Author: Uncle Wu
Source: Positive Energy (ZNL118)
Marriage is not only a matter of two people,
It's also a matter for two families.
Because of marriage,
Let two people stay together for a lifetime,
It also brought the two families together.
Due to living habits, family culture,
Hometown customs, family income, etc. are different,
A little carelessness will cause some contradictions.
If you want to make the little two happy,
It is necessary to deal with the relationship between relatives and families,
Learn to speak well.
Good language, so that the family get along well,
Bad language divides the family.
So when you get along with your family,
These four types of words hurt the harmony of the two families the most,
Be sure to remember and don't say it!
1, do not expose the short of the family
Two family members get along,
We must know how to respect each other,
Never expose the shortcomings of your family.
Otherwise, it will cause contradictions and disputes,
Let the small two be embarrassed and affect the marital feelings.
If the two families have a disagreement,
Then bring it up in person, communicate with qi,
Learn to judge things on the spot, and never to hurt people,
Speak measuredly, know how to take care of people,
Not revealing people's shortcomings, making people embarrassed.
The feelings of the two families can be harmonious,
A marriage of two children can be happy.
2, don't look down on your relatives
Between people, they are all equal,
There is no distinction between high and low.
The same is true of family together,
Don't look down on anyone,
Say something that looks down on the other person.
Evil words hurt people june cold,
Such words will be like thorns,
Stuck in the hearts of the little two,
Not conducive to marriage.
Relatives, can also be regarded as a family,
You have difficulties, I help,
I'm in trouble, you help.
Don't hold the shelf and look at no one,
Say something that looks down on the other person.
Otherwise it will only make the little two mouths cold,
Bring a lot of trouble to the marriage.
3, don't say bad things about your family
No matter how bad the family is, no more wrong,
Don't say bad things about people.
Dissatisfied with the family, put it forward,
The family is wrong, explain clearly,
If it is stuffy in the heart, it means that the mulberry scolds the locust,
Say bad things about your family everywhere,
It is a manifestation of no cultivation.
Pro-family harmony or not,
Decide the happiness of the little two.
Don't say bad things about your family,
It is the care of the small two mouths.
Learn to speak warmly with Yan Yue,
The relationship between the two families can be better.
4, don't talk about the family's chores
Pro-family chores,
It's the business of the people themselves,
It has nothing to do with others.
Even if you are relatives,
Don't meddle in, either.
Otherwise, there is no sense of proportion,
It is easy to misunderstand,
Deepening the contradictions of others,
do a thankless task.
Every family has a difficult scripture,
Everyone has their own way of life,
Every home has its own way of doing things.
No matter how good the relationship with the family is,
In the face of people's chores,
Don't comment on it and intervene.
Keep your own bottom line, respect the wishes of others,
Etiquette is good, don't ask more about the rest.
The sea of people is vast, and the world is innumerable,
In this life, I can become a family,
It's a very fortunate thing.
Two families get along, sincerely,
Think more from each other's point of view,
No complaining, no accusations, no revenge,
Say more good things, often say warm words,
in order to change the relationship well,
The feelings of the two small mouths are more solid.
For the sake of the harmony of the two families,
For the happiness of the little two,
Don't say the above four types of words,
Keep your mouth shut, be measured,
It is a blessing for oneself and for others and for children!