Xie Tianhua was like a spring.
When others press, he thinks not to pop up, but to "shrink" himself.
The other party has a promise, the other party's family is like this, and it is still the same for others. The flaws of his character are exposed by a bowl of kimchi.
The neighbor's aunt was honest with Xie Tianhua, carrying a bowl of kimchi every day and skillfully changing his meat dishes.
As the name suggests, Xie Tianhua loves to eat kimchi.
And her grandson, on the other hand, likes to eat meat dishes.
Swap each other, and "everyone rejoices."
Obviously, he is shy and taking advantage, but he can say it so grandly, and he can repeat it every day, which is really a brazen degree.
Xie Tianhua was not happy and uncomfortable in his heart.
If he wasn't uncomfortable and complained, how could he tell Xie Dan about it?
He had a big opinion, but even if he had an opinion, Xie Tianhua still swallowed it into his stomach.
Being too honest is sometimes a weakness.
And being too weak is essentially a kind of nest.
A big man, thirty or so, even has to run four. Suffering from this kind of grievance, he even asked his sister to take the lead for him.
At this point, Xie Tianhua was inferior to Xiao Lu.
But the clay man still has three points of blood, if he pushes too much, he will not fight back.
A spring, how can it retract, and when it is retracted to the end, when there is no way to shrink, in addition to bouncing outward, what can it do?
01: Xie Tianhua's "nest bag"
In front of outsiders, Xie Tianhua honestly overdone.
But in front of Fang Yinuo, Xie Tianhua was not only honest, but also weak to the point of being almost in his pocket.
In college, Xie Tianhua had a crush on Fang Yinuo. At that time, he did not have the courage to confess, so he watched Fang Yinuo and was "cut off" by his good brother Xiao Lu.
Although Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu got married later, Xie Tianhua did not change his original intention and still guarded Fang Yinuo as a friend.
Fang Yinuo gave birth to Hehe at a critical moment, and it was not Xiao Lu who sent her to the hospital, but Xie Tianhua.
After sending Fang Yinuo, he was obviously worried about her safety, but in order to avoid suspicion, Xie Tianhua still pretended not to care and left.
This kind of love, which cannot be said to be great, more or less, is permeated with a hint of humility.
Xie Tianhua's most courageous time is estimated to have launched a fierce pursuit of Fang Yinuo after her divorce.
When I was in college, I wanted to pursue, but I didn't dare to pursue, xie Tianhua was inferior.
Now that Fang Yinuo is divorced and has a daughter, he wants to pursue, and Xie Tianhua boldly pursues it.
Whether Xie Tianhua is willing to admit it or not, in his subconscious, he is not worthy of Fang Yinuo in college, but after the "damage" of Fang Yinuo in divorce, he is still worthy.
It is precisely because of this self-confidence that the weak Xie Tianhua will dare to show love to Fang Yi on the bus.
Xie Tianhua was able to accept Hehe so calmly, on the one hand, because of his kind nature, and on the other hand, out of the love of the other party's promise.
On the other hand, the hidden reason is probably that Xie Tianhua also knows that he can marry a promise, and a large part of it is because of Hehe.
Hehe needs a father.
And Hehe is also one of the reasons why he has the courage to pursue Fang Yinuo.
Before Hehe did not get sick, Xie Tianhua was a good father, a good husband, and a rare honest person.
This honest man is a really honest man, the kind that doesn't have quotation marks.
However, after Hehe fell ill, Xie Tianhua's patience and concessions again and again, and his honest personality was pushed step by step to the situation of "nest bag".
02: Xie Tianhua's resignation
Allowing Xiao Lu to come over from time to time to see the children was just the beginning. Immediately after, for the sake of Hehe, the default Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo test tube "second child".
Raising Hehe for Xiao Lu was Xie Tianhua's willingness.
For Hehe, not wanting his own children, Xie Tianhua was also willing.
But allowing Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo to have a second child was completely forced.
Xie Tianhua was angry, desperate, and even more helpless. However, he could not vent his emotions to Fang Yinuo, and could only punch Xiao Lu with one punch.
Venting his dissatisfaction and his pain was the only dignity that Xie Tianhua had as Fang Yinuo's husband.
But after venting, Xie Tianhua could not help but face the current situation. Whether to divorce Fang Yinuo or accept that they have a second child.
There is no doubt that Xie Tianhua chose to back down.
Compared to Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu having another child, Xie Tianhua was more afraid of losing Fang Yinuo.
Letting the child take his surname and be raised by him is the last decency of Xie Tianhua, an "honest man".
Once upon a time, Xie Tianhua was weak, but not a nest. The mind is delicate, but not sensitive.
The other party made a promise, and he trusted it unreservedly.
For Xiao Lu, it is even more unreservedly relieved.
Xiao Lu wanted to see the child, and he made "elaborate" arrangements. Xiao Lu wanted to take care of the child, and he also generously accepted.
In the past, although Xie Tianhua was not as good as Xiao Lu, he had a precious kindness and openness in him.
But now Xie Tianhua, all over his body, in addition to the decadence of not seeing his head at a glance, there is also a nest that makes people sigh and helpless.
For the love of the other party's promise, Xie Tianhua gave up everything he could give up, lost everything he could insist on, and humbled himself to the dust.
Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu "came to really" for the birth of the second child, and the hotel was opened. Xie Tianhua's reaction when he learned of this moment was not to "catch the adulteress", but to avoid Dong Fan's request for help and torture.
Pull up the roller shutters and one person goes to digest the pain.
Across the screen, you can feel the nest.
The green tendons that burst out of Xie Tianhua's temples could clearly be seen in the extreme anger and pain in his heart.
It is not that he is unwilling to "catch the adulteress", but that once he goes, whether it is Fang Yinuo's decency or his decency, it will be torn apart fiercely.
The marriage of those two people has come to an end.
In fact, at this time, Xie Tianhua, just like the spring we mentioned earlier, has been completely crushed to the end by Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu.
It is no longer possible to shrink a little more.
If you use gravity to force pressure at this time, it is tantamount to causing a strong "rebound" of the spring.
And Xie Tianhua in the trailer will make a "report" to hurt Fang Yinuo, and there is no doubt that it is this kind of rebound.
03: Xie Tianhua's angry resistance
Xie Tianhua really treated Hehe as if he were his own.
Even in some details, he, the stepfather, did a better job than Fang Yinuo.
The first time he confirmed his relationship with Fang Yinuo, the first time he had a "family dinner" with them, he wiped Hehe's hands, not paper towels, but disinfectant wipes.
This wipe was taken from his bag.
For being Hehe's father, Xie Tianhua was serious.
After Hehe fell ill, he caused severe vomiting because of chemotherapy. In the face of Hehe's vomiting, Xie Tianhua subconsciously stretched out his hands to pick it up.
Where can the vomit of chemotherapy patients smell well?
But Xie Tianhua's reaction was as rapid and natural as a conditioned reflex. At this point, Fang Yinuo around him may not be able to do it.
What is the difference between Xie Tianhua and Hehe and his biological father?
However, Xie Tianhua, who loved Hehe so much, actually reported to the doctor the fact that Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu were fake husband and wife.
Xie Tianhua did this, so that Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu lost the qualification of test tube, which was tantamount to cutting off Hehe's way of life.
"Honest man" Xie Tianhua, why did he choose to report?
In the end, he was still hurt by Fang Yinuo.
Although Xie Tianhua was in his heart, he already regarded Hehe as his own daughter. But this "as done" is not exactly the same as "yes".
Not having a child of his own is Xie Tianhua's regret, and even more so, it is the regret of the Xie family.
Because of this, when he saw the "two bars" in the bathroom, Xie Tianhua would be ecstatic.
But it was this hard-won child of the old Xie family, Fang Yinuo still wanted to choose to give up for hehe.
Xie Tianhua's joy and Fang Yinuo's sorrow formed a sharp contrast.
Knowing that she was pregnant, Fang Yinuo also pulled Xiao Lu and Xie Tianhua to the old Hu noodle stall to drink, indicating that this child, she did not want it in her heart.
In order to save Hehe, Fang Yinuo can give up everything and sacrifice everything, including the child in her belly.
But this child is not only Fang Yinuo's, but also Xie Tianhua's.
The most selfish thing about Fang Yinuo is that she wants to decide on her own whether to keep this child without telling Xie Tianhua.
How selfish, how cruel.
There is nothing wrong with a mother saving her daughter, but in order to save her daughter, it is inevitable to lose the bottom line by hurting the people around her in this way.
Fang Yinuo, Hehe she wanted to save, Xie Tianhua she did not want to lose. With Xie Tianhua's honesty and liking, he "hurt" again and again.
But this time, Xie Tianhua couldn't bear it anymore.
Beat up his baby, vacate the womb, and go have a baby with his ex-husband. Ren Xie Tianhua clay man-like nature, there will also be anger, right?
What's more, at this time, Xie Tianhua was a spring that was pressed to the bottom, and then under strong pressure, what he could do was to strongly resist.
Xie Tianhua's resistance can be said to be revenge.
But the revenge of honest people often comes in the form of wounding the enemy by one thousand and self-inflicted damage and eight hundred, which is purely suicidal.
Therefore, Xie Tianhua's resistance was desperate and painful.