A 2-year-old will enter a variety of developmental sensitivity periods.
Every parent hopes that their baby will grow up quickly, and that grown up children can let themselves spend less energy and more time to do their own things, and that children who are too young will often have accidents, which makes parents worry.
Moreover, too many parents nowadays regard their children's college as an important time node, and divorce and traveling the world are also carried out after their children go to college, so can they not want their children to grow up quickly?
Growing pains are unavoidable for every child
After Xiao Chen and her husband got married, they soon had children, and it was not the result of the two families, everything was natural and natural. The two small families did not refuse too much, and it was naturally not difficult to have a child.
In the process of Xiao Chen's pregnancy, she has been searching for relevant parenting knowledge, after all, she is the first time to be a mother, her eyes are black, she doesn't know anything, or do you have to make more preparations, otherwise how to cultivate excellent babies?
But it is when she consults the critical period of the baby's development, her whole person is not good, from the age of 1 year old, the baby enters the peak period of development, and then there will be dozens of sensitive periods waiting for herself and the child, which requires a star and a half of energy?
In this way, Xiao Chen is in anxiety every day, afraid that he will not be able to play the role of mother, what if he really delays the growth of his child because of his own negligence! The whole family will blame themselves.
But fortunately, the husband discovered Xiao Chen's abnormality in time, and after understanding the situation, he said to Xiao Chen: We have no experience, isn't everyone around us like this? Everyone can raise well, what are we missing? As long as we are careful, the problem is not big!
To the "terrible two-year-old", 2 "problems" can not be used to, parents be careful of pit baby
Doesn't like to sleep, often sleep late
We all know that the sleep of babies in the long body stage is very important, and their growth rate in the sleep state is 3 times that of the daily state, otherwise there will not be many parents complaining, and the child seems to grow up overnight.
Moreover, in all physical development, the development of the brain is particularly important, long-term lack of sleep will lead to insufficient blood supply to the brain, limiting the normal development of the brain, even if it has good genetic genes can not compete with living habits.
But the babies do not know this truth and impact, they may see that the parents do not sleep, they also want to play more, sleep more is not interesting, it is better to watch TV to play toys happy, maybe you can also eat some supper!
Once such behavior occurs, parents must intervene at the first time, even if it is to force the child to sleep, it does not matter, after all, for many stubborn children, they will only pinch the persimmon without showing a tough attitude to them.
Have violent tendencies and like to work with the people around them
When the baby is 2 years old, it is a sensitive period of violence, and when they see people around them often waving their fists to vent their emotions, they will also imitate and leave a deep impression in their minds, which is the only way to vent their emotions.
Once the baby is affected by this kind of thinking, there will be a very obvious performance in daily life, whether it is a peer or a parent, it has become common for a big fight without a word, relying on the verbal warning of the parent, which does not play any role at all.
Moreover, if parents use violence to deal with such children, not only will it not help children to correct in time, but will deepen their children's desire to use violence, parents can beat people, why can't I?
The right thing to do is to understand what your child really thinks, so why do you want to hit someone with your hands? What pain and helplessness is there? Only by going into the baby's heart and making them feel more secure will they slowly let go of their defenses and try to learn to vent their emotions and dissatisfaction correctly.
Today's summary:
When your child is always shaking his fist with someone else, what kind of way will you guide him? Feel free to share your thoughts with us!