suxi and Qin Hao.
Although Sister Ying is unreliable and unkind, her biggest problem is that she does not know how to put herself in the right position and make decisions for her employer.
So much so that Hehe was hospitalized, and she also changed from the most kind sister-in-law to the most annoying sister-in-law.
If you are an employee, don't decide for the leader which project should be taken and which project should not be received.
If you are a sister-in-law, don't decide for your brother to decorate the wedding room in your favorite style.
If you are a daughter-in-law, don't get mixed up in how your in-laws handle property.
If you are a mother-in-law or mother-in-law, don't interfere with how the younger two raise their children.
Many family conflicts are constant, and interpersonal relationships are not handled well, because they cannot put themselves in the right position. What identity is to do things, but unfortunately too many people do not understand this truth.