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Editor: Shiwo
"Divorce is okay, I just want children and a house in my hometown," a gentle and virtuous woman said to the man.
Where is there no conflict between husband and wife, this is a normal thing, but how can it involve divorce? What's going on?
The man's name is Cao Dewang, which is now very famous as the "glass king".
What happened to him and his wife turned out to be divorced, so are the two really divorced?
Family mutations
Cao Dewang was born in Shanghai in 1946, but his ancestral home is Fuzhou, Fujian Province, and his father was a shareholder of Shanghai Yongan Department Store when he was born.
In that era when the environment was relatively shaky, his father's achievements also made him enjoy a lot of blessings, and he was like a golden spoon in his mouth since birth.
In that era when everyone was not full, he could not only eat enough, but even eat well, and it can be said that life is very happy and enviable.
But the superiority of life did not make him proud or even arrogant, but very humble, but the world changed rapidly, and the original happy family did not last long.
Social turmoil and the advent of the war forced his family to leave the place they had struggled for a long time, and the family decided to move from Shanghai back to their hometown of Fujian.
The family finally decided to separate the property and people for the sake of property and personal safety, and they put all their belongings on one cruise ship after another, and they took another cruise ship.
The family thought that they would be able to start a new business when they returned to their hometown after they had property, but we never know which tomorrow or the unexpected will come first.
When they returned home on a cruise, they found that all their belongings did not return home as promised, but a bad news gave their family a thunderbolt.
The cruise ship with all its belongings sank due to an accident.
In this way, the family fell into despair, but life went on, even if they encountered hardships and grievances, they still had to break their teeth and swallow into their stomachs.
The originally happy family suddenly seemed to enter a dark moment, there was no superior food, as long as it was full, it was better than anything, but in the chaotic situation, the family even had problems eating.
Helplessly, he dropped out of school and raised his family with his father
Cao Dewang's family was tortured by life dark and thin, and the change in family conditions made him have no money to go to school, so Cao Dewang could only drop out of school and stay at home.
His father began to look for and try various ways to make money in order to make a living for the family, and then took Cao Dewang to start selling tobacco.
The two people were worried about trading every day, and life was slowly returning to the right track, and then the investigation became stricter, and finally the father and son gave up this business and decided to find a better way to survive.
In 1966, his father heard about a good business, that is, selling fruit, but this is not a simple matter, you need to get up early every day, work day and night.
Cao Dewang and his parents live in their hometown, which is a village, and if you want to enter fruit, you must go to the county town, and there is no other channel.
Then the two began to leave for the city at three o'clock in the morning every day, with a delay of three or four hours on the way, and when the fruit farmers who bought the fruit began to sell the fruit, they began to "fight" with them.
Because only if the purchase price is low, then it is possible to earn a little more when selling, and it is almost noon after discussing the price with the fruit farmers, and then loading the fruit into the car is almost afternoon.
The two did not dare to delay time, scribbled some lunch and began to rush home, if it was late to go back, other traders did not buy their own fruit, then this day was in vain, and they also took money in it.
So they will go home non-stop with hundreds of pounds of fruit, and they will pull the cart in front alone and push the cart in the back, whether it is spring, summer, autumn and winter.
In summer, sometimes the surface temperature has reached more than forty degrees, even so, they are not without a trace of consumption, and when all the fruits in the car are sold, it is almost time for dinner.
Just tossing back and forth for a day can only earn two or three dollars in the middle, and the family points to two or three dollars to live, not to mention whether it is enough for the family to spend.
The long hours of travel and fatigue have made Cao Dewang, who was originally in the development stage, much shorter than children of the same age, and often did not have enough to eat, and he was malnourished and thin.
His mother was very distressed to see her children, but there was no way but to do so, and so day by day, at the same time he did not give up his studies.
As long as I have a little free time, I will read books, and time flies quickly and slowly, fast is to grow up in the blink of an eye, slow is the hardship of the road when I and my father go to earn money every day.
It was also the experience of dealing with traders when he was young that brought Cao Dewang a lot of valuable wealth later.
Harvest sweet love
In 1968, Cao Dewang also reached the marriageable age, and he was introduced to Chen Fengying in the same village, and the two fell in love at first sight and soon confirmed their relationship.
At the urging of elders and relatives, the two soon entered the palace of marriage, when he was only 22 years old, and Cao Dewang's family scraped together a bride price.
And Chen Fengying's family was still relatively prominent in the village at that time, so when they got married, they brought a lot of dowry, no matter what, the family was still happy.
In the years that followed, Cao Dewang tried many other industries, pulling scooters, repairing bicycles, and almost all of them as long as they could make money.
Because he felt that he was married and should take on his own responsibility, but it was clear that life did not give him a sweet fruit.
Life went on tepidly, perhaps by God's favor, and in 1976, at the age of 30, Cao Dewang went to work as a buyer in a glass factory.
With the experience of his youth, Cao Dewang has also become popular in the glass factory, and his salary has indeed improved a lot, and at the same time, the quality of life of his family has also improved.
This makes the family very satisfied, they are satisfied with the peaceful life now, even if it is not as good as before, but very happy.
Cao Dewang works outside, and the family can only be taken care of by his wife Chen Fengying, who is very filial and virtuous, not only to take care of his sick mother but also to take care of the food and clothing of the family.
Life suddenly became moist, and Cao Dewang, who was not as stressed as before, began to let go of himself, and some people said that men become bad when they have money, which is not false at all.
