I grew up in an ordinary rural family. The parents were hardworking and simple, and although the family was not wealthy, they ran their own farmland and lived an ordinary and happy life.
I am the only child in my family and have been pampered since I was a child. My parents regarded me as the pearl of their palms and gave me meticulous care and nurturing.
On that day, my father took me to a foreign country to attend a relative's wedding. At the wedding reception, I caught a glimpse of a girl who looked very similar to me.
The moment I heard the news, all kinds of feelings welled up in my mind. I was angry and sad that my father had hidden this fact from me.
On the way home, I remained silent, still having trouble accepting this fact. I sat in my room for a long time, thinking about this and trying to calm my emotions.
After a while, I finally decided to visit my own sister. After all, she was also a victim and likewise did not choose her own birth.
The next day, I went downstairs to my sister's house and quickly found her place. I was a little excited about my own sister, whom I had never met, but I held back the fire inside me and tried to stay calm.
"You're... My own sister, right? I asked cautiously.
She looked at me, nodded, and didn't speak.
"I know it's abrupt for you, but I want us to be honest and get to know each other. Whether it's you or me, we didn't choose our own births, isn't it better to tolerate and understand each other? "I tried to communicate with her.
My sister's eyes were a little confused, as if she didn't know how to deal with this sudden family entanglement.
My sister looked at me, her eyes moistened. It seemed that in my words, she felt my sincere emotions and care for her.
Since that day, my relationship with my sister has gradually improved. We often ask each other out to eat, chat, and share the joys and sorrows of life.
In order to protect her, I began to be actively involved in her life.
However, my mood was once again shattered by an argument.
We worked together to find a solution, and I helped my sister find an authoritative lawyer and help her objectively understand the various ways to resolve the marital dispute.
In the end, my sister decided to divorce and start her life again. I have always been there for her, giving her full support and encouragement.
This experience has made me realize that family plays an irreplaceable and important role in each of our lives.
Although my real sister is not my own sister, she has been part of my family from the moment I found out she exists.
We have experienced many twists and turns, but it has also made me more aware of the value of family affection and the importance of family.
After the divorce, her sister started a new life, she found a stable job in the city, and rekindled her enthusiasm for life.
One day, just as my sister was getting used to her new environment and work, she suddenly confided in me about her experience of being bullied by a colleague.
When I heard the news, my anger came over again. This hateful man has made such a difficult situation for my own sister.
The next day, I coldly found my sister's male colleague and expressed my dissatisfaction with him directly. I let him know that I was my sister's family and that he was not allowed to bully and insult her.
My sister's male colleague saw my fearless gaze and felt a little weak. But he still held a disdainful attitude, refused to admit his mistake, and said mockingly: "It's up to you, and you want to take care of our company's affairs?" Why do you an outsider say anything to me? ”。
I was provoked even more by his disdain and contempt. Without fear, I responded, "Yes, I'm an outsider, but I'm my sister's family."
This is not only my responsibility, but also my obligation.
My sister's male colleague saw my resolute attitude and suddenly realized that he might have messed with a bad family.
Although I know that he may not really change, at least he will not dare to openly insult and bully my own sister.
Since then, my sister's working environment has gradually improved. Her male colleague, although not completely corrected, at least no longer presumptuous in front of me.
I am willing to accompany my sister all the time, whether it is facing family entanglements or encountering challenges in life. We will face difficulties together and pursue happiness together.
After that, I decided to go and see my sister to see if she needed my help. I went to her house and knocked on the door.
"Sister, I heard that you have encountered some difficulties recently, let me see what help you need." I looked at her affectionately.
My sister hesitated for a moment, her eyes were a little complicated, and finally stood up and let me into the house. She sat silently on the couch and I felt the pain in her heart.
"Sister, can you tell me what's going on. Whatever it is, I will be there for you. I said soothingly.
My heart sank suddenly, and I felt angry and helpless. The double pain of my own sister brought me more distress.
