Some scholars divide life into three realms: the first is "looking at the moon from the window"; the second is "looking at the moon in the courtyard"; the third is "standing on a high platform to play the moon".
The height of a person's standing and the depth of his thoughts determine his mind and temperament.
01
Don't argue when things go wrong
Someone once asked, "Does argument make sense?" ”
One of the high-ranking people replied: "In any case, there is no point in arguing." If there is no reason, there is no qualification to fight; if it is reasonable, there is no need to fight. ”
Different positions, different heights, different perspectives on the problem will also be different. If you want to understand everything, in the end it is often unclear and unclear, and you will also involve life in the vortex of consumption.
Indisputation is not a compromise, but a stop loss. What you want to do will not be achieved because others approve of it, and it will not end the road because others oppose it. We might as well spend the time arguing about meaningful things to achieve a truly valuable life.
Those who are good and gentle do not argue, and those who are good and victorious do not argue. Dealing with people in the world, doing more things, and arguing less is the wisdom of the clouds and the breeze.
02
Do not shy away from the disaster
When the suffering of life comes crashing over your face, you think the end of the world is here. But when you grit your teeth and work hard, after the storm, the sky will clear again.
Life is like bungee jumping, from jumping to free fall, every step is difficult, it takes a lot of courage and patience, but you are sure from beginning to end that everything will be fine.
There is no way out of the sky. The benevolent thing about life is that he will give excuses to lazy and evasive people, and he will always give an entrance to self-reliant people.
The weak complain and are always trapped; the strong rise and there is a way out.
Truly powerful people can hone their strong vitality in difficult situations.
03
Blame no one for mistakes
Only wide can accommodate people, only thick can carry objects.
Tolerance is a kind of temperament, but also a pattern.
Only by tolerating the faults of others can we broaden our own hearts; only by pretending to be the faults of others can we better gather people's hearts.
Blame people do not have to be harsh, and harsh is far away. People with profound virtues often have a broad mind and know how to cultivate themselves in tolerance.
When a person has seen mountains and seas, the right and wrong in front of him are as small as dust. The faults of others, the gains and losses of the present, and the current difficulties are all the cornerstones for sharpening one's own mentality.
Dealing with the world, acting more, understanding more, all the sufferings of life will one day become flowers and applause.
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Source 丨 People's Daily, the article has been deleted
Producer: Ou Can, Zhang Xiaohui
Editor: Yan Shan, Xie Fei
Editor-in-charge: Cao Chunyao Xu Bingyi