"Who do you say will be balanced in their hearts? Since I don't give me a penny of family property, then I don't have to provide for my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law said that I should not worry about my brother-in-law as a sister-in-law, and I want to go to my house to support the elderly, because my husband is the eldest and should be old until the end of my life, I yelled at my husband, who will give the family property to whoever supports the elderly" 53-year-old Aunt Zhou Xiuhua said sadly, what happened?
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53-year-old Aunt Zhou Xiuhua
My father-in-law's funeral cost 100,000 yuan, all of which were paid by us, which I didn't want to be, my husband also has a younger brother, and it should have been shared between the two of us, but my husband said that he was the boss, and we paid for it.
I told my mother-in-law about this, and my mother-in-law said, "You are a sister-in-law, you should be open-minded, don't keep thinking about worrying with your uncle, he is a younger brother after all" Since my mother-in-law has spoken, I can't help but give my mother-in-law face.
Mother-in-law has two sons, the brother-in-law is 5 years younger than her husband, and all the love of the mother-in-law is given to the brother-in-law, as if the husband was picked up by her.
When I was a child, there was braised pork on the table, and you said that they were all children, how could anyone not be hungry for braised pork. The husband reached out to clip an extra piece, and the mother-in-law said that the brother-in-law should eat enough, and the rest could be eaten, and every New Year, the husband's clothes were sewn and repaired, and the brother-in-law's clothes were new, and the mother-in-law always said to her husband that she had to let the little brother do everything.
Although the mother-in-law does not like her husband, her husband is very filial to her father-in-law and mother-in-law, and her husband has been very afraid of her mother-in-law since she was a child, and she does not dare to disobey her mother-in-law's will in anything. My husband graduated from college and worked, and he gave half of his income to his mother-in-law every month, and the remaining half was kept by his husband for living expenses.
When I first went to my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law didn't seem very happy, and the dishes she cooked were also the usual home-cooked dishes, and my mother-in-law saw me and said that it was all about my uncle, saying that my uncle was small, and that my brother and sister-in-law would protect my brother-in-law in the future.
Others have a meeting gift for the first time, I didn't have any meeting gift, but gave my brother-in-law 1000 yuan as a meeting gift, my husband asked you to prepare for me in advance, in order to make my husband happy, I prepared, and bought a lot of gifts for my parents-in-law.
But when I came back, my mother-in-law didn't give me a penny to meet the gift, and my husband said that I should not worry about it, I would live with him in the future, and don't worry about this money with my mother-in-law.
I said, "Is it about money?" This is a matter of respect for me, even if my mother-in-law gives me 100, I don't count "I returned to the unit, my colleague asked me, how much my mother-in-law gave me a meeting gift, I couldn't say, I had to make up and say that I gave 8000, I didn't dare to say that I didn't give a penny, otherwise my mother's blood pressure would go up."
The money we bought the house was given by my mother, my mother-in-law said that there was no money to buy a house for us, let us rent a house, my mother felt sorry for me, so she gave me 400,000 yuan to buy a house, my mother-in-law told her husband that you find a good mother-in-law, and you have a house to live in.
Later, the brother-in-law fell in love, and brought his girlfriend back for the first time, and my mother-in-law called me over to cook early in the morning, and bought prawns, crabs, pig's trotters, ducks, etc., which cost hundreds.
When the uncle's children and friends left, the mother-in-law gave a big red envelope of 10001, and asked her husband to give a red envelope, and the husband said to give 2000, and the mother-in-law was not happy, let the husband give 6000, I said why, the husband said that he was the eldest brother.
Later, the brother-in-law wanted to get married, the woman asked for 200,000 dowry, the mother-in-law gave it, the woman wanted to buy a 130-square-meter house, the mother-in-law took out 600,000 to pay the down payment, I told my husband that the mother-in-law was eccentric, when we got married and bought a house, the mother-in-law did not give a penny, to the second marriage, the bride price of 200,000, the down payment of 600,000, the money saved by the father-in-law and mother-in-law over the years was given to the brother-in-law.
