Why is it easy for cheating men to be brainwashed by mistresses?

Why is it easy for cheating men to be brainwashed by mistresses?

Why is it easy for cheating men to be brainwashed by the mistress? First of all, the original partner must know what brainwashing is.

"Brainwashing" usually refers to the coercion of specific thoughts, beliefs or behavior patterns into individuals through specific means or methods.

This often involves a weakening of personal judgment and a forced acceptance of outside opinions.

In other words, Xiao San did do something to make the cheating man accept some, and she wanted the cheating man to have thoughts,

It's not that the cheating man himself is like that, he doesn't treat his wife well, and he has always been very attentive,

Then the cheating was discovered, and the wife felt that the man was distracted and not good for his wife, which was all caused by the brainwashing of the mistress.

It was the cheating man who didn't have it before, but the cheating man who cheated later had some thoughts, words and deeds, and it was related to the mistress.

The second is that cheating men are easy to be brainwashed, mainly due to three factors.

The first factor is that the direction of the mistress's brainwashing is beneficial to the cheating man.

The mistress brainwashes cheating men, and it is definitely not in a direction that is unfavorable to cheating men.

The smart juniors are all cheating men who are a little bit of a cheating man, and the cheating man is willing to cooperate, which is more effective.

For example, a brainwashed man should be married for the sake of the mistress, and he should divorce his wife.

Xiao San will never say to a cheating man, you cheat, you have to divorce for Xiao San,

The cheating man will feel that the mistress is forcing him, and the cheating man himself is unwilling to divorce.

Not only will he not be brainwashed by the mistress, but he will have a disgust for the mistress.

But if the mistress changes his method, when the cheating man complains about his marriage,

Guide the cheating man to think that his wife is not good for you, the marriage is unhappy, and the cheating man should divorce in order to pursue happiness,

Then the cheating man will be more acceptable, and the purpose of the mistress will be easier to succeed.

The point of Xiao San's brainwashing is not from the mouth of the bottle.

Just like sowing discord, there must be contradictions and gaps between cheating men and wives.

In this way, the junior can use some means to provoke and separate the relationship between husband and wife.

If the junior wants to let the cheating man give birth to some thoughts, he needs to find out some of the original ideological signs of the cheating man.

The cheating man himself feels that his wife is not good in some aspects, and the mistress expands this point.

Then without hinting and brainwashing the cheating man, a small problem will become a big problem.

The second factor is that the method used by the primary three is relatively harmless.

Xiao San will not come up directly, so he will tell the cheating man that he has to accept certain things.

For example, as mentioned earlier, the wife is not good, and the marriage is unhappy.

The smart junior will never say it directly to the cheating man,

Because the cheating man will feel that the junior did it directly, that is, he has a picture,

Xiao San must have done this in order to squeeze out his original wife and force the man to cheat and divorce.

If a cheating man doesn't want to divorce, he will be a little defensive about the mistress, and it will be too difficult for the mistress to brainwash.

If the junior is euphemistic, after the cheating man said it,

Xiao San comforted him, and it seemed that Xiao San had no purpose and selfishness.

While pretending to be a cheating man, he stepped on the original partner in the name of comforting the cheating man.

Many juniors will also step on the original partner to elevate the cheating man.

The mistress is for the good of cheating on men, and he doesn't target anyone's behavior,

Cheating men will feel more harmless, and saying anything is not intentional, so it is naturally easy to accept the ideas given by the mistress.

The last factor is that cheating men are more confident, so they will be defenseless!

Many cheating men are very confident about extramarital affairs and relationships with two women.

They feel that they are the ones who control the overall situation, and the original partner and the junior can't calculate him.

So the cheating man won't think that the mistress will brainwash him, and he will be defenseless.

Cheating men feel that they are powerful and dominate extramarital affairs.

And the junior is just a very low posture, affecting the cheating man, he can't detect it,

This is also why many juniors are actually doing it obviously, and cheating men are still blindly sinking.

In fact, the cheating man is not in love with the third child, but because he is too confident in himself.

Wives need to hit the self-confidence of cheating men,

Let the cheating man re-examine whether it is a husband and wife relationship or an extramarital relationship,

He began to be suspicious, and he began to become sensitive to Xiao San's words and deeds.

The cheating man found out by himself, and the mistress was calculating him, instilling thoughts in him, and even wanting to control him.

Only the cheating man will resent the mistress, and completely end the relationship with the mistress.

Wives need to grasp the weakness in order to be able to solve the extramarital affair with half the effort.

At the end of the article, Su Yue wanted to remind the original partners that men were brainwashed by the mistress, not only the mistress had the means.

This cheating man must also have some problems, or he is very easy to deceive.

But if this is the case with a cheating man, he can be brainwashed by the mistress, and he can definitely be brainwashed by the original partner.

If the original partner can't influence the cheating man, it proves that he is actually subjectively influenced.

is that he is willing to listen to Xiao San, then there is no brainwashing.

The original partner has to see the truth clearly, whether the problem is with the mistress or the cheating man.

Only by finding the root cause of the problem can we solve the problem once and for all.

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