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Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
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The years are not spared, and in the blink of an eye, they are old. From youth to knowing the destiny, it seems in an instant.
Ever since I found myself old, I've seen through it. Life is like a send, death is like a return, in the final analysis, we are all passers-by in the universe, all this is too hurried. When people reach a certain age, they will understand that living for themselves can live as much as possible.
After retirement, there is a period of time when I always feel a little helpless, a little wandering, a little sad, a little tragic.
Everyone's retirement life arrangement is different, as long as they think they are happy and comfortable. Whether you have money or not, whether your children are filial or not, you must love yourself well and spend the rest of your life happily.
The avenue is simple, three thousand prosperous, and finally simple. Simplicity is the ultimate beauty.
Be a person to live a little more thoroughly, and you will know what is best to do.
The years are long, the time is like an arrow, and in the blink of an eye, it is time for retirement. The sooner retirees see these three facts, the better.
[1] The fewer friends the better.
Richard Yates wrote in "Eleven Kinds of Loneliness": "I think the so-called loneliness is the person you face, and his emotions and your own emotions are not at the same frequency.
After reaching middle age, I slowly realized that socializing is an extremely troublesome thing. Sometimes it is a very precious thing for us to be able to live freely, especially after retirement.
After retirement, there is nothing wrong with being lonely, and it is better to enjoy being alone alone than spending all day with unfamiliar people.
Give up useless socializing and leave more time for yourself and your family. People don't really need too many friends, especially people who enjoy being alone, especially people who are old and understand the world.
[2] Keep your mouth shut and don't cause trouble, and keep your heart and don't make mistakes.
Oniguzi once said: The mouth, the portal of the heart, and the wisdom all come out of it."
In this life, many times people are actually bad in their mouths. Whether a person's fate is good or not can be seen from whether there is oral virtue or not.
Knowing people does not have to say everything, leaving three points of leeway with others, leaving some mouth and self. Speaking in a measured manner is not to poke at each other's sore spots at will, and not to say the words.
Seeing people talk less, seeing things less mixed, managing their own hearts, doing their own things well, opening their mouths is a curse, and shutting up is a blessing.
Meditation often thinks about oneself, and gossips about others. Talk less nonsense and keep to yourself so that you don't bring disaster to yourself.
People who can talk are like fish in the water; people who can't talk are difficult to walk. When a person reaches fifty, the first thing to understand is to talk less nonsense and remain silent appropriately, which is the highest practice in life.
[3] Be a little more affectionate and don't be nosy.
"Mo Yan autumn color mountain is light, mountain to late autumn red is deeper."
When people reach retirement, it is time to enjoy the fruits of the first half of their hard work.
When people are old, don't care about other people's business after retirement, manage your own mouth, and don't say it when you can't get used to it. When we retire, let's live a simple and bright life, and don't have to worry about unnecessary chores.
People always live for themselves, keep their mentality peaceful and emotional stability, the elderly can live a long and healthy life.
Lin Qingxuan said: Life is just like this, the pursuit of becoming a better, more spiritual and spiritual self. After retirement, you can quietly enjoy the rest of your life and live the life you want.
Time alternates between heaven and earth; years, reincarnate in the earthly world. How many decades can there be in life, how can life pass so quickly, it is incredible.
Retirees, see three things early. From now on, in a limited life, do your best to complete the infinite time.
Author: Ling Mai, a girl who likes words, is very happy to meet you in my words, and is willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.