What is the most important thing in married life? I believe that most people can answer this question, which is nothing more than loving each other, understanding each other, understanding each other, and so on.
However, everything is always easy to say and difficult to do. When there is a conflict in marriage, many people cannot control themselves, so they will hurt their lovers again and again.
Xiaofang and Arwen have been married for half a year, because they are pregnant before marriage, so Xiaofang is about to be in the pot.
Speaking of this marriage, Xiaofang now has some regrets. Before getting married, because she was too young and didn't think too much about it, she felt that Arwen was good to her, so they were together, and they didn't pay attention to contraception later, resulting in pregnancy, and their parents could only hurriedly let Xiaofang marry Arwen in order to avoid the ugliness of the family.
Originally, Xiaofang did not care too much about the unexpected pregnancy, because she felt that after having a child, Ah Wen would definitely be better for herself. So although her parents are not very happy, she herself is very happy and looks forward to a happy life in the future.
But what she didn't expect was that Arwen's kindness to her, although not mixed with false feelings, was only one of Arwen's sides. After getting married, Arwen's shortcomings were exposed. For example, "Ma Bao", such as laziness, everything in the family must be asked by the mother, and housework does not want to be done.
However, at this time, it is too late to regret it, and Xiaofang can only hope that after Ah Wen becomes a father, she can take responsibility and make the appearance of the head of the family, so that she can worry less about snacks. As a result, this good wish was broken after the pot.
After Xiaofang gave birth to a child, the mother-in-law who was supposed to take care of The Moon suddenly fell ill and was admitted to the hospital, and in desperation, Xiaofang could only urgently call her mother. After the mother received Xiaofang's call, she packed up her things and came to her daughter's house without saying a word, and began to take care of her daughter's confinement with all her heart.
However, what makes Xiaofang angry is that Ah Wen did not express gratitude for the arrival of his mother, and only lightly greeted his mother-in-law after work, and then did not help at all, lying on the sofa playing with his mobile phone, as if the arrival of his mother was a matter of course.
After Xiao Fang saw this scene, she was angry. So for a while after that, Xiaofang would deliberately find something for Arwen to do every time, either asking him to change the child's diaper or burping the child. At first, Arvin was reluctant but would do the same. But as soon as the number of times, Ah Wen couldn't stand it and quarreled with Xiao Fang.
After the mother heard her daughter and son-in-law arguing, she quietly went to Xiaofang in private and said that if Ah Wen didn't want to do it, don't let him do it, he can't do this kind of fine work as a big man, and he will find her later when there is something. If her daughter quarreled with Arwen because of her, then she would not be able to stay in this family, and eventually her daughter would have no one to take care of her.
Listening to her mother's words, Xiaofang felt both aggrieved and distressed, both wronged by the non-people she entrusted, and distressed that her mother had paid so much for them, Ah Wen was not grateful, even if her mother was still thinking about her, she would rather bear more responsibilities.
Half a month later, when the mother was washing the baby's clothes, she suddenly felt unwell, and Xiaofang was so frightened that she quickly asked Arwen to send her mother to the hospital for a check-up. Arwen coldly took his mother-in-law out of the house and returned in an hour or so. The results of the examination showed that the mother was too tired to make an old problem and needed to rest for a while.
After knowing the result, although her mother said that she was fine, Xiaofang was distressed about her mother and would not let her mother continue to take care of her no matter what. So she asked her brother to come over the next day and take her mother home. Before leaving, Xiaofang forced her mother to give ten thousand yuan, and her mother originally did not want to collect it, but at Xiaofang's insistence, she finally accepted it.
Knowing that the mother-in-law is gone, Ah Wen, who came home from work, looked very surprised, and she asked Xiaofang, the mother-in-law is gone, what should she do with her confinement? Xiaofang said that don't worry, she has called her mother-in-law to come over, and it is estimated that she will arrive the next day.
Ah Wen suddenly lost his temper after listening, he said that his mother had just been discharged from the hospital not long ago, and he still had to recuperate, how could he let her take care of Yuezi?
Xiao Fang sneered and said, "Then isn't my mother also sick?" And my mother is an 'outsider', your mother is a relative, do not let her take care of, let who take care of? ”
Ah Wen said angrily, "Your mother came to take the child to help you, isn't it supposed to be?" Besides, she didn't have any big problems, my mother was sick and hospitalized, can it be the same? ”
Xiao Fang said, "Yes, that's my mother, not your mother." But your mom is also your mom, not my mom. Either you treat everyone equally, or you shut up and take care of the children yourself. My mother came to help you even if you don't appreciate it, and you still feel taken for granted. Let your mother do what she is supposed to do, you can't stand it, are you still human? ”
Xiao Fang's words were reasonable and well-founded, and Ah Wen calmed down after listening to it, but he was not reflecting, but did not know how to refute it, so he simply did not speak, and angrily shut himself in the guest room.
The next day, the mother-in-law did come over, because it was only a small operation before, and after more than ten days of rest, she had almost recovered. From Ah Wen's mouth, she already knew what had happened before, so as soon as she came over, her nose was not her nose, and her face was not her face, but Xiao Fang didn't care.
Not only did she not care, but she also told Arwen about giving her mother ten thousand pieces, and Arwen's reaction did not surprise her, and it was indeed a great fire. Just as he was about to argue, Xiaofang suddenly said to him: "I have already missed once, I can bear it for the sake of my children, but if you go too far, I don't mind divorcing you." ”
Hearing the word "divorce", Arwen calmed down again, this time he was really calm. Because in XiaoFang's bland tone, he could see that she was not joking.
After this contradiction, Ah Wen suddenly became much more diligent than before, just like Mao Setunkai, and his change also made Xiaofang feel the beauty of love again. However, she still needs time to test whether Arwen is truly repentant or will return to the old ways.
epilogue
Marriage can be said to be a big gamble in a woman's life, gambling wins, happy life, gambles lose, and a lifetime of misery.
Therefore, women must think twice before getting married. Because before two people enter marriage, almost all they can contact is each other's advantages, and even if the other party has shortcomings, it is easy to be ignored in sweet love.
For marriage, do not make impulsive decisions. Although the words of parents are not all right, after all, they have traveled more roads than we have, so some of their words, we must try to understand and accept.
In addition, you must know how to be grateful, in this world, except for yourself, no one has the obligation to do anything for you, even if your parents do not. Of course, out of love, maybe parents are willing to do it, but we can't take it for granted, otherwise, the things you hurt have experienced more, and one day you will become alone.