Keep in mind during the Dragon Boat Festival: "If the three relatives don't leave, the two ceremonies don't return", don't make a big taboo
Since we live in a humane society, it is inevitable that there will be problems of human relations in our daily life, especially in some important festivals, which highlights the importance of human relations. Seeing that the Dragon Boat Festival is coming, many people are running back and forth for the Dragon Boat Festival gifts, but the Dragon Boat Festival gifts are also related taboos, and the older generation often says: "Three relatives do not leave, two gifts do not return", what does this sentence mean? Let's move on.
1. Which three relatives does "three relatives not leave" refer to?
1. Relatives who love to tell right and wrong.
Whenever the Dragon Boat Festival comes, many people will return home to reunite with their relatives and enjoy this hard-won warm moment together. But you will also meet some relatives who like to tell right and wrong, this kind of relatives usually sow discord behind their backs, and even spread some bad news for you, if you have such relatives in your family, it is recommended to cut off the relationship with them as soon as possible, otherwise it will also cause a lot of trouble and problems for yourself.
2. Ungrateful relatives.
As the saying goes: "The grace of a drop of water is reciprocated by a spring", the most precious quality of a person is to know how to be grateful, and it is precisely because of knowing how to be grateful that the brilliance of human nature can be inherited. While the word "gratitude" may seem simple, not everyone can do it. If you have that kind of ungrateful relative around you, you must stay away as much as possible, even if it is the New Year's holiday, there is no need to visit them at home.
3. Relatives who are too snobbish.
There are often some snobbish people around us, and if you are unfortunate enough to become a relative of this kind of person, it is simply a great sorrow in life. It is only when you get in touch with them that you will find that the attitude of this kind of person towards you depends entirely on your social status and wealth. When you have money and power, they will flatter you and try their best to curry favor, but when you have no power and power, they will speak ill of you and look at you coldly. There's no need for someone like that to keep associating with him.
2. What does "two gifts not return" mean?
1. Do not return gifts with ulterior motives.
Although many people will give gifts to friends and relatives when the Dragon Boat Festival comes, not all gifts are carefully prepared. Through gift-giving, we can also judge the person's attitude towards people, some people have other intentions at the beginning of the gift, they will see the gift as an investment, if they receive such a gift, there is no need to give him back.
2. The gifts given by your own juniors will not be returned.
In traditional Chinese culture, whenever there is a special holiday, the younger generation should give gifts to the elders in the family, which is also a manifestation of filial piety. When the elders receive gifts from the juniors, it is okay to accept them calmly, there is no need to give them a return gift, if you give them a return gift, it will be a bit too raw, for the more sensitive juniors, it is likely to be misunderstood.
There is still more than a week left, and the Dragon Boat Festival is coming. On the occasion of the Dragon Boat Festival, we can also seize the time to choose our favorite gifts, whether it is for friends or relatives, it represents our best wishes to them. By the way, I would like to remind everyone that in the process of buying gifts, you must make decisions according to your actual situation, and you can't slap your swollen face and become fat.