Daughter-in-law confinement mother-in-law to take care of 30 days, daughter-in-law to mother-in-law 3000 aunts are too little, brother: close to your ass

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On the issue of sister-in-law, the most feared thing is to be preoccupied with calculations and fight with each other.

Originally, where there are many women, it is easy to talk about right and wrong, and if one party is always provoking trouble, it will be even more unstable.

The heroine in the next case met the big sister who provoked right and wrong at her in-laws' house, and how should she cope?

When Qiao Hui was not yet married, she was more worried about the future relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Because her husband also has a sister, her mother-in-law and her aunt are in the battle together, and she still feels that she can't stand it.

Fortunately, I don't live with my mother-in-law, and I occasionally go back to my in-laws' house to have a meal and get along better.

I still remember the first time Qiao Hui went to her mother-in-law's house after marriage, her mother-in-law specially prepared her favorite turtle.

It turned out that the husband had communicated with the mother-in-law privately, and the mother-in-law went out early in the morning to buy turtles, and was busy making braised turtles in the morning.

Qiao Hui's heart was beautiful, she thought that her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were not good, but she did not expect her mother-in-law to be so considerate.

So she took a picture of the turtle before the meal and thanked her mother-in-law for cooking for her.

This time, Qiaohui's circle of friends have praised her, and there are many envious and jealous remarks.

Qiao Hui replied happily while eating, and suddenly she saw her eldest sister commenting below.

It is said that the old man makes this hard dish and spends his body, and he should pay attention to it in the future.

Qiao Hui looked at the clouds in the fog, so she carefully asked her husband, and worriedly said whether the eldest sister was unhappy.

Husband Zhang Tao looked at it for a while and did not speak, comforting that it was okay. However, he also told her to send less circle of friends in the future, so as not to cause trouble.

Qiao Hui took the initiative to wash the dishes and chopsticks after eating, and in the afternoon she had been talking with her mother-in-law in the living room.

Before leaving, the mother-in-law also took some cured meat to bring back to her, and the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was close and harmonious.

It's just that QiaoHui doesn't know that the turtle photos she sent today make the eldest sister feel very uncomfortable.

You must know that when there was no Qiaohui before, she was the most favored girl in the family.

If the eldest sister returns to her mother's house, the mother-in-law also goes to buy vegetables early and prepares various good dishes for the eldest sister.

But this time, QiaoHui actually had the same treatment, which made the eldest sister's heart unbalanced at once.

So the eldest sister talked to her mother-in-law on the phone that night, and asked her if she was tired or not, and asked her if her waist was sore.

On the phone, he also said with disgust: "Sister-in-law Qiaohui came home today, oh mom, your craftsmanship is really good, that is, I hurt your waist." That kind of dish takes a lot of work, and they don't know how to hurt you~"

The old lady said that she was not tired, and said that her heart was finally put down when the two children became a family.

The eldest sister told her mother about the shortness of the parents, and also said that the sister-in-law did not know the pain.

The old lady didn't pay much attention to these words, and hung up the phone for more than half an hour to rest.

By the next weekend, the eldest sister also returned to her mother's house early for dinner.

It was unfortunate that Hui Hui had just arrived at her mother-in-law's house and saw her eldest sister sitting in the living room watching TV.

With the last circle of friends, this time she was a little nervous when she saw her eldest sister.

She quickly greeted her sister politely and put the thing she was carrying on the ground.

Seeing that there was only a box of milk and a bag of apples, the eldest sister-in-law's eyes were not very friendly.

Only to listen to the sister said slowly and leisurely: "Qiaohui, this kind of pure milk is not easy for the elderly to digest, or the kind of high-calcium gift box milk powder is good, although it is more expensive, but it is good to digest and nutritious." ”

Qiaohui was very uncomfortable with this, but her husband had not yet arrived, and she did not dare to say anything more.

It wasn't until dinner that the eldest sister began to produce moths again.

It turned out that when she saw Qiao Hui just burying her head in the meal, the eldest sister said in a yin and yang strange way: "Qiao Hui, your mother made you your favorite dish last time, and you don't cook today to add some dishes to your mother." ’”

Qiao Hui was stunned for a moment, and did not expect that the eldest sister would let her not get off the stage in public.

Fortunately, her husband Zhang Tao hit the round field in time and said, "Sister, you are too." Obviously you are closer to your mother, you are coming. ”

The eldest sister did not expect that her brother would choke her, so she stopped provoking trouble and quietly finished eating.

I don't know if it was the reason for the eldest sister, Qiao Hui made an excuse to leave after eating.

At this time, my sister took the opportunity to blow the wind with the old lady: "Mom, you look at our daughter-in-law, the dishes are not added to you, and the dishes are not washed for you." Is this to treat us both as messengers, together with you to cook for her, I will wash her dishes. ”

The old lady seemed to listen to this, and her face was a little ugly.

The eldest sister took the opportunity to add oil and vinegar and said a lot of bad things about Qiaohui.

Since then, although the old lady has not changed much about Qiaohui, she is not as intimate as she was at the beginning.

And Qiao Hui also feels that the atmosphere of the in-laws' family is strange, and she does not like to go to her mother-in-law's house.

As the saying goes, this meeting is three points of affection, Qiaohui and her mother-in-law stay less, and the feelings slowly retreat.