After the brother-in-law got married, he didn't start a fire, he ate at his mother-in-law's house, and when he finished eating, he went home, and his brother-in-law didn't give a penny of food to his mother-in-law.
Once my father-in-law fainted, my mother-in-law called my husband as soon as possible, and when we arrived at the hospital, we were busy until the evening, and I didn't see my brother-in-law coming, and my mother-in-law said that my brother-in-law was tired from work, so I didn't let him come, otherwise my brother and daughter-in-law were unwilling. The uncle is sitting in the office, what are you tired of? My husband is in charge of production in the workshop, and he is more tired than my brother-in-law, and my mother-in-law can't see my husband's tiredness.
In addition to the social security reimbursement for public hospitalization, a total of more than 60,000 yuan was spent, and the mother-in-law told her husband to let her husband take it all, saying that the brother-in-law had just married and had no money, so don't let the brother-in-law take the money.
Later, my husband went behind my back and borrowed 60,000 money from someone to pay, but my brother-in-law didn't take a penny, do you think I can not get angry? I'm arguing with my husband, don't you have to discuss anything with me? After my mother-in-law found out, she also said that I was a little childish, is it worth arguing with my husband for 60,000 yuan? If you quarrel again, let my husband divorce me, and I will leave if I say leave, who is afraid of whom.
Later, my husband apologized to me, and asked you to forgive him for the sake of the child, but my husband couldn't help it, what could he do when he met such an eccentric mother?
Later, one day my father-in-law had a heart attack, and he fell to the ground and never got up again, because it came too suddenly, my mother-in-law couldn't accept it, and washed my face with tears all day long.
The mother-in-law called her husband over and told her husband to let her husband take the money out, don't let the brother-in-law take the money, the brother-in-law's money is all in the hands of his daughter-in-law, and the brother-in-law is a miser, and she refuses to go out a penny, if she asks her brother to take 50,000 yuan, she says that her brother-in-law will divorce him.
My husband begged me again, let me not look for my brother-in-law to take the money and share it evenly, I said that this family has a money, and your brother has nothing to do with it, we are the boss is a big wrong, mother-in-law said that the family is the eldest again, and generally everything is the boss's responsibility.
One day, my mother-in-law suddenly bought me a coat of 1000 yuan, I was flattered, my mother-in-law has never bought clothes for me over the years, I thought my mother-in-law was found out by conscience, knowing that I have paid for the family over the years, my father-in-law was sick and hospitalized and the aftermath are all the money I took, I was happy to accept it.
After accepting it, my mother-in-law took out a piece of paper and a pen and asked me to sign a statement of renunciation of property, she said that she would transfer the house she lived in to my brother-in-law, I said that my brother-in-law already had a house, and my mother-in-law said that my daughter-in-law planned to have a second child, and this house would give her a second child in the future. There is also a deposit of 800,000 yuan for the uncle, so I gave up, even if I help the uncle.
I said I can't accept it, I'm not so atmospheric, I've been wronged enough to marry into your family over the years, there is no bride price, no meeting gift, marriage and house buying are all money given by my mother, you haven't given a penny, this is also counted, my father-in-law's illness expenses are all paid by me, and now the house and deposit have no relationship with me? Why? Did your eldest son pick it up?
The mother-in-law said that she didn't look like a sister-in-law, and she didn't think about her brother-in-law in everything, and it was difficult for the old man to have a bowl of water, I said that you didn't serve it, and the money was all about the eldest son, when did you think of the eldest son was also very embarrassed, they were all sons, why should he be ignored?
I refused to sign, I quarreled with my husband here, and my mother-in-law put pressure on my husband over there, and my husband fainted under double pressure, I was scared, and I compromised for my husband's sake, and I signed.
My husband accompanied my mother-in-law to complete the formalities, my mother-in-law turned around to pack my things, and asked my husband to wait for him, she wanted to go home with us, saying that she wanted to go to my house to care for the elderly, saying that the little daughter-in-law was unwilling to live with her, the little daughter-in-law had a bad temper, and the mother-in-law said that I had a good temper, so she wanted to come to me to support the elderly.
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