#头条创作挑战赛#
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Text: Yu Dazui Booth
Editor|Yu Dazui Booth
Preface
Today, in 2024, we finally ushered in a long-awaited moment - to be able to freely review the divorce of Da S and Wang Xiaofei, the former "model couple".
For a long time, the breakdown of this marriage has sparked countless speculations and criticism, and today, as more inside stories surface, it dawns on us that the truth is far more confusing and absurd than we imagined.
A puzzling entanglement between mother and daughter
Let's start with her mother Huang Chunmei's sudden "abnormal" words and deeds against Wang Xiaofei. For a long time after the divorce, Huang Chunmei has been very kind to this son-in-law and regarded him as if he had come out. But just when the outside world thought that everything would drift away, Huang Chunmei suddenly showed a completely different appearance in front of everyone.
"Everything in this family is paid by my daughter Da S, but Wang Xiaofei has never fulfilled her responsibilities!"
Facing Huang Chunmei's roar, we can't help but ponder: how could a kind mother who once loved her son-in-law so much suddenly change her course and criticize him?
What's even more incredible is that she is extremely protective of Da S's words, bluntly saying that Da S is a good wife who does her best.
Such a contrast is puzzling: it stands to reason that mother and daughter should be intimate, but why would they judge their son-in-law and daughter-for-tat?
With the passage of time, we gradually revealed the reason for all this: it turned out that behind Huang Chunmei's roar, there was the news that Wang Xiaofei was about to get married for the second time.
Indeed, less than half a year later, Wang Xiaofei held a lightning wedding with Ma Xiaomei, who was 8 years younger than him. As a result, Huang Chunmei's previous sudden anger was explained: she was secretly angry at her inability to prevent her son-in-law from reorganizing the family, so she pointed the finger at Wang Xiaofei.
can be described as both good wishes and sharp words, Huang Chunmei's ambivalence in our eyes really makes people laugh and cry. However, this entanglement did not end there, but was the beginning of a good show.
Big S's bizarre choice of spouse has led to a cliff-like decline in life
To the surprise of the world, Wang Xiaofei's lightning remarriage failed to make Big S change his mind and follow in his footsteps again. On the contrary, the popular actress then made a surprising decision - she married the actor Gu Junye, who has a small net worth!
Comprehensively judging the man's family background, career achievements, wealth and other factors, this is indeed a "gateway imbalance" marriage. However, on the surface, this does not seem to be a big deal: after all, it is free love, not the words of the matchmaker of the parents.
But not long after Da S and Gu Junye's newlywed Yan'er, the shocking inside story came out: Gu Junye is far less rich and status than the outside world imagines, and the married life of the two is even unsustainable!
The gift that Da S gave to her husband was a shabby diamond ring, and even the furnishings of the marriage room were very simple. The two were once dependent on each other, and their lives were almost unbelievably poor. "
This internal news undoubtedly surprised the outside world. How could a popular superstar with a net worth of more than 100 million yuan be willing to live such a poor life? Big S's "ingenious" choice of mate does seem to be incomprehensible.
It is not difficult to imagine that Big S's approach is really looking back suddenly, which is smacking. Once upon a time, who would have thought that she would abandon the darkness and turn to the light, go away and fly away, and end up in such a situation? It seems that for Wang Xiaofei, a man from a well-off family, she might as well cherish it again and again.
As for why she did such an "unwise" act, rumors are everywhere: some people speculate that it was a momentary anger, some people say that it is to take revenge on Wang Xiaofei in public, and some people think that she was deceived to make such a big mistake.
However, these conjectures can't match the hard facts of reality: Big S's life situation has plummeted. This is the most painful price of Big S, which is deeply embarrassing.
Public opinion was in an uproar and there were different opinions
The drama of Big S can be described as a farce, which has caused a lot of turmoil. For a while, the outside world was in an uproar, and they had their own opinions on this matter.
"I'm not afraid that my marriage will not be happy, but I'm afraid that I won't have a husband to shield you from the wind and rain."
"People are always free to choose in life, and they are not allowed to be talked about by outsiders."
Different voices come and go, each with its own thoughts, and there is no one thing to do. Even Huang Chunmei herself couldn't help but publicly express her worries when she saw such a good show:
"I really don't know how far this marriage can go. Based on my experience, I have a hunch that I am not optimistic. "
In addition to mixing his mother's worries, these words are more flavorful of leaving a way for Big S. But even so, public opinion is still chattering, and it is difficult to end it so far.
The scumbag's helpless self-help and good intentions
For Wang Xiaofei, Big S's divorce farce undoubtedly put him in a dilemma. It stands to reason that as a successful businessman, he has bid farewell to the painful memories of the past and regained a happy new life.
But who would have thought that Big S's inappropriate words and deeds would cast a shadow on this new marriage. Wang Xiaofei had to reassure the staff around her again and again, hoping that they would not expose any negative news at will, for fear that it would anger Big S's fragile nerves.
"I really feel sorry for Da S, and I don't want to break her heart. Even though we are divorced, I want her to live happily ever after. "
It can be seen that the ex-husband, who was once called a "scumbag" by Big S, has not diminished his thoughtfulness towards her in the slightest. Even after the trauma of divorce, he still regards Da S's happiness as the top priority, and tries his best to avoid any danger that may hurt her.
However, what was unexpected was that Big S was not moved by Wang Xiaofei's thoughtfulness. On the contrary, she is still tirelessly attacking her ex-husband and fighting back at the legal level.
Facing Big S's stubbornness and stubbornness, Wang Xiaofei gradually felt physically and mentally exhausted. At one point, he even wanted to leave everything in the past behind him and let go of this painful memory completely.
Perhaps, this is the so-called "too many old accounts are too heavy, so they have to be completely restarted". Obviously, Wang Xiaofei wanted to start a new life, but she was blocked by her ex-wife's entanglement, and she could no longer devote herself to it. This is undoubtedly a cruel reality and deeply deplorable.
The cruel truth of life is presented before your eyes
Thinking about it, the root cause of this impasse between Wang Xiaofei and Da S is nothing more than the deviation of the two parties' understanding of "marriage" and "responsibility".
Wang Xiaofei may feel that she has paid enough commitment and responsibility; And Big S may think that this is far from enough. Such a contradictory concept led to a long-term psychological lack and mental trauma on both sides, and also gave birth to Big S's ingenious "extreme moves".
It is not difficult to see that the definition of "marriage" is different in everyone's mind. Criticism from the outside world often does not help, but only adds fuel to the fire, further escalating the conflict.
Interestingly, we find that life is full of contradictions: some people think that marriage is a private matter and should not be interfered with; Others, on the other hand, are convinced that marriage should be in the public domain and require a high level of social attention.
"The breakdown of the marriage has undoubtedly brought great harm to both Da S and Wang Xiaofei, but who can truly understand what the parties are thinking in their hearts?"
Indeed, everyone has a different understanding of "home" and a different philosophy of life. We don't have a big picture, and we don't have the right to tell anyone what is right and wrong.
Life is like this, there is always something puzzling and incredible. But why should we go into the nitty-gritty? Instead of accusing Big S of choice, it is better to appreciate the diversity of life with an inclusive heart.
After all, in this world, no choice is absolutely right or wrong. We are always easily blinded by momentary emotions and ignore the three-dimensional nature of life. Behind every decision lies a unique life journey.
Big S's divorce may be embarrassing, but it also opens a new chapter in her life and brings new possibilities. What does the future hold? No one could have predicted. Maybe her marriage to Gu Junye can last a long time; Or maybe they will go their separate ways.