Help your child treat electronics correctly

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Today is an information age, and our lives are naturally inseparable from electronic products. Electronic products themselves are not good or bad, the key lies in how we people treat it and how to use it. Using it well can help and enrich our lives and promote our growth; using it badly will also destroy our lives and hinder our growth.

The electronic products in life mainly include televisions, networks, mobile phones, computers, IPADs, games and so on. These things are indeed magical, and they are easy to fascinate.

I once asked parents, do you know who the most popular teachers in the world today are? It's TV, mobile phone and Internet. Now many children are TV, mobile phones and the Internet to accompany the growth of children, not the true love of parents to accompany the growth, many parents are very impatient with their children, in order to save their minds, they handed over their children to television, mobile phones and the Internet, the child really no longer bother him, many parents also foolishly think that they have found a good way.

Playing and playing is human nature, external stimuli are also the most able to attract people's attention, many adults can not get rid of the temptation of electronic products, let alone underage children? In a media interview, one elementary school student said thought-provokingly: "When I was lonely, my mother gave me my mobile phone. We have to reflect that primary and secondary school students are obsessed with electronic products, mainly because of the problems of family education.

I warn that parents do not need time and true love to love their children, accompany their children, let the TV, mobile phone and network accompany their children, and children will gradually recognize tv, mobile phones and the Internet as parents and indulge in them. There is a saying that says well, "Come out of the mix, sooner or later you have to pay it back", the child is actually using this way to complain to you, you did not accompany the child well in the past, now it is time to repay, and the interest rate is very high.

How to prevent children from becoming obsessed with electronic products? How can I help kids who are obsessed with electronics get out of it? The prescription teacher can prescribe it, but the good medicine is still in the parents.

First, parents should learn to combine the two tricks of "letting go and not letting go" and "being lenient and strict"

1. Explain to your child the pros and cons of electronic products

Electronic products are not only good things, bringing us a rich daily life, but also a bad thing, easy to addictive, easy to bad things. Electronics are just tools, we are the masters.

2. Reach a family agreement with your child in advance

Electronics are available, but be sure to follow the rules. Therefore, the family should convene a family meeting and democratically formulate an agreement that everyone agrees on. In this way, no one side will lose, and it can be called a "no loser" conflict resolution.

Protocols should be specific, clear, and operational. To stipulate the use of good use, in what circumstances can be used, under what circumstances can not be used, such as after doing homework or doing housework, when you rest independently, you can use it when you really need it, you must not use it when eating and before going to bed; you must stipulate the length of use time, usually there is no urgent need not to use, Saturdays, Sundays and holidays can play a total of 1 to 2 hours; to stipulate the appropriate place to use, where to use, where not to use; to stipulate good content, which can listen, watch, play, which can not The consequences and punishments for violating the provisions of the agreement should be stipulated, and of course, appropriate positive rewards can be given for compliance with the agreement; the agreement should be written and posted in a conspicuous place at home, so that children and parents can see it at all times.

Only agreements that family members abide by together are valid agreements, so the agreement is also valid for parents. Of course, parents are different from children, and they can attach some special rules according to the specific situation of parents, as long as family members jointly approve.

Violation of the agreement must be in accordance with the agreement, resolutely carry out the consequences, accept the punishment, and the scene of punishment should be "gentle adherence to principles, joyful execution of the consequences". Parents who violate the same need to take the initiative to accept punishment.

3. Parents should lead by example, set a good example, and abide by the agreement together

Many parents themselves are TV fans, mobile phone fans and game fans, watching TV, brushing their mobile phones and playing games as soon as they have time when they return home. So much so, how do you let your child treat electronic products correctly? Parents are originals, children are photocopiers, and families are photocopiers. If you want your child to treat electronic products correctly and stay away from games, parents must first set a good example and demonstration, and abide by family agreements with their children.

Parents should try to minimize the use of electronic products in front of their children, and if there is something that needs to be handled through electronic products, try not to be in front of the child, or sincerely tell the child that you are handling the work. Put down the phone as soon as the work is done. If you need to relax through mobile phone entertainment, try to avoid children as much as possible. A responsible parent will never hold a mobile phone all day.

In the process of abiding by the agreement together, parents have always trusted their children, always appreciated, accepted everything, and constantly communicated effectively and effectively helped. At any time, if family education is to achieve real success, it must be based on unconditional love, respect and trust for children. Otherwise, no matter how correct our educational methods or educational content are, and how valuable they are to the future of our children, it will be difficult to finally realize the expectations of our education and make real sense to the growth of our children.

This article is excerpted from Gu Wenwei's "And a Happy Life"

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