However, the eldest sister began to return to her mother's house often, and became the baby girl of her mother's family.

In fact, these Zhang Tao are all in the eyes, and the heart is also clear and bright.

His sister has always been competitive, and she used to hide the delicious food in the family.

At this time, it is difficult to be clever, but it is nothing more than feeling that his status is not as good as before.

After the eldest sister observed that Qiao Hui did not return to her mother's house, she was very proud in her heart.

In order to work harder, she spent more than two hundred to buy a pair of old man's sneakers for her mother.

She happily unwrapped her mother and helped the old lady to change it intimately.

The mouth also said: "Mom, our colleague bought a pair for her mother-in-law, I think I have to buy it for you, try it." ”

The old lady was coaxed by her daughter to smile and smiled, and she also thought from the bottom of her heart that her daughter was still good.

While coaxing the old lady to be happy, the eldest sister said that the daughter-in-law of other people's families was more sensible and caring.

Which is like Qiaohui, cooking for her also has to put on a face, and the eldest sister also has to clean up the dishes behind the ass.

After listening to these words, the old lady also felt that Qiaohui did not understand things, and said that in the future, she would have to let Qiaohui do more work and not be so squeamish.

Before she could educate Qiaohui, she became pregnant, which made her in-laws happy.

At this time, the old lady does not feel that the daughter-in-law is not good, and she buys vegetables and meat every day to cook vegetables, afraid that Qiaohui's nutrition is not enough.

It was obvious that the old lady attached great importance to Qiao Hui's pregnancy, which made the eldest sister-in-law jealous again.

So she began to chew her tongue with the old lady again, nothing more than to be pregnant and dare to make her mother-in-law do this and that.

In fact, buying vegetables and cooking is voluntary by the old lady, but it can't help but stir up dissension, and the old lady is not too diligent when she goes to Qiaohui's house.

It wasn't until Qiao Hui gave birth to the child that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law eased up a little. It's just that Qiao Hui gave birth to a girl, and gave the eldest sister the opportunity to stir up trouble.

It is not that the girl cannot pass on the generations in the future, or it means that QiaoHui is forced to fight for a second child.

Jumping up and down, the relationship between Qiao Hui and her in-laws deteriorated again.

Because the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have some small contradictions, Qiaohui only lets the mother-in-law take care of herself for a month. After consulting with her husband, she also gave her mother-in-law three thousand yuan in hard work.

As a result, after the eldest sister knew, she kept saying that it was too cut to give three thousand, and it would take more than ten thousand to ask for a sister-in-law outside.

He also said to the old lady, "Mom, you have to ask Qiao Hui what she means, is it because you are not well taken care of?" It's more than three thousand to find a babysitter!"

The old lady did not have any ideas, and told her daughter that she really went to find her son and daughter-in-law and told her grievances.

As soon as Zhang Tao heard it, he knew who was the ghost who made it, and in front of his mother, he called his sister and shouted: "Sister, what do you mean, is it interesting to do things every day?" We're Your hand is stretched too long!"

After saying that, he hung up the phone, and his mother slipped away.

From then on, the eldest sister did not dare to stir up dissension casually, for fear that her brother would call again to scold her...

The husband in the case is very sensible, and he also intervenes in time to stop the sister's provocation.

This tells us that family harmony requires not only everyone's efforts, but also the following two truths.

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One: Women will "say good things" in their mother's house, which is a kind of wisdom.

Sometimes the relationship between sisters and sisters-in-law is more important than the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

As a native member of the in-laws' family, the sister's status and right to speak are higher than those of the daughter-in-law.

Therefore, sisters-in-law need to get along more harmoniously, after all, they are all a generation, and the generation gap and suspicion gap will be a little less.

In addition to the new daughter-in-law's duty not to provoke trouble, the sister should also keep to herself in her mother's home and try to say more good things.

Don't be like the sister-in-law in the case, lest the world not be chaotic, but also everywhere to stir up right and wrong.

So much so that he was called by his brother to teach him a lesson, and even his relatives would not be able to do it in the future.

In fact, the things that stir up trouble can only be harmful to themselves, and they reflect a person's low IQ and low emotional intelligence.

To know the family and everything, the really smart sister will only resolve the family conflict.

Sometimes words can destroy harmony in the home, and sometimes they can create an enviable family atmosphere.

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Two: It is a wisdom that men will be "evil" in family relationships.

Men should not stay out of the family's contradictions, nor can they be indifferent.

Once the man lets it go, it undoubtedly gives others the courage to provoke destruction.

In fact, protecting the family is the responsibility and obligation of every man.

In the provocations and bullying of others several times, the head of the family must take out an iron fist to rectify.

When men dare to play the role of "wicked" in the family, it is undoubtedly a warning to everyone.

This deterrent is not only a medicine to alleviate family conflicts, but also a wisdom in dealing with the world.

The hero in the case made a good demonstration, using an unkind phone call to make the initiator bow his head.

The act of protecting his family is not only a man's responsibility, but also makes people look at him.

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Many times, meeting aggressive relatives can be overwhelming.

In fact, it is not how strong the other party is, but whether there is someone behind you.

I also hope that all girls can find the warrior who can shield you from the wind and rain.

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