In "Thirty Only", when I saw Gu Jia angrily deleting Lin You's scene, the original partners present suggested watching it repeatedly, it was too cool and relieving, and it was full of substitution.
Lin Youyou secretly gave Gu Jia's son Xu Ziyan Ba Lightyear, and if he wanted to show Gu Jia secretly, forget it. actually dared to give Xu Ziyan a picture book about divorce "Dad's House, Mom's Home", and secretly said that your father will have his own home.
This undoubtedly seriously violated Gu Jia's bottom line, you destroyed my family, cheated on my husband, one thing after another, I endured it rationally, and the matter of adults was resolved between adults, and my child was pulled into this battlefield, which is something that no mother can tolerate.
Standing in front of the door, Gu Jia slapped Lin Youyou angrily, and said domineeringly, "A capable woman will only solve unfaithful men, and those who are inpatient will come to Xiaosan, you listen, this is the last time I warn you, you have to dare to touch my son again, you try." ”
This also made many netizens empathize: "If the cheating mistress dares to make trouble in front of my child, I will really tear her up." ”
After that, Gu Jia made an appointment with Xu Huanshan and Lin Youyou, and the three of them faced each other at the same table.
At first, Lin Youyou was not convinced, she asked Gu Jia in front of Gu Jia, why did she not let Xu Huanshan eat dinner or play his favorite football for so many years? Xu Huanshan is not happy with her!
At this time, Gu Jia asked rhetorically: "Where do you get your confidence?" Where did the heart of the Virgin Mary come from to save this man, this man you fall in love with is nothing more than a man I have created and has my shadow on him. ”
In this regard, Lin Youyou wanted to fight back, and took out the photos he took with Xu Huanshan, thinking that this would defeat Gu Jia.
Unexpectedly, Gu Jia said lightly: "Every meal you have eaten, every room you have opened, and all the expenses you have spent belong to the joint property of our husband and wife after marriage, and I have the right to recover them one by one." ”
Obviously, this is a table with a lot of chips.
Lin Youyou, who was on the other side, wilted for an instant and retorted speechlessly, which was very relieved.
Although this kind of successful ending of running away from the junior is very refreshing to watch, we also have to see the essence from it.
Before Lin Youyou appeared, Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan's marriage had already had problems, and it was a big problem. If these problems are not solved, there is no Lin Youyou, Li Youyou, Zhang Youyou, didn't Li Ke appear in front?
If these problems are not solved, Xu Huanshan will have to find an opportunity to vent sooner or later, and he will derail sooner or later.
Then why does Xu Huanshan have the heart to desert?
Is Gu Jia perfect? It must be perfect in the eyes of most people, but you will find that the way she communicates with Xu Huanshan is flawed, when Xu Huanshan raised a "weak" protest, Gu Jia retorted with an unquestionable attitude, like a teacher refuting a student who answered the question incorrectly: You answered this question incorrectly.
This tough mode of communication is one of the reasons why men avoid escaping and turn to cheating.
In the Xingzhi True Love fan community, a sister asked Xingzhi, "What should I do if I am bent on repairing, but the other party accuses me of being emotional?" I asked her: What did you do to make the other party see you who are "bent on repairing"? She said, I just communicated with him, and he said that after getting married, he found out that I was very strong. I asked him rhetorically, do you think it's not appropriate for me to mention divorce early, I gave birth to a baby and you cheated? Are you doing the right thing?
Sisters, is this communication good? Why? Do you see your shadow in it? Understand personality, know human nature, and understand people's hearts, so that you can get twice the result with half the effort, and in the final analysis, it is to make ingenuity.