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Shen Zhiyi
Edited by Shen Zhiyi
Preamble:
Have you ever seen such a couple? He came from a poor background and worked outside the home to support his family since he was a child.
She is a typical lady, who has been spoiled by her parents to lawlessness since she was a child.
In the end, they fell in love with each other and entered the palace of marriage.
But after marriage, the contradictions caused by the difference between the north and the south began to increase...
The Storm Meets
In 1992, 18-year-old Guo Xiaodong left his impoverished rural hometown and came to Beijing with a yearning for a wider world.
By chance, he participated in the summer camp activities of the Beijing Film Academy.
In those days when entertainment facilities were scarce, open-air movies were the only way for him to peek into the outside world.
The handsome men and women of the big city attracted the attention of this poor boy from the countryside, and he secretly decided that one day he too would become a member of this famous school.
In this way, Guo Xiaodong started his long and arduous life in Beipiao.
He lived a life worse than a homeless man, but he never gave up on his dreams.
After being introduced, he began to get in touch with the film and television industry, and worked hard to prepare for the exam while running tricks and group performances.
At the same time, Cheng Lisha, who is far away in Wuhan, lives in a typical southern petty bourgeois family.
She was well educated and learned various talents such as dance, painting, piano, etc.
As the only daughter in the family, the meticulous care of her parents has created her pampered and willful character.
In 2000, Guo Xiaodong and Cheng Lisha met for the first time in a crew.
However, neither of them was able to make a good impression on the other.
Guo Xiaodong feels that Cheng Lisha, the "white rich beauty", is picky, and Cheng Lisha also hates Guo Xiaodong's "earthy" appearance.
Two years later, Guo Xiaodong starred in the movie "Warm" and became an instant hit, and Cheng Lisha also began to emerge through some film and television dramas.
At a party, they meet again and have a new understanding of each other.
The simple Guo Xiaodong gave Cheng Lisha a down-to-earth feeling; And Cheng Lisha's simplicity and straightforwardness also moved him.
Thus, a cross-class love story began.
Contradictions arising from contrasts
The love between the daughter of the south and the poor boy of the north is destined to be full of hardships.
The initial date made Cheng Lisha feel the culture shock.
When Guo Xiaodong asked her to eat hot pot, he made her angry: Obviously it was a date, how could she choose this kind of roadside stall?
I also wore a beautiful dress and delicate makeup...
The later getting along also made Cheng Lisha feel more and more that the difference in their living habits could not be bridged at all.
For example, Guo Xiaodong will make at least 20 phone calls to Cheng Lisha; And he didn't even understand what the word romance meant.
In order to give Cheng Lisha a "surprise", he bought 99 expensive roses, but he didn't expect Cheng Lisha to not appreciate it, but sulked.
The most incomprehensible thing is that every time a quarrel ends, Cheng Lisha admits her mistakes.
Because if she doesn't take the initiative to bow her head, Guo Xiaodong will be able to ignore her all the time, which is really uncomfortable.
The two have been in love for two years, and Cheng Lisha has been dumped more than 20 times and chased back more than 20 times.
Until the end, she was really tired and proposed to Guo Xiaodong to break up.
Fate matters
After the breakup, Cheng Lisha gradually found that she still couldn't forget this "poor boy".
But the problem of face made her unable to take the initiative.
A chance encounter brings them back to their old friendship.
It turned out that Guo Xiaodong had always had an inferiority complex about his background, and he always felt that he was not worthy of Cheng Lisha, so he would "dump" her every time he quarreled to express his inner self-doubt.
Finally, in 2007, after several years of ups and downs, the two held a grand and low-key wedding in Guo Xiaodong's hometown of Linyi.
Do as the Romans do
After getting married, Cheng Lisha took the initiative to adapt to rural life in order to please her mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law saw it in her eyes and admired the sincerity of this foreign daughter-in-law very much.
Although Cheng Lisha has been a pampered eldest lady since she was a child, she can also wear cotton shoes and military coats, and endure the pungent smell of dry toilets in the cold winter.
In order to facilitate toileting, she even asked her husband Guo Xiaodong to help her cover the wind.
Seeing Cheng Lisha so "virtuous", her mother-in-law was very happy and said that she would not let her do housework.
On the contrary, her mother-in-law made stuffed dumplings for her every time, so that she could eat the taste of her hometown.
Cheng Lisha also does not dislike the living habits of her husband and mother-in-law.
For example, Guo Xiaodong loves to eat green onions the most, and he gobbles up every time he eats, but Cheng Lisha was stopped by her mother-in-law just frowning.
Since then, Cheng Lisha has completely integrated into rural life, and even learned to be a "little daughter-in-law".
The mother-in-law is very fond of her, and Cheng Lisha lives a life of being held in the palm of her hand.
Baby daughter-in-law
After having a child, in order to concentrate on taking care of the baby, Cheng Lisha rarely took on the drama again.
The family's expenses are all handled by Guo Xiaodong, and he hands over most of his income to Cheng Lisha to take care of.
When the mother-in-law saw it, she also agreed: "This is very good, men should be controlled, and it is better to be strict."
In this way, Cheng Lisha has never had to do housework in the 16 years of marriage, and has become a "baby daughter-in-law" in the eyes of the Guo family.
Cheng Lisha wore famous brands and valuable jewelry, and ate hometown dishes made by her husband and mother-in-law.
Although she wrinkles her nose from time to time with green onions, she is still pampered by the pearl of the palm of her family.
Epilogue:
The blessings that life has given Cheng Lisha are far beyond her imagination.
This spoiled southern lady turned out to be the "little daughter-in-law" of a northern farmer, and what is even more coincidental is that her mother-in-law dotes on her even more.
The key to all this is that Cheng Lisha knows how to back down in a timely manner and overcome rigidity with softness.
She put down her body and sincerely followed the local customs, and finally moved her mother-in-law.
And Guo Xiaodong's love for his wife seems to be repaying debts.
He has been tricked by fate since he was a child, and the arrival of his wife Cheng Lisha gave him a taste of being pampered.