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When I first watched "Thirty Only", many people didn't like Wang Manni and felt that she was too realistic. But when you look back after so many years, you will find that Wang Manni is actually the representative of the desires of many of us.
There's really nothing wrong with everyone wanting to have a good life, it's just that sometimes we use the wrong approach and choose the wrong path.
Therefore, whether it is Gu Jia, Wang Manni or Zhong Xiaoqin, they actually represent women's desires and expectations, I think if you really understand, you will have a new understanding of life.
As adults, we need to think objectively and calmly so that we can better control our lives.
So today, let's take a look at what kind of desires these three women represent and how we should make our lives better.
Gu Jia: Every woman wants to be omnipotent
Gu Jia, as a representative of the perfect woman, is the desire of many women. We all want to be able to do everything and get everything organized.
But ah, with what happened to Gu Jia later, everyone also began to understand that there is no omnipotent woman in this world, let alone a perfect life.
And the reason why we all like Gu Jia is because there is an expectation in our hearts that we can do anything.
Of course, although Gu Jia in the early stage is just an illusory existence, Gu Jia in the later stage still makes us understand that a capable woman will not live too badly at any time.
Because no one knows what kind of ups and downs they will encounter in this life, only if they are strong enough, it is possible to better resolve them.
Just like Gu Jia, in the face of her husband's betrayal, she cleanly cleaned up the mistress, let her husband leave the house, and in the face of career setbacks, she gritted her teeth and persevered, and did better and better.
Ability is a thing that truly belongs to you, and no one can take it away, so women who are willing to work hard to become Gu Jia will not have a bad life in this life, because they already know what they want, and they can naturally have the best happiness.
Wang Manni: Every woman wants to have a better life
Wang Manni's character is really mixed, many people say that she is materialistic, and I don't deny this.
But my dear, I want to ask you, is there really a woman in this world who is completely immaterial? I don't think so.
All women will have an expectation in their hearts, that is, they hope to have a better life, which is what a good life is, and there is no fixed standard for this.
Like Wang Manni, there is nothing wrong with hoping to gain a foothold in the big city and hope to have a better material life, but there will also be many women who just want to have a more ordinary life.
I think that as long as you can find a better life for yourself, it is the best, and you will definitely be happier because of it.
The point is, don't be ashamed to talk about desires, and generously admit that you just want to be better, which is not wrong, and this will allow you to live more calmly.
I like Wang Manni's ending, she did not become a woman without desires, but chose a path that was more suitable for herself, to pursue everything she wanted.
I think every woman can be like this, we may stumble, but we will definitely find the right path for ourselves after going around and around, so don't give up, let alone dare to face your inner desires, work hard for yourself like Wang Manni, I believe you can be very happy.
Zhong Xiaoqin: Every woman hopes that she can turn over
In this TV series, Zhong Xiaoqin may be the character closest to us ordinary people, her setting is that she has average appearance, average ability, and a plain life.
In reality, we may not have Gu Jia's ability or Wang Manni's beauty, what we have is a life like Zhong Xiaoqin's chicken feathers.
But ah, the director didn't let Zhong Xiaoqin sink like this, he gave Zhong Xiaoqin a moment of awakening, so that she suddenly figured out what she wanted and how she wanted to live her life.
As a result, Zhong Xiaoqin's salted fish turned over, not only in terms of feelings, but also in her career.
Although sometimes her success seems less credible, I think this is the director giving all ordinary women a confidence, as long as you believe in yourself, one day you will also turn over.
Therefore, after seeing Zhong Xiaoqin, you have to believe that even if your current life is not so satisfactory, don't go with the flow, let alone give up on yourself, as long as you are willing to change, you must have this ability.
Of course, before that, it's important to figure out what you really want. Zhong Xiaoqin used to be a post-it note in the workplace, and she was also very vague about her feelings.
But then she began to know that the relationship she wanted was not so plain, and the career she wanted was not a daily chore.
Although the process of change is a bit painful, after Nirvana was reborn, Zhong Xiaoqin lived as we ideally.
All women, as it should be, because we all deserve a happier life.
"Thirty Only" is actually a very realistic female-themed TV series, and the three women in the play represent the three desires in every woman's heart.
Whether we can become the omnipotent Gu Jia, or whether we are eager for a different life like Wang Manni, or whether we are Zhong Xiaoqin, we can only get what we want after working hard again and again, we can use our own strength to change our lives and have the happiness we want.
Believe in yourself, believe that we must be able to be a real big woman and take the initiative in our lives, just like the sentence at the end of the TV series said, thirty is only, and our future can be expected. Come on.