When watching "Children of the Qiao Family", I was thinking about a question: Did Wang Yiding really know about the defiling of Sanli when she was a child?
Observing the details of Wang Yiding and Sanli getting along, I think Wang Yiding is most likely aware, after all, when Sanli and Wang Yiding were together, there were several times when they behaved abnormally, which was not very suspicious in Wang Yiding's eyes?
So suppose, if Wang Yiding had already detected clues about Sanli's defilement, why didn't he take the initiative to ask Sanli and ask for verification?
I thought that this was the wisdom of Wang Yiding, although Wang Yiding looked stupid and stupid on the outside, in fact, he was not stupid at all, but very smart.
become aware of
When Sanli and Wang Yiding were just together, the two of them had a peaceful and beautiful life.
Every day, Sanli will ride a bicycle to pick up Wang Yiding, and Wang Yiding, in order to thank Sanli, uses his own private accessories to help Sanli upgrade his bicycle equipment.
Wang Yiding sent Sanli home, and the two people said goodbye to each other in the middle of the way, and Sanli met Sparrow Eye at the entrance of the alleyway home, and Sparrow Eye lost his mind and had to give Sanli a gift and hug Sanli.
Sanli was frightened enough, and the memories of being violated as a child surged into Sanli's mind like a tide, and Sanli was about to collapse.
Fortunately, at this time, Wang Yiding appeared in time and beat away the sparrow eye.
After Wang Yiding saved Sanli, he wanted to help Sanli up, but Sanli overreacted a little and repelled Wang Yiding.
Wang Yiding's inner reaction to Sanli at that time was estimated to feel too strong, but with the sparrow eye violation in front, Wang Yiding should soon dispel his doubts.
After this incident, Sanli invited Wang Yiding to his home as a guest, which was considered to announce Wang Yiding's boyfriend identity to his family.
However, just when the audience thought that Wang Yiding and Sanli would continue to develop harmoniously, and even about to put the marriage on the agenda, because of a movie, a kiss, Sanli and Wang Yiding mentioned breaking up.
Logically, between couples, when they love each other, it is very normal for intimate behavior to occur, but Sanli actually broke up with Wang Yiding just because of a kiss, which looks at Wang Yiding's eyes, how can it not be strange.
So after Sanli and Wang Yiding proposed to break up, Wang Yiding questioned Sanli loudly in disbelief: "You are always like this, don't say anything clearly, the more you do this, the more hurtful you are, you know?" ”
Wang Yiding's words show that he did not believe that Sanli would break up with himself because of a kiss, and there must be a more secret truth hidden behind it, but Sanli did not say it, and he could not feel it for a while.
Later, Wang Yiding and Qiao Yicheng talked about Sanli having broken up with himself, Qiao Yicheng asked Wang Yiding the reason, after Wang Yiding finished speaking, Qiao Yicheng of course knew what was wrong with his sister, but Qiao Yicheng still chose to keep a secret from Wang Yiding, just hastily perfunctory him, Sanli because of the girl's shyness.
So, why didn't Qiao Yi become confess to Wang Yiding?
First, although Qiao Yicheng knows that Wang Yiding is not bad in heart and is a good man worthy of trust, but people's hearts are unpredictable, he does not want to expose his sister's weakness to outsiders, which may hurt his sister's self-esteem.
Second, the matter of being defiled is Sanli's personal privacy, and now Sanli and Yiding proposed to break up, indicating that she has not yet come out of the previous shadow, Sanli did not tell Yiding about this matter, indicating that Sanli himself does not want to tell Yiding the truth, as the eldest brother he has to respect the wishes of his sister, as for the future to tell Wang Yiding, then it depends on Sanli's personal choice, maybe Sanli will figure out that she will reconcile with Wang Yiding and confess the truth, but this choice, Qiao Yicheng wants to leave it to his sister to decide for himself.
Qiao Yicheng chose to keep a secret from Wang Yiding, and can Wang Yiding really be kept in the dark?
Personally, I think that perhaps in the abnormal words and expressions of Sanli and Qiao Yicheng, Wang Yiding has detected clues.
Xiao Chinese New Year's Eve, and when Wang Yiding brought fruit to see Sanli, Sanli had already figured it out and planned to reunite with Wang Yiding.
Seeing the flying feathers on Wang Yiding's clothes, Sanli gently wanted to help him pull it off, who knew that Wang Yiding was like Sanli, and overreacted and avoided.
Wang Yiding's move, first of all, because the last intimacy caused the psychological shadow of Sanli's breakup, and he was afraid that Sanli would not be happy again because of his intimate behavior.
Second, perhaps hinting from the side, Wang Yiding had sensed part of the truth behind Sanli's previous abnormal behavior.
Therefore, in front of Sanli, Wang Yiding carefully cared for Sanli's fragile heart due to the shadow of childhood.
silent
If Wang Yiding was already aware of the secret behind Sanli's abnormal behavior, then why didn't Wang Yiding take the initiative to ask Sanli and verify his doubts from beginning to end?
Even after Sanli suddenly reconciled with Wang Yiding, Wang Yiding never asked a single question about the real reason why Sanli broke up with himself before.
According to normal human nature, when the other party decides to reunite inexplicably, it will definitely ask the reason, and it is really unreasonable not to ask a word.
I personally thought that this was actually Wang Yiding's wisdom and extremely transparent sense of proportion.
Sanli broke up because of a kiss, and her attitude was fierce and abnormal, which showed that the truth behind it must be very painful for Sanli.
Knowing that this point is Sanli's unspeakable hidden pain, if Wang Yiding wants to be with Sanli, he should not mention it again, if the other party wants to tell you, he will naturally tell you, if she does not explain a word, it is obvious that she just wants to bury this matter in her heart.
Wang Yiding was silent and did not ask, and it could be seen that he was very transparent and measured.
Sometimes, things that others are reluctant to talk about, we just ask, is it not a sense of politeness.
Especially in the relationship, if you identify a person, if the other party is not willing to mention the old things with the ex, then ask, not only respect for others but also make yourself less congested, after all, after the forced interrogation to learn the answer, can you ensure that you will be able to accept it? If you can't accept and can't let go of this feeling, what should you do when the time comes, isn't this just to find trouble for yourself?
Wang Yiding usually seems to be very stupid, but he is very intelligent inside, after all, he can practice his skills to the well-known people in the whole school, and how poor can his IQ be?
After Sanli and Wang Yiding hugged Chinese New Year's Eve, a small detail could also be seen that Wang Yiding's great wisdom was foolish.
Xiao Chinese New Year's Eve Sanli hugged Wang Yiding, Wang Yiding was very happy in his heart, but he was still not sure what Sanli really thought, so when eating in the canteen, Wang Yiding deliberately told Sanli that his mother let him turn in his salary and make up for his brother first, because he did not have a girlfriend to use it, And Wang Yiding's words were actually to force Sanli to determine his relationship with him earlier.
By analogy from this small detail, but asking too much, it is also a manifestation of Wang Yiding's transparent wisdom, and in the end, this wisdom guides him to win Sanli's heart again.
Past articles
Children of the Qiao family: Because of a kiss Sanli and a Ding breakup, behind the fuss is to endure the pain
"Children of the Qiao Family": Wei Shufang is more cruel to Qi Weimin than to her sister Wei Shuying
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★ About the author: Xin Qing, original author, taste book review drama, meet a better self in the world.
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