The most difficult thing to deal with after marriage is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and this mother-in-law has unreasonable requirements. On the first night of the marriage of the daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law who occupied the marriage room asked the daughter-in-law to return the bride price. He even said that the money was given to him by himself and had the right to come back. For this matter, this matter can be said that this mother-in-law is to see the daughter-in-law is a good bully. Thinking that he had already married into their family, he had to obey his orders, and even asked his daughter-in-law to return the dowry money to him. In the face of such a thing, it can be said that this mother-in-law did not have any kind eyes, and the daughter-in-law did not eat soft rice. Tell him directly, if you take care of me again, I will divorce your son. In the end, it can be said that the mother-in-law moved herself and the stone hit her own feet.
On the night of the wedding, the mother-in-law asked the daughter-in-law to return the dowry money
This mother-in-law can be said to have seen her relatives marry her daughter-in-law when she was married, plus the dowry money she gave, and the daughter-in-law can be said to have a huge amount of money. So the mother-in-law wanted to get her dowry money back. Moreover, on the night of the wedding, he sat directly in the marriage bed of his daughter-in-law and did not leave. Just say that you just need to return the dowry money for me, and I will leave here and leave immediately. The daughter-in-law is not very weak, so she directly replied, why should I withdraw the bride price? Don't play tricks on me here.
That is to say, in the face of daughter-in-law, she should and her mother-in-law not eat soft rice and start to mess around. Just say to your daughter-in-law that you are a woman's family for so much money? Plus you're not short of money right now. Your parents gave you a dowry, you have so much money in your hand on you, I am not at ease, you will give me the dowry money, your parents dowry money will stay by your side, and the dowry money in your hands is to say that it is better to give me a foothold after I can help you have a foothold, but also can protect you, so that no one can bully you. This mother-in-law did whatever it took to ask for the bride price, because he knew that if his daughter-in-law did not have the support of his mother-in-law, then others would give him a cold face.
But the daughter-in-law will not eat the mother-in-law's set and directly said, if you do not leave again, I will directly divorce your son, saying that the current bride price is in my hands, there is no need to return it to you, and we are married, clearly choosing that the bride price belongs to me, and it is premarital property. There is no obligation to hand it over to you. That is to say, in the face of such words as the daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law is also very angry, just happened to send his son back, saw the atmosphere in the home is very strange, asked his mother what happened, but the mother has been bowing her head and not speaking, the daughter-in-law can not bear it, directly said that your mother wants me to return the dowry money to him. If you don't retire before staying in the marriage room tonight, that is, in the face of such a thing, the son is also very angry, saying that his mother is unreasonable to make trouble, and after saying a word to his mother, his mother will consciously leave.
Therefore, this son is an informed person, not a mother treasure man, he knows that his mother is very wrong to do this, and he also knows what kind of attitude his mother has, and he does not speak to his mother, his daughter-in-law, and this son also knows what kind of attitude his mother has, so for this matter, the son has a certain relationship between marriage. For this reason, this mother-in-law can be said to want to bully the daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law, but was taught by the son back, well, the daughter-in-law and the son's feelings are very stiff, you must know that his mood of making such a fuss about the daughter-in-law is definitely not good, and the son's heart is not good. Such a husband and wife relationship will be implicated, so this mother-in-law does not have a good traction at home, but will make the feelings worse and worse.
summary
This matter can be said that what this mother-in-law did was really wrong, he was particularly selfish and selfish about himself, did not take into account his son's feelings, directly called for the dowry money of his daughter-in-law, and even used the dowry money to suppress his daughter-in-law, saying that he would have a foothold in the in-laws' family in the future, and finally for this marriage, it can be said that he angered his daughter-in-law, and also made his son unhappy, because there is a certain gap between the feelings of his son and daughter-in-law. The mother-in-law moved herself, and the stone fell on her own feet.