In the urban emotional drama "Dear Child", it was broken by Ren Suxi's scene of a novice mother.
Some people say that compared to the husband's heart, it is bigger. Fang Yinuo's performance was too sensitive and too nervous.
The family obviously invited a sister-in-law for a month, and they were tired to cry, just because they didn't do it right.
Extra tenderness
Sister Yue is played by liu lin, the "big lady" we are familiar with, and as soon as she stops there, the role is established.
When Sister Yao first came, she was still good as a performance.
Knowing that the entrance door should be disinfected, you can also soothe the crying baby in a short period of time, and give the new mother a reassuring pill.
When I brought my child over in the middle of the night to feed her, I noticed that the corners of her mouth were peeling. Without waiting for the hostess to speak, he took the initiative to pour her a cup of warm water.
The observation that was not obtained from the husband was in the subtle, but it was felt in a stranger. Yinuo was touched and aggrieved on the spot, and his nose flowed.
Being able to observe these shows that this month's sister-in-law is still very eye-catching.
When feeding a child, consider that it will take a little time. So he asked Sister Yan to go to sleep for a while and let her come back after an hour.
The babysitter said that she had set an alarm clock and came over to hold the child in a moment. However, when the baby has eaten and drunk enough, he does not see Sister Yao come to hold the child.
Yinuo looked over and saw that the nanny was asleep.
But then, the heroine made a mistake. Instead of waking up the sister-in-law, she held the child by herself and coaxed her all night.
Didn't the babysitter wake up by the alarm clock and hear a knock at the door?
It was still the first time in the employer's house, and she was testing the hostess's bottom line in this way.
If Yinuo insists on waking up Sister Ying on the first night. Give her the child and let her understand her duties and responsibilities.
Perhaps, there will be no case of secretly feeding milk powder to the child under the premise that the hostess explicitly requires that the child must be breastfed.
Unnecessarily harsh
As we all know, Sister Ying is specialized in taking care of maternity and babies. The monthly income is not low, starting from seven or eight thousand.
However, such income is almost at the cost of more than ten hours of continuous rotation.
During the day, it is necessary to take care of the food and clothing of adults, in the middle, interspersed with children, coaxing children, feeding children.
At night, I couldn't sleep for an 8-hour sleep at all. When the child is crying, he must get up at any time to feed the child.
At the employer's house, sister Yao had almost no time of her own except for the few hours she slept, nor did she have two days off.
Ordinary people, 8 hours a day, 22 days a month, there are 1 to 2 hours of lunch break every day.
In this way, the treatment of the sister-in-law is roughly divided by the coefficient of 2.7. It is equivalent to the monthly salary of ordinary people, and the treatment of this group is not so high.
Even so, when Sister Yao was a little idle, she read the book for a while. Yi Nuo thought that she couldn't just sit idle and let her find something to do.
This, indeed, is a bit of an egg picking bones, and the direction of careful study is upside down.
It feels as if the boss doesn't pay attention to your business capabilities and KPIs, and doesn't care if you work overtime until late at night to catch up with the progress of the work.
He just watched you spend a few more minutes in the pantry during work hours. Just think you're touching a fish and don't spend all your time on your work.
To say a realistic and heartfelt word, as a child's father Xiao Lu. Still biological, not so attentive to children. With such a high standard of "full commitment", to strictly demand an outsider, it is a bit of a taste of wood for fish.
Use people right and don't get too tired
There are many problems with this sister.
Early in the morning, he ran out without saying hello, so that Yinuo could not find anyone.
When caring for a child, talk to your employer afterwards.
In fact, many professions, such as scientists, lawyers, teachers, doctors. Due to their high difficulty coefficient in acquiring knowledge, for ordinary people, there is a dimensionality reduction attack.
But even then, the words that come out of their mouths are not necessarily all right.
Even a genius like Einstein can go wrong. Not to mention the sister-in-law who has uneven quality in this environment and cannot be verified in a conventional way.
In fact, as far as the child's jaundice is concerned, Sister Yao's statement is not completely wrong. She only gave a convincing answer as a half bottle of ink.
Doctors may not be sure to tell you until the test data is reported. Whether to go home for observation or to be hospitalized.
If you have doubts, you can insist on taking your child to the hospital at the first time and seek help from more professional people.
Instead of finding out during the observation period that the child's condition had become serious and the results came out, all of them were blamed on Sister Yao.
The most wrong place for Sister Ying is to take advantage of the man's big heart and intentionally or unintentionally provoke the relationship between husband and wife.
But it is not impossible to say that she must be a vicious person who needs the hostess to take pains to guard against.
It can only be said that if you want to make yourself not too tired, you must use people correctly. Treating a sister-in-law is the same as a workplace worker.
First, make good use of props.
Direct your husband to install surveillance for the home, whether he is looking for someone or personally fighting. In short, the monitoring before the sister-in-law enters the door must be enabled.
The role of monitoring is to restrain the bottom line of the other party, not too low.
With this prop, only supervise the things you value most, not everything.
We all know that fellowship with people often depends on the lowest point of the other person's humanity. But we can't rely solely on morality to test human nature, especially when it comes to children, and we can't afford the consequences.
Second, there is only one person in the family.
After all, the person who spends the most time with the sister-in-law is the hostess. Therefore, the only person in the family can only be the hostess. Instead of two mouthfuls, you one, I.
This, when the sister-in-law enters the door, must let her know.
In this way, some ill-intentioned concubines can be effectively avoided. Talk between the two sides and stir up dissension.
Third, make rules first and then do things.
Before the sister-in-law enters the door, some rules must be set first, especially the unshakable issue of principle.
The heroine is the main backbone, and when Sister Yao comes to this home, she is not to lead, but to become a helper to Yinuo.
All rules are enforced in accordance with the requirements of the employer. Where there are objections, it can be suggested, but it cannot be implemented after cutting corners or changing course.
For example, all breastfeeding required by Yinuo, for example, the clothes of children and adults should be washed separately.
In the matter of rules, grasp the big and let go of the small, and only grasp the most core problems. To understand that Sister Yao is not a god, not a sage, even under the premise of receiving money, it is difficult to do better than her mother.
Fourth, do not maliciously mistreat your sister-in-law.
You know, the sister-in-law takes care of you every day, and the person you are in close contact with is the person on the tip of your heart that you care about the most. Mistreating the sister-in-law, the final result, will eventually be eaten back to yourself.
Some people say that an ideal sister-in-law can be met but not sought, and it is the fate and luck of the previous life.
If they meet, it can only be said that they are lucky for each other. Two people with high moral standards meet each other.
When the employer is grateful and meets a good sister-in-law who works hard and complains. Sister-in-law Yue did not secretly sigh behind her back and met a good employer who was generous and compassionate.
Who dares to say that he treats his sister-in-law at every turn, defaults on salary, and does not give reasonable rest. As a result, the sister-in-law was grateful to Dade and served the employer's family like a god, how many such miracles?
Before we can compare our hearts to each other, understand each other, and rejoice in each other. You may wish to let the rules and props go first, and keep the bottom line of each other in this employment relationship.