Baby: "Why is it getting dark?" ”
Mom: "Because the sun is setting." ”
Baby: "The sun has fallen on that mountain." ”
Mom: "I've fallen to a mountain far to the west." ”
Baby: "How far is it?" ”
Mom: "Far away is..."
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When the child reaches a certain age, it becomes "100,000 whys".
Parents may have the patience to answer at first, but as children's questions continue to increase, there are all kinds of strange questions that even parents do not know how to answer. This will make us very broken and irritable. Do you feel that way too?
In this regard, different parents will have different methods, some parents may rudely interrupt the child's questioning; other parents may answer very perfunctorily; but only smart parents still patiently and seriously answer, or take their children to find answers. Over time, different parents cope with different differences, and the gap between children slowly becomes larger and larger.
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Sun Ruixue, a famous Chinese educator and child psychologist, said this in "Capturing Children's Sensitive Period":
These "whys" are often in consecutive strings. Each "why" leads to a causal relationship, and a string of "whys" leads to a causal chain. Causality is a logical relationship, and when children explore logical relationships in language, a series of "whys" are emitted.
The process of the child asking "why" is actually the process of the child's exploration and learning, if we are always perfunctory, although we are relaxed, the child's growth may be affected. You know what?
Why do children have so many problems?
Babies have a strong curiosity
The world is full of mystery and unknown to children. Babies generally have a strong desire to explore and curiosity. Driven by curiosity, babies will continue to explore and understand the world. So in the process of continuous exploration and understanding, due to the lack of their own knowledge and ability, more and more problems will be generated, in order to seek answers, the baby will continue to ask questions.
The baby is constantly thinking about the problem
The baby keeps asking questions, indicating that the baby's brain is constantly thinking, for the unknown, the baby will use his own brain to think and understand. During this period, babies often regard their parents as authorities, so when children can't understand, I will ask questions to parents, hoping to get answers from parents.
It shows that the baby loves life and is good at observation
There are many problems in the baby, which shows that the baby loves life, is good at observation, and has a strong concentration. This is a good thing and very helpful for the growth of children. We should actively guide and help children in order to further make children more excellent.
With a baby who loves to ask questions, how do smart parents cope?
Pay attention to your child's questions
Why do some children like to ask questions when they are young, but they stop asking as they grow up? This is not to say that when a child grows up and understands more knowledge, there will be no problem.
This may be when the child's parents respond, do not pay attention to the child's questions, incorrect response, either rude interruptions, or very perfunctory. So that children are afraid to ask questions again, or are unwilling to ask questions again. Over time, the child will not ask again. This is undoubtedly a very tragic thing.
As parents, we should pay attention to our children's questions. For every question of the child, even if sometimes some problems are childish, parents should take it seriously and give timely answers and help.
If the child does not like to ask questions, then parents should also actively guide the child to observe, analyze, think, and then guide the child to ask questions, so that the child can have the initiative to learn.
Encourage your child to ask questions
Children like to ask questions, indicating that children like to think and constantly explore and seek knowledge, we should encourage children to ask more questions, guide children to be good at asking questions. This can make children consciously take the initiative to learn, which is also very helpful for the improvement of children's grades.
We encourage children to ask questions and actively give answers, on the other hand, we should also encourage children to ask questions at the same time, but also to guide children to explore independently, find answers, and seek solutions to problems.
Respond correctly to your child's questions
With the increase of children's questions, children's problems may be more difficult, at this time parents should not be irritable, more can not be rude treatment, but should be active response, and children to find answers, through the book to find information to solve the problem.
In order to solve the various problems that children continue to have, we can accompany our children to watch "100,000 Whys".
I recommend the latest version of "100,000 Whys" for children!
"100,000 Whys" not only has some of the questions we have seen before, but also collects new questions for children in the current Internet age. And for some of the previous questions, the answers have also been updated.
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New questions, such as why can't you keep playing with your phone; why museums don't let you take pictures; why can't you take home kindergarten toys...
"100,000 Whys" contains good habits, animals, plants, space, ancient life, safety, body, nature and other aspects, which is very comprehensive.
"100,000 Whys" uses the form of picture books and uses a combination of graphics and texts to answer children's questions, which can attract and stimulate children's interest in reading.
There is also Pinyin Zhuyin in "100,000 Whys", which can not only help children read, but also improve children's pinyin ability.
"100,000 Whys" not only adds a lot of new problems arising from the current era, but also helps children develop good habits while learning to understand these problems.
If you also have a baby who loves to ask questions, then you may wish to accompany your child to read the book "100,000 Whys". I believe that after a period of time, the child's performance will definitely surprise you.