Mother's education is too important in the family, learn from Fukuhara's loving mother, learn Xi science to help children develop their strengths and avoid weaknesses

Today is the 30th birthday of Japanese table tennis player Ai Fukuhara, and there are many fans in the mainland who like Ai Fukuhara, he is also the only one in Japan who is so loved by Chinese an athlete, he is a good milestone in the history of table tennis in Japan, and Ai Fukuhara's growth process has also been spent 24 years by director Sato of Fuji TV in Japan, and he has followed up on a Xi career in table tennis from childhood to adulthood, with more than 3,000 interview videos, We can actually see a lot of the pictures recorded in these videos, Ai Fukuhara's mother's education method for him is really very scientific, it can be said that Ai Fukuhara's current achievements are inseparable from his mother's education of him. His mother scientifically educated his personality traits, let's learn Xi together.

1. Understand the rules and abide by the rules.

One of the interview videos is when Ai Fukuhara participated in a national competition, because she was too young, the serving posture was not very correct, and she was warned by the referee, and at this time, because the child is too young, many parents may face such a thing so that the child does not have to take it too seriously, and may forgive their child, after all, she is only four years old, in this kind of national competition, the age is very young, but Ai Fukuhara's mother did not do this, he patiently taught his daughter, if there are rules, you must abide by the rules, so in the game, you are learning and changing, causing Ai Fukuhara to stop in the top 16After the game, Ai Fukuhara was asked by her mother to apologize to the referee, so we can see that the education of children cannot be lax because of his young age.

2. Education should match the child's personality.

Ai Fukuhara's mother has a small book dedicated to recording the characteristics of the child's personality in his education since he was a child, for example, the child does not admit defeat, and often explores one thing seriously, so these characters are targeted by Ai Fukuhara's mother to take a variety of methods, for example, sometimes when practicing is very tired, Ai Fukuhara wants to take a break, but his mother will say that there are five balls left, if you don't practice, forget it, don't practice anymore, at this time hearing such words, the little girl's strength to not admit defeat came up, and she was so tired that she cried and continued to practice。

3. Let go appropriately and help him grow.

Now many parents are very doting on their children, they don't want their children to go far away and can't leave their children, and they want to spend more time taking care of her, but Ai Fukuhara's mother didn't do this, he was only four years old when he was sent by his mother to Northeast China to practice, and in the process of growing up, he will go to China every year to train for a period of time, and he has learned to cook and cook by himself when he leaves home, and has become a more mature and skilled athlete. Therefore, in the process of children's growth, it is appropriate to let go to help him grow.