Cao Dewang encountered belated "love" when he was working as a buyer, perhaps, house flowers are not as fragrant as wildflowers is the deepest true thought of many men.
A fork in the road in love, how to choose
He met a woman, and the two fell in love with each other, hated each other, and although they each had families, they still had no boundaries to get along.
When the two are not together, they will write letters to express their thoughts for each other, and Cao Dewang, whose family conditions are getting better and better, has begun to pursue a spiritual life.
Although his wife Chen Fengying is very virtuous and takes care of the whole family in an orderly manner, because she is illiterate and Cao Dewang cannot achieve a spiritual concept, he wants to divorce many times.
Cao Dewang, who really couldn't bear the current life, even directly proposed his divorce with his wife, so the opening conversation happened.
Cao Dewang also has a younger sister, and all of Chen Fengying's performances in the years of their marriage are really in his eyes, so he strongly disagrees with the decision of the two to divorce.
After his mother learned the news, she even reprimanded him for not knowing how to cherish the happiness he now has, coupled with the small number of divorce appeals made Cao Dewang unable to bear to continue to insist.
In an interview many years later, Cao Dewang expressed his thoughts on this adult past, because his wife was virtuous, more suitable for life, and the two also had family affection, so he finally gave up that "outrageous love".
He also said that if Chen Fengying really cried, made trouble, hanged himself three times and demanded a lot of property as he did in the TV series, maybe the two would really be separated.
Chen Fengying's gentleness and generosity made Cao Dewang feel guilty, and for the sake of the children and the harmony of the whole family, he finally gave up his ridiculous divorce decision.
The wife supports vigorous entrepreneurship
However, just when life began to get on track, an unexpected accident came and made him start thinking about the source of his life, and his glass factory was at risk of bankruptcy for some reasons.
Cao Dewang, who is in middle age, lives a life of old age and childhood, and if he really loses his job because of this, then the whole family will fall into crisis.
So he was caught in the dilemma of contracting the factory himself or going to Hong Kong to start a business, and then he discussed with his wife, who expressed support for him to contract the factory directly to be his own boss.
His thoughts were because there was not enough money at that time, it was not enough to buy the factory directly, so he wanted to go to Hong Kong to start his own business.
Chen Fengying, on the other hand, was very sensible, she took out all her dowry to support Cao Dewang to contract the factory, and said that he did not need to worry about the affairs in the family, and he could take care of it by himself, so that he could devote his energy to the factory.
In 1983, Cao Dewang lived up to his wife's strong support and the expectations of his family, and the shuttered glass factory had been revived and even made some money.
The whole family is very happy, life is constantly getting better is what everyone is looking forward to, and the episode a few years ago has long been lost in the river of time.
Chen Fengying is a great woman standing behind successful men, if not for Chen Fengying's support, perhaps the famous "glass king" is still the little-known little staff, or even a retired old man walking in the park.
Standing tall will see far, China's economy continues to develop, and the recovery of the economy has made Cao Dewang see another business opportunity, which originated from chatting with taxi drivers.
Cao Dewang is a man who believes deeply in Buddhism, and he is very loving, because he inherits the Buddhist concept of compassion, and once went to the temple to burn incense and worship the Buddha.
When he came out, he saw a crutch seller, his mother has not been good legs, walking is not very autonomous, and needs to use some strength, so he bought a crutch in the mountains.
As soon as he got into the car when he went down the hill, the taxi driver told him to be careful with crutches, and if his car glass was broken, he would have to pay a lot of money to replace it.
So the two started a chat, and he learned that the original car glass was not produced domestically, and there was no domestic technology at that time, relying on foreign imports.
Cao Dewang, who heard this, was very angry and anxious, he wanted to research the technology that belonged to China, and did not want the people of his country to make it difficult for this.
So he began to devote all his body and mind to the development of window glass technology, he began to look for talents and technology from all over the world, experienced an unknown number of failures, and finally successfully developed China's window glass technology.
After another success, the company was officially established
At that time, the reality of 100% dependence on imported window glass was also broken by Cao Dewang, and the window glass he developed was popular in China for a while.
In 1987, Cao Dewang formally established Fuyao Glass Co., Ltd., and since then his title of "Glass King" has begun.
And their technological profit margin relying on window glass is constantly improving, the market is in short supply, no longer need to rely on imports, which is another major progress in mainland technology.
Cao Dewang's endeavor is not only the happiness of his family, but also the virtue of many poor people, because he is a very kind person, so after his career is successful, he began to devote himself to good deeds.
He has repeatedly donated 20 million yuan to poor students during the Wenchuan earthquake, and he donated 100 million yuan for flood prevention and relief during the heavy rain in Henan in 2021.
There are countless public welfare donations, many people say that when people have money, they will forget their original intention, and Cao Dewang is not the one who forgets his original intention.
His good deeds should be remembered by every one of us who receives goodwill, and do not forget the well digger.
He treats the workers in his factory even more dedicatedly, and the employees in his factory had a family whose children had leukemia and had no money to treat them, and he heard that he directly gave them one million as treatment funds.
Sincere treatment with employees is the foundation of this company's better and better, because all people are working in the same direction, even if things are difficult, as long as they work hard, they will definitely succeed.
There may be many forks in the road in our lives, no matter how long we linger at the intersection, as long as we finally choose the right path, then the future will be bright.
There may be moments in love when you are distracted, and as long as you don't make a bad decision to continue to return to the family, then you can also be happy.
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