When it comes to celebrities getting rich in business, who do you think of first? Is it Zhao Liang, the "Three Virtues" in "Kangxi Micro-Service Private Interview", who has transformed into a chicken farm owner, or "Erkang" Zhou Jie, who is "acting better than being a farmer"?
The protagonist of the story to be told today is called Zhu Mingying, she is a famous singer and song and dance artist in the mainland, and an entrepreneur with many companies, but if she is abandoned by her husband and no longer asks red dust, what is the story behind this?
After the famous door, they are said to have "no future"
Zhu Mingying was born in Shenyang in 1950, a place that was once the "Land of Longxing" in the Qing Dynasty. Zhu Mingying, who was born here, is indeed a famous descendant of the Qing Dynasty, and her grandfather was Zhang Zhidong, the governor of Liangguang in the Qing Dynasty.
However, "she died early in the morning", although she was the granddaughter of Zhang Zhidong, her childhood life was not at all related to the life of the children of Qing Dynasty officials, and her parents divorced when Zhu Mingying was 2 years old, and she has lived with her mother ever since.
But a single mother with a child is very hard in any era, so her mother married another person after three years of divorce, and Zhu Mingying changed from the original Zhang Mingying to the same surname as her stepfather.
It is very uncomfortable for a young child to suddenly face a "strange father", so whenever the stepfather is at home, Zhu Mingying is alone in his room, unwilling to go out and talk to the stepfather.
But her mother loved her very much, and although she had remarried, her love for her daughter was not diminished at all. Because she was afraid that her daughter would be bored at home alone, her mother often took time to take Zhu Mingying out to play, and every time she went out to play with her mother, it became the happiest time in those days.
Once, the mother took her daughter out to play as usual, they were walking on the road, Zhu Mingying was suddenly attracted by the burst of opera from the side of the road, she pulled her mother to point with her finger at the crowd of onlookers, it turned out that the theater was doing opera performances for the people on the side of the road.
Zhu Mingying stood where she was, her eyes staring straight at the stage where the opera was singing, and for a moment she did not even react to her mother calling her name. Seeing that her daughter was so interested in singing, her mother changed her original plan for an outing outside the city and went to listen to the play instead.
She lifted her daughter up, let her sit on her shoulder, and walked toward the stage, and that day Zhu Mingying sat on her mother's shoulder and watched "Liu Qiao'er" performed by Xin Fengxia.
Since that day, Zhu Mingying has developed a strong interest in singing, and she often runs alone to watch the performances of various opera groups on the side of the road, and when she returns home, she still learns the singing voice in the opera in her room.
"Mom, I'm going to go to a Chinese dance school, and I want to be an artist in the future." Zhu Mingying said in her childish voice.
The mother looked at the daughter in front of her, nodded her head to indicate that she agreed, and Zhu Mingying, who had received her mother's permission, ran out of her mother's room happily, but she did not see that when she ran out of the door, her mother slipped a tear in her eyes, and she still held a medical record card with the word "cancer" faintly written on it.
Soon after, the Chinese dance school began to enroll, and her mother also took Zhu Mingying to take the exam. Zhu Mingying arrived at the examination room just in time for her exam, and she ran to the exam in a hurry, completely ignoring her mother's violent coughing behind her.
After a while, Zhu Mingying came out, and the mother rushed over to inquire about the situation, but the daughter just shook her head and said that she did not know, and the mother hurried to ask the teacher. The teacher told her, "Your girl is very good-looking, but she doesn't have that talent to learn to dance." ”
After hearing this news, her mother was very depressed, she did not know how to tell her daughter, but she knew in her heart that this matter could not be hidden, so she walked over to Zhu Mingying and said: "The teacher said that you performed very well, but there are too many people who signed up this year, and the teacher hopes that you will take the exam again next year." ”
Zhu Mingying heard the connotation of her mother's words, and she understood that she had not been admitted. But she was a person who did not accept defeat, after returning home, Zhu Mingying locked herself in her room all day, forced herself to practice the basic skills, and finally the kung fu paid off, and after a year of hard work, she was finally admitted to the China Dance Academy.
Singer who is halfway out of the house
Zhu Mingying was admitted to the school of her choice as she wished, but at this time she could not be happy, because her mother died of illness at this time. Before leaving, her mother called her to bed and told her daughter to have the ability to take care of herself and live herself. Zhu Mingying watched her mother slowly close her eyes and her heart ached to the extreme.
After that, Zhu Mingying entered the Chinese Dance School and began her own dance practice, in which she insisted on practicing for 1 hour more than her classmates every day to make up for the gap between herself and her classmates.
After graduation, Zhu Mingying entered the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe with her excellent dance skills, but due to her late start, she was too old to come to the troupe and was not within the scope of the organization's key development. This made her very distressed, she had studied hard for so long, was she eliminated because of her age?
Zhu Mingying did not want to give up on herself, she thought that since it was a song and dance troupe, if she couldn't dance, she would simply go singing. This time, Zhu Mingying's choice pushed herself to a new height in life.
After 1979, the mainland gradually opened the door to communication and exchanges with all countries in the world, and the brothers of the African Third World were very friendly to us, so culturally the mainland was also willing to carry out friendly exchanges with African countries.
Zhu Mingying's dance troupe also followed the pace and began to vigorously develop African songs. But the dance troupe is for people who were previously singers to sing African songs, not including Zhu Mingying.
Since the organization does not cultivate itself, it cultivates itself. Zhu Mingying began to teach herself African songs, and when she did not understand the language, she studied with African students in Beijing, and did not understand the African style, so she bought her own discs and followed them over and over again. Anyway, there are always more ways than difficulties, and if there is a problem, it is better to overcome it.
In this way, Zhu Mingying, who was halfway out of the family, became a connoisseur of African songs in a short period of time. She officially entered the ranks of singers with an African song called "May Everyone Succeed", and few people could sing and sing African songs well in that era, so Zhu Mingying also embarked on the peak of her career, and she often attended evening parties to welcome foreign diseases.
He's a good guy, but we're not a good fit
At the age of 31, Zhu Mingying slowly walked into the wedding scene holding her husband's hand, and this moment was too late for both of them.
For Zhu Mingying's era, it was undoubtedly very late to get married at the age of 31, and a lady of about the same age as her was already a mother of several children at the age of 31. But she concentrated on her career in her early years and postponed her marriage so late, so Zhu Mingying attached great importance to this marriage.
Soon after she married her husband, she gave birth to a lovely son, and the two named the son Wang Jue. Because of the arrival of their son, the couple was very happy, but Zhu Mingying was more worried than happy, because her mother had told her before leaving that she wanted to live herself, and she had always agreed with this view.
Now the arrival of her son undoubtedly put a shackle on Zhu Mingying's career, she does not want to become a woman who does housework as a whole, after several thoughts, Zhu Mingying still chooses to go out on her own to work hard.
Later, Zhu Mingying's career did achieve great success, and her song "The Sea, Hometown" became a song that was popular all over the country at that time. Zhu Mingying's career achievements have also brought higher incomes, and she can live a better life for her family while living herself, which seems to be the best of both worlds.
However, her husband does not think so, because his wife's famous husband is often "chewed on the root of his tongue" outside and says that he lives on his wife, which he can tolerate, but because the husband also has to fight for his career, his son is often left unattended, which is the trigger for their quarrels.
Once, when the husband came home after work, he saw his son sitting alone in the doorway, it was a winter, the cold wind was biting, the stairwell had no windows to cover, and the cold wind mixed with some snow froze the young Wang Jue shivering.
"You don't even care about your son for your career?"
"Why is it all my fault, and why don't you blame yourself?"
"Whose wife is out there as a whole?" Today you have to make a choice, whether you want a family or a career! ”
On that day, Zhu Mingying returned home and had a big fight with her husband, neither of them gave in, and the long-standing grudge broke out at a moment, and the power was very amazing.
The next day the two went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedures, they did not speak along the way, after coming out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, the husband opened his mouth: "Son follow me, you go to walk your own life that you want to go." ”
Many years later, Zhu Mingying mentioned the reason for her divorce in the show, she said: "He is a good person, I am also a good person, but we finally separated, this is each other's choice, there is no right or wrong." 」 ”
Maybe marriage is indeed as Zhu Mingying said, both sides are very good people, everyone came together because of love, but it may also be because of some aspects of inappropriate and separated, life is impermanent, do not have to be entangled.
After the divorce, Zhu Mingying did not get entangled, she continued to devote herself to her career, and her ex-husband also found the right woman for himself, and he remarried a woman who was willing to marry and teach her children at home.
A mother and son in common
Although Wang Jue's stepmother was still good to him, but he was still young, he suddenly wanted to call a strange woman as his mother, which was difficult to accept.
Because Zhu Mingying is busy with her career all day, she rarely visits her son. Once she finally took the time to see Wang Jue, and her son saw his mother jump up happily.
That day they had a good time, Zhu Mingying took her son to buy new clothes and ate a big meal, before returning home, Wang Jue told her: "Mother, can you come to see me again tomorrow?" Listening to the voice of his son almost begging, Zhu Mingying still could not bear to refuse him, so he agreed.
However, it was very unfortunate that the next day Zhu Mingying suddenly received the news that she was going to study in the United States, and she once again made a fabric choice, on the one hand, her son's desire, on the other hand, it was a good opportunity to meet and seek, and finally Zhu Mingying chose the latter, once again leaving her son with endless disappointment.
However, Zhu Mingying is not a person who only cares about herself and completely ignores her son, after she arrived in the United States, she worked very hard every day, in order to bring her son to the United States to study in the future, and later she did realize her own idea, Wang Jue came to the United States to live with her mother, and successfully entered the Berkeley Conservatory of Music.
Wang Jue grew up to be very handsome, and after returning to China, he became the object of pursuit of all girls, but he chose not to fall in love. Zhu Mingying didn't care about this matter at first, and she got married very late anyway.
However, with the passage of time, Wang Jue's age is getting older, and her emotional situation has always been blank. Zhu Mingying began to worry, she wondered if her son had some psychological problems that he had not wanted to fall in love.
So Zhu Mingying went to talk to her son with questions.
"Mom, I don't want to get married, a lot of things are not terrible to have, terrible is to get and then lose." 」
Wang Jue said to Zhu Mingying. It turned out that the reason why her son did not want to marry was caused by her own failed marriage, which made her feel very guilty. In addition, Wang Jue also said: "In fact, I also look forward to having a happy family, but I am even more afraid that I can't keep this happiness." ”
Zhu Mingying did not know how to persuade her son after listening, their divorce had become a fact, and now the only thing she could do was to guard the broken home for her son.
Zhu Mingying has indeed done it, her ex-husband has been remarried for many years and Zhu Mingying has not remarried, she wants her son to know, although she did not give her son a complete family when she was a child, but her son is very important in her heart, she is not a mother who only cares about herself and does not care about her son.
Today, Zhu Mingying is 71 years old, she still has not remarried for her son, and Wang Jue has gradually opened her heart and began to fall in love and then start a family. Although the three members of this family have taken different paths before, fortunately, they are all people who have worked hard to live, and now they are all walking well on their respective paths.
In fact, the problem of marriage and career is a point that needs to be chosen for most people, and most people can't have both, but we have to know that a good career can be pursued, a good marriage needs fate, fate allows you to meet the person who is willing to pay for your career, you can have both, but what about your other half?