"The Story of Rose": At the age of 30, Huang Yimei's biggest disaster is not Fang Xiewen!

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2024-06-18 18:57Published in Jiangsu entertainment creators

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Recently, I watched "The Story of Rose", and when I saw Fang Xiewen after marriage, was I angry?

In order to protect the child, he quit Rose's beloved job;

found a Korean mother to take care of the roses, which deepened the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law;

directly removed the identity of Rose's shareholder, forgetting who gave him start-up capital to start a company in the first place?

In short, Fang Xiewen in the play has too many calculations about roses, he doesn't buy rings, he doesn't have a wedding, he uses Rose's sensibility to squeeze her out little by little, and finally wants to tie her up with a child, but Fang Xiewen can't imagine that Rose will fight back;

For example, Rose started doing nail art, and Fang Xiewen asked her why? In fact, he also asked Rose to give an answer, similar to "I just do it casually" or "I think it looks good", Fang Xiewen will probably not have any further expression on this matter.

Huang Yimei definitely knew what Fang Xiewen wanted to hear, but she just said two words: "I like it".

What do you like, do you like nail art or do you like your old life?

No one person can change another, but everyone can stop themselves and obey one!

Huang Yimei's most important growth is from Fang Xiewen.

01 Huang Yimei gave him the most important thing

When Zhou Shihui abandoned his wife and children for the rose, Huang Yimei was only 16 years old that year, and on her 16th birthday, Huang Zhenhuahai gave her a small ring, which was beautifully named: "The ring is to tell you to quit, and stop being arrogant and impetuous." ”

What is very appropriate is that in the original book, Huang Rose was only 18 years old when she married Fang Xiewen, and before she got married, she said to Huang Zhenhua:

"Fang Xiewen really takes care of me, big brother, I'm just a very ordinary woman, I don't want to fight with society with a machine gun, I think it's very pleasant to get along with Fang Xiewen."

Why did the previously sharp yellow rose become like this? is the same as in the TV series, it is because of her first love Zhuang Guodong, but unlike in the TV series, Zhuang Guodong in the original book did not have a relationship with Rose;

Zhuang Guodong finally married his girlfriend, and Huang Rose was deeply shocked, because she thought she was so beautiful, but Zhuang Guodong never even touched her!

So in the original book, although Huang Rose can't forget her first love, she gave her first night to ordinary Fang Xiewen, and he really made a lot of money!

Not only that, Huang Yimei has undergone great changes after marriage;

"She has become so sensible and patient, she is only eighteen years old, she is already a little woman, and the flowers that bloom early must be thanked sooner." Seeing the roses after marriage, Huang Zhenhua felt very desolate!

She no longer talks about love, "I know that I can completely control Fang Xiewen." ”

02 The influence of the family of origin

Does the family of origin have a big impact on people?

"The Story of Rose" Huang Yimei's mother has a very sharp evaluation, some people have a great influence, but some people will be completely changed because of their original family, and they will be reborn because of this!

In the play, Su Su and Fang Xiewen are a contrast, and the life trajectories of the two are also the control group, and it is Su Su who is finally reborn, and Su Su is the one who has the best life;

The original book has this contrast:

When Huang Rose returned to her parents' home for the first time after 10 years of marriage in the United States, Huang Jianhua almost didn't recognize her:

"She was holding the child in her arms, carrying a large bag on her back, wearing a very ordinary outfit, wearing fake gold earrings, and the fat had filled all the aura outlines of her face."

The most surprised was Su Su, who said to Huang Zhenhua in disbelief:

"She tried on my mink coat and said she wanted to make one too, and you know my clothes are wide, but she can't put them on, and I think she's more than thirty pounds fat."

She couldn't imagine how Rose, who had spent a huge amount of money to buy clothes, would think of buying jeans for 7 yuan a piece, she wanted to buy 30 pairs and go back to the United States to wear them slowly, and asked what leather shoes were 50 yuan a pair;

Su Gengsheng said: How do you ask me to answer?

Don't roses know?

03 Married women retreat step by step, why?

"The Story of Rose" added a character is Jiang Xueqiong played by Zhu Zhu, at first I didn't understand, why did she insist on having a fetus after she finally got pregnant? For someone like her, or Bai Xiaohe, isn't it important to stay?

But after looking at the roses, I know how much of a woman's marriage is for the sake of children;

If Rose doesn't give birth to children, she won't see Fang Xiewen clearly, and if she doesn't have children, she won't be able to move an inch and live in poverty!

But even if she insists on it for 10 years and gives up once, the child's heart still follows Fang Xiewen, because Fang Xiewen hates roses, so the children of roses don't like Huang Yimei;

The daughter of the rose, Taichu, said: She is a flower, I am a tree!

is obviously outstanding, but he has to live a different life from Rose, and he is also married to the ordinary Tanghua, and he will serve him willingly for the rest of his life.

The beginning is the catastrophe of Rose's life, and it has become a sin to pay so much for her, once divorced.

What exactly does "The Story of Rose" want to tell the audience?

Those who have read Yishu's original book may know that her novels are more about depicting the beauty of roses and the beauty of appearance, but we think there are too many beauties, and it is not enough for you to become a legend only by beauty, you also need to be very alive inside, and this person must have an attitude, a point of view, and his own ideas, or he must be uncompromising and uncompromising, and she has to be very special and different before she deserves to be written.

Pessoa once said: no one loves anyone else, he only loves what belongs to him in others, or his assumptions.

That is, the person you love is either very similar to you, and then you use the way you love her to realize the proposition of loving yourself, or else you fall in love with someone who is completely opposite to you;

You perfect yourself by falling in love with your opposite, so it's her who goes through so many emotional stories, but it's all about herself, and it's all about her own growth."

Maybe for Huang Yimei, Zhuang Guodong is the one who is very similar, and Fang Xiewen is the complementary one!

Loving them, Rose found herself.

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