How to test her husband if she suspects him of cheating, and how to tell if a man has an extramarital affair?
If you just suspect that your husband is cheating, you must not tell it first,
Because you have no evidence, even if he really cheated, you question him,
The cheating man will only deny it, and then he will bite you back, saying that you have nothing to do and are suspicious.
Then carefully hide the extramarital affair to avoid being really found by the wife.
The wife has no evidence of an extramarital affair, the man does not admit to cheating, and he also destroys the evidence,
The wife has never been able to find evidence, so you have been cheating on the man, and there is no way to do it,
So if you find an extramarital affair, you can hold back first, you can test the cheating man, seize the evidence and then have a showdown,
Before, an original partner came to Su Yue to complain, suspecting that there was no evidence of the man's cheating.
She didn't know what to do and wanted to question the cheating man directly,
Or check the cheating man's mobile phone first, and then question the cheating man after finding the clues.
Su Yue persuaded this original partner, because her direct questioning would definitely be in vain, and she would be blamed in turn.
Although it is possible to find evidence by flipping through the phone, in most cases, the cheating man will hide the evidence.
Moreover, the evidence turned out by the mobile phone is not legal, and the wives will not need it in the future.
Wives who want to solve some marital problems must learn to plan before acting.
Instead of a little bit of wind and grass, it immediately blew up and began to look everywhere for answers.
Regardless of whether your means are right or not, whether it will cause more trouble, you have to go,
If you are such a wife, it is advisable to be able to deal with your predicament rationally and try not to solve the problem emotionally.
Su Yue chatted with this original partner about some of the information she knew.
There are indeed many anomalies about this man.
For example, the cheating man has become indifferent to the original partner, and the married life has not been mentioned for several months.
And the cheating man is not a person without desire, and the original partner will feel that something is wrong.
The cheating man usually starts to get busy, saying that he wants to work overtime every day and go out to socialize on the weekend.
When I came home at night, I said that I wanted to hold my mobile phone and chat with some customers or something.
In addition, there are many details, such as the cheating man mentioned that he wants to take care of his own salary.
even proposed that he wanted to sleep in a separate room with his original wife.
An accident may just be an accident, but a lot of irregularities come together, like there is a problem.
Therefore, the original partner's suspicions are justified, and it is normal to want to ask for a certificate.
So what should I do if I suspect my husband of cheating?
First of all, most of the wife's suspicions are true.
Once you have suspicions about a cheating man, there must be obvious problems with some of his words and deeds.
As in the case mentioned earlier, cheating on the man's time, energy and money,
These elements of derailment seem to have fluctuated, and even changed dramatically.
The cheating man is busy, and he just doesn't have time and energy for his wife.
So did he spend all his time and energy on work? If not, he could only spend it on Xiao San.
The wife's suspicion is true, it doesn't mean that you can directly find out the cheating man.
He just denied it, saying that he was working, and there was nothing he could do about it.
Second, try to find evidence before the temptation, and use the temptation as a last resort.
Wives can first collect evidence of a man's cheating,
It's not that a cheating man isn't afraid of evidence, it's that it's not that it's ambiguous and easy to argue.
If only the original partner could directly take out the photos of the cheating man and the mistress in bed.
The original partner doesn't need temptation and other evidence at all, and the cheating man won't deny it.
The reality is that there is no original match, so it is necessary to collect evidence.
Some chat records, cheating man's consumption records, you can also follow the cheating man, look at the cheating man's car camera and the like.
The more evidence, the more powerless the cheating man is to refute, and the material is better.
Finally, how to test the cheating man and make him expose his feet?
What if the wife doesn't know the evidence? This is the time to test the cheating man.
Wives can go and say something that makes it easy for cheating men to do things that are stealthy.
For example, when you see some cases of cheating, you say that you must divorce directly if you encounter cheating.
If the cheating man helps the man in the case to speak, there is a high probability that he is cheating, and he empathizes with the cheating man.
Wives can also ask for money to buy a school district house or the like, and ask for the original partner or the child's name.
Since the cheating man has cheated, he will be more calculating the interest relationship with his wife.
He is also worried that if he does have to divorce one day, there will be nothing left to divide the property.
And cheating men will be worried about being discovered, they will be nervous, and the error rate will be high.
Wives can test the cheating man from this aspect, so that the cheating man is nervous and easier to find out about the extramarital affair.
At the end of the article, Su Yue wanted to say that most cheating men actually showed their feet.
will cause the wife to suspect, so most of the suspicions are accurate,
But even if the wife believes that the man is cheating, you need evidence to prove it.
Otherwise, whether you are confronting a cheating man, or you plan to divorce and stop loss,
The situation is not good for you without evidence, so it is crucial for the original partner to find conclusive and effective evidence of cheating.
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