My sister nodded vigorously, she felt my care and encouragement, and gradually found a glimmer of hope.
From that day on, I accompanied my sister to face this family dispute. Together, we developed a plan for her to cope, including having a conversation with her husband, seeking legal assistance, etc.
In the process, I saw my sister gradually regain her courage and strength. She began to learn to protect herself and find her own happiness.
However, things are not quite resolved. We found out that my sister's husband was not only cruel to her, but also the illegitimate child who had lived with her for many years was abused by him.
When I heard the news, I felt anger rise inside. I decided to take more decisive action to protect my sister and her children.
After some hard thinking, I decided to tell my parents about it. Although we have had quarrels before, we should be united in the face of the important moments of affection and family.
When I told my parents about the situation, they showed great anger and shock. As fathers, they decided to take the issue seriously and protect their sister and her children.
Next, we contacted the lawyer together and prepared to take legal measures to protect the rights and interests of my sister and children.
Faced with my sister's ambivalence, I decided to put my plan to defend my rights on hold for the time being. As a loved one, I am confident that she will make the right decision, but I am still determined to support and help her.
My relationship with my sister has become more and more intimate. After her divorce, we always supported and encouraged each other and had many wonderful times.
One day, I received a strange phone call. The voice on the other end of the phone was very urgent, and I heard my sister's neighbor gasping for breath and saying, "Come on!" Your sister... She was violently assaulted by her husband! ”。
She covered her bleeding nose, her eyes were red and she was shaking. She smiled reluctantly at the sight of my arrival, but could not hide the fear and pain in her eyes.
Police cars and ambulances soon arrived, and my sister was taken to the hospital for treatment. I sat in the ambulance with her, holding her hand tightly and silently praying for her.
My sister stayed in the hospital for a few days, and I visited her every day to accompany her through this difficult time.
She decided to leave the city and start a new life in another city.
I am both relieved by her courage and saddened by her decision to leave her homeland. On the last day before she left, we sat in the courtyard of the hospital, enjoying the warmth of the sun.
"Sister, are you really willing to accompany me to that strange city to start over?" My sister asked.
My sister's eyes were full of gratitude and touch, and we hugged each other tightly and faced the unknown of the future together.
Soon after, my father fell ill. This news shocked and worried both my sister and me. We immediately rushed back to our hometown, facing our father in the hospital bed, and our hearts were full of pain.
My father's condition was getting worse day by day, and our whole family gathered around his bedside and waited. During this period, I found out that my sister's husband, who was her ex-husband, actually showed up in the hospital.
I was angry and puzzled, they were already divorced, why did he dare to show up at this time? I decided to talk to him.
"Why are you still here? You've already done enough harm to your own sister, isn't that enough? I suppressed my anger and questioned him.
He was pale, bowed his head, and did not speak.
"Do you think we'll forgive you if you show up now? You bullied your own sister and hurt her, and for so many years, you have been like a nightmare for her.
My sister held my hand tightly and motioned for me to stop. Holding back her tears, she said to me, "Don't worry, he's my daughter's father."
I looked at her angrily, my heart full of dissatisfaction and helplessness. I understand my sister's thoughts, but I can't accept her tolerance.
At this moment, I realized the inevitable contradictions in family affection. We are a family and we should be united, but we suffer pain and strife inside.
Later, his father's condition gradually deteriorated, and he left this world. During this period, my sister's ex-husband has been accompanying her in the hospital.
At my father's funeral, I saw my sister's ex-husband again. I can't help but wonder if I should continue to maintain resistance and hostility in the face of family affection. After all, we are family in the same bloodline.
My sister's ex-husband stood aside, his eyes revealing apologies. I hesitated and walked over to his side.
"I hope you really bring happiness to our family," I said in a deep voice.
He nodded slightly, his eyes moistened. Perhaps, at this time, what we need is not only accusations and quarrels, but also tolerance and understanding.
Family disputes in the family are always unavoidable, but only through dialogue and tolerance can we gradually collect our feelings and face difficulties together.