My cousin and brother-in-law have been living separately for several years.
Because my cousin has not been idle since she retired at the age of fifty in 2016, the year of her retirement, my cousin went to work in other places, in order to earn more money so that she could marry her son's daughter-in-law.
After graduating from high school in 2012, my son was admitted to the second university in the provincial capital, and after graduation, he did not further his studies and worked directly.
Later, I found a partner who didn't have a formal job, and the two of them earned money by working part-time.
It's not a big deal, after all, there are workers everywhere now.
My cousin, son, and daughter-in-law all work for a large electronics company.
It stands to reason that the income is okay, the son earns 10,000 yuan a month, and the daughter-in-law also has 4,000 or 5,000.
My cousin is retired with a pension of more than 5,000, and my cousin-in-law works in a communication company, and he is about to arrive at the station, and his salary is said to be about 5,000 after retirement.
The old couple had a salary, but they couldn't save money.
Because the cousin got married the year after his retirement, the cousin spent everything he had to buy a 100-square-meter three-bedroom apartment for his son in the provincial capital, which cost nearly one million at that time.
After his son got married, his cousin continued to work, thinking that he could earn more money while he was strong enough to supplement his son and daughter-in-law.
In the second year of the son's marriage, the daughter-in-law gave birth to a grandson, and since then, the cousin and her cousin-in-law have lived the life of a cowherd and a weaver girl.
My cousin doesn't work anymore, and she helps with the children's laundry and cooking at her son's house alone, like a full-time nanny.
To be honest, it's not as good as a nanny to make money, and my cousin not only has no money to contribute at her son's house, but also has to make money.
Give 20,000 yuan in red envelopes to grandchildren every Chinese New Year.
Every month, the living expenses of the son's family are paid by the cousin, and the cousin's pension of more than 5,000 per month is almost not much, and the cousin pays for any childcare fees.
Sometimes it's not enough for my cousin, and I have to find my cousin-in-law to make up for it.
This grandson is already six years old and is about to enter elementary school.
The daughter-in-law is going to buy a building next to the elementary and junior high schools, and is ready to make it convenient for the children to go to school and live.
Recently, I have looked at a lot of houses, and finally selected a two-bedroom apartment that is about 85 square meters and has a total price of 1.2 million.
1.2 million yuan, my cousin's son and his wife can't take out so much, so they are ready to pay a down payment of 400,000 yuan, and the rest of the loan will be repaid slowly.
The son and daughter-in-law mean that the down payment will let the cousin and cousin-in-law help out 200,000 yuan, and the insufficient part of the daughter-in-law will go back to her parents' house to find her parents to pry it again.
My cousin was not happy when she heard this.
Thinking that his pension has been given to them, why haven't he saved the money, and he still has to bear it.
The cousin said that her son and daughter-in-law also earn a lot of money a month. In particular, her son's income is nearly 10,000 yuan a month, and her daughter-in-law also has an income of 4 or 5,000 yuan a month.
My cousin was puzzled.
It stands to reason that since I got married in 2017, I have accumulated 50,000 yuan a year, and I have also accumulated 300,000 yuan.
Besides, my son's company has always been treated well, and there is a year-end bonus to get.
My cousin was angry and asked about her son and daughter-in-law, saying that you don't spend money on eating, the unit takes care of a meal at noon, and eats at home in the morning and evening, where do you get your salary?
And let me pay 200,000? Will my money give birth?
The daughter-in-law was not happy when she heard this, so she shook her face and slammed the door.
The son immediately said that their money was lent to his brother-in-law, and he would not be able to get it back for a while.
My cousin was angry when she heard this, and said that your money is all for your brother-in-law, and your father and I are thrifty to take advantage of you, I haven't even bought a new dress in the years of retirement, and the money is on you, where can I get 200,000?
My cousin's son said that my dad is not about to retire, and the provident fund must not have more than 200,000 yuan?
When my cousin heard this, she was thinking about it.
The angry cousin packed up her things, took a taxi and ran to the high-speed rail station, and ran home with a cigarette, regardless of whether the New Year was over.
said that he would never go to his son's house again.
In the future, I will live with my wife and my wife, and they love what they love about their sons, no matter what they don't ask.
I said her, can you really let it go? It's all the New Year, let's put this matter aside for a while.
My cousin said that if you can't let go, you have to let go, because they are too dependent on it.
It's time to let go, anyway, the child should go to elementary school, this time they don't invite me, I won't bring it, please ask me and I have to make it clear.
It seems that my cousin is really angry this time.
Hey, it's really a scripture that is difficult to read.
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