Nowadays, many families, accompanying children to write homework has gradually become a burden for parents, and the original warm companionship process often becomes a "sword and light sword shadow" in the end.
Parents have headaches and children are also suffering, so how can we effectively change this situation?
The best way is to help children establish good habits in the early company, once and for all, as the saying goes: "Sharpen the knife without mistakenly cutting wood".
First of all, we must establish a correct concept, parents accompany their children to do homework The purpose is not just to accompany, but to cultivate children's good learning habits and the process of knowledge consolidation and counseling.
In this process, if parents just play mobile phones around their children, or do their own things is absolutely not OK, especially the first and second grade children need parents to pay more time and energy, in the process of tutoring, children correct sitting posture, develop correct writing habits.
The most important thing is to develop the learning rules of completing homework on time.
After waiting for the third grade, you can judge according to the child's individual situation, if the child has been able to ensure that the homework is completed on time, and can maintain a good sitting and pen holding posture when writing, then parents do not need to be accompanied by the whole process, as long as the child has no problems when the appropriate explanation can be.
Next, we will further analyze these three points:
1. Develop the habit of completing assignments on time.
First of all, we must set the rules, except for special circumstances, we must require the child to start writing homework at a fixed time every day, and parents should accompany and urge the child to work together in the early stage.
You can set up a reward mechanism, you can get points every time you follow the rules, and you can use the points to redeem your child's favorite rewards.
2. Correct your child's poor sitting posture and pen holding posture.
The most important task for parents during each accompanying process is to remind and correct the child to maintain a correct sitting posture and pen holding posture.
The posture of the body: the head should be ended, the neck should be straight, the eyes should be a foot away from the book, and the body should be a fist away from the table.
Pen holding posture: thumb and index finger naturally bent, held in the pen shaft; the middle finger is bent, slightly forced upwards to touch the pen shaft, the index finger tip lightly touches the pen shaft, the thumb is about 3 cm from the nib, the pen shaft falls at the third joint of the index finger, and the pen shaft is about 65 degrees at an angle with the paper surface.
3. Appropriate guidance to help children answer questions.
Finally, in the process of counseling, it is to help children answer questions and consolidate and review the knowledge they have learned, but it is necessary to teach children the methods and ideas of problem solving, guide children to think, understand, and solve problems on their own, rather than directly telling children the answers and avoiding the habit of dependence.
"It is better to teach people to fish than to teach people to fish."
The early stage of the escort suggests that parents can pay patience and energy to achieve high-quality accompaniment, when the child's habits are formed, on the right track, accompanying the child to write homework, will no longer become a "burden".
"Education is a long-distance run, and the king is encouraged."