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Xiaoice is young and beautiful, and there are several guys in their unit who take a fancy to her at the same time.
Xiaowei is handsome and talented, and Xiaoice usually likes to discuss work with Xiaowei.
But Xiaoice did not choose Xiaowei in the end, but fell in love with the driver Xiaohuang.
Xiaowei was very incomprehensible at first, and he was also a little unconvinced.
But later Xiaowei learned that Xiao Huang was a relative of a leader of the unit.
Xiaowei, who has always been more sensitive and understands human nature a little, is calm when he thinks about it.
After all, I am from a rural area, I have no connections, no resources, what is the use of just having a little talent, and there may not be anyone willing to help you and be able to help you at a critical time.
Even if a person is not very good in itself, his relatives or people close to him, if they are excellent people or even cattle people, will directly or indirectly become a resource for him.
Even if you don't really take advantage of the relationship in the end, it will become a kind of icing on the cake, and it will look a little better and sound better.
So, sometimes, it doesn't matter how good you are, it's what kind of people surround you.
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At a gathering of friends, I met the principal of a private kindergarten, although he was a certain age, he still looked beautiful and capable.
During the chat, I learned that she was retired from BD.
And a middle-aged man sitting next to the director of the kindergarten, his appearance was not good, and he didn't think there was anything special, but he didn't expect it to be her husband, both of whom had served in the same BD before.
Both husband and wife were approachable, so everyone jokingly asked who was chasing whom at the time.
In fact, the implication is that I feel that my husband is a little unworthy of my wife.
The beauty director said, we are in free love, and no one chases anyone first.
Someone asked inappropriately, "There were a lot of people chasing you at that time, right?" ”
My husband hurriedly replied: It's really a lot, but in the end he followed me! Unabashed pride and a sense of triumph in your heart.
Then you must be doing very well in BD!
My husband said half-jokingly and half-seriously, in fact, I am just a driver! Help S drive the car.
Everyone seems to understand this time, and there is no need to say more.
Therefore, it doesn't matter whether you are excellent or not, the important thing is that you can be infinitely close to high-level and excellent people, which is also an intangible competitiveness for you.
③
There used to be such a story circulating on the Internet, I don't know if it's true or not.
He said that Mr. Li Ka-shing had a driver who drove him for more than 30 years and was ready to go home to enjoy his old age