I have a big brother in the comment area, who is Ms. Li's iron fan.
Honestly speaking, there is a person who thinks about my daughter-in-law every day, and I am still a little flustered.
What's more, this big brother, his surname is Wang.
...... More panicked.
Ms. Li was very happy.
Every time I posted about her, she snatched her phone away and read the comments in the background that praised her, and she was silly while watching it.
For Ms. Li, praising her articles are all good articles.
Each time when I take the perspective of a professional self-media person, where I analyze:
"I didn't make this headline good enough today..."
"The topic of this issue is a bit off..."
"This article should not be so low to read, I have to find the reason..."
I'm always there thinking about reading numbers, topic selection, open rate, and then see where else can be improved.
Ms. Lee didn't care.
But anyone who praises her article, that is, "Well written!" ”
……
What can I do?
I can only go to TM's major and give Ms. Lee more than 10086 likes:
"You're right!"
I have a ferromagnetic child, let's call him the second eldest for the time being.
The second eldest has been hanging out with me since junior high school, and now he has more than ten years, which belongs to one of my most lifelong friendships.
He is also a regular on Ms. Lee's blacklist.
Don't get me wrong, this doesn't affect the relationship between the three of us.
How weird.
The personality of the second eldest is a bit similar to mine, not so blunt people, like to be pretentious.
Not the kind of temperament to people, but to be affectionate with yourself, to put it bluntly, it is to twist it, love yourself and compete with yourself.
Ms. Lee is the exact opposite.
When I was in college, and when I worked in Zhengzhou for two years, we often ate together or went out to play.
Ms. Li is the kind of person who loves and hates quickly and goes quickly.
Maybe one day, she felt that the second elder's words were wrong, and she hated it, and then she blacked out.
Maybe one day, she thinks this person is not bad, so she adds it back.
Of course, you may also forget to add it back.
At first, the second brother was also very confused, saying that you were looking for something, how did it take a while.
But in the past few years, the second brother told me that he liked Ms. Li more and more.
I like Ms. Lee's character too.
I silently withdrew the 49-meter long knife
The second eldest works in a state-owned enterprise, and most of the people he deals with every day are people in the public door, and what he is best at is that he has words in his words.
After two years of work, a person is a twenty-five-year-old, and the heart is the heart of a fifty-two-year-old.
Then he looked back at Ms. Li, no need to guess or think, whether he hated you or liked you, it was written on his face.
To get along with this kind of person, you don't have to figure out the meaning of her words, don't have to dwell on her inner thoughts, and don't have to worry about her superficial set behind her back.
So even if he was blocked by Ms. Li, we could still talk in a small group for an hour.
Of course, it was when Ms. Lee didn't hate him.
Ms. Li was wronged outside and would come back angrily.
This kind of grievance is generally a secret loss.
On the surface, Ms. Li could not have suffered any losses.
She never played anything with people , " he is stronger than him, the breeze blows the hills " , it has always been " he is strong? I'm stronger than him."
But when she encounters the kind of person who is kind on the surface, but makes a bad move behind her, she has no move, often after realizing it, and sometimes she is not found when she is pitted.
I am a person with a bad stomach, who can see it.
I'll give her advice, say you do this and this, then that and then that, and then this and that...
Balabala said a bunch of things, well versed in the essence of the thirty-six counts of ancient China, and all kinds of yin and damage moves were available.
Ms. Li has two hands and one stall:
"I won't."
……
Also, these things of mine, for her to operate the difficulty coefficient, is really a bit big.
After saying this, I was a little ashamed to face her again.
I actually had so many shady ideas in my head, compared to Ms. Li's baby-like pure heart, my soul is really too dirty, too dirty.
……
Oh, no.
I'm here to help her solve the problem, how can I still self-condemn herself.
But I found that when Ms. Li complained with a small mouth, she was not angry, and she began to fight the landlord while humming the song.
It seems, in fact, that I don't need much to address anything.
I even wondered how happy I would be to live like this.
Ms. Lee has a mantra called "better than being beaten, which comes from her great mother.
I once thought that in these four short words, there is a sense of heaven and earth, and the avenue is invisible.
When I first started learning to cook, the probability of defective products under my hands was quite high.
Either it's salty or the seasonings are too much.
Ms. Li would bury her head in disgust and say, "Didn't you say it wasn't delicious?" ”
At this time, she will sacrifice the most reasonable saying: it is better than being beaten.
...... How to feel that Ms. Li was beaten when she was a child.
According to her recollection, she did not do less than being beaten when she was a child.
In the third grade of elementary school, I got into a fight with the boy in the next class and was beaten and cried.
Stealing money from the family, she was discovered by her father, but her father did not run away from her.
Threatening that she didn't want to go to school, her mother threw herself into the wheat field and spent an afternoon of grass in the sun.
These experiences of hers made me, the well-behaved baby, stunned and then very envious.
When I was a child, I tried to be a good boy for my parents, a good student for my teachers, and a punching bag for bad kids at school.
Most of the praise I have received in my life comes from my childhood:
"This kid is so sensible"
"This kid is so obedient"
"This child is really filial"
……
But the problem is, I don't want to be "this kid" at all.
So I met Ms. Li, who was "wanton and bold", and I was extremely envious.
If there is parallel space-time, she is probably, another me.
To be honest, it is quite "laborious" to fall in love with Ms. Li.
After all, when adults get along, they always have to talk about proportions, the sense of distance, the scale, and tacit understanding.
Ms. Lee doesn't have these stinky problems.
Like is like, dislike is dislike, where there is nothing hazy and ambiguous.
I want to keep my distance when I'm clinging to you.
Sometimes, when you want to use the so-called adult set and prepare to communicate with her well, you find that you are not straight and insufficient.
The so-called law of getting along with adults is nothing more than the externalization of people's hearts and stomachs.
You are not sure whether the person on the other side has given a true heart, and naturally you dare not exchange the true heart for the true heart, relying on the so-called scale and distance, enjoying the temperature at the same time, while avoiding being hurt.
But Ms. Li seems to never learn this set.
Right
I like you, and I want to give you everything.
In the face of such a person, what can you do?
Sometimes, she is righteous and unreasonable, and even if I get angry again, I can quickly dissipate my anger, and there will never be any estrangement in my heart.
After all, who can hate someone who is as transparent as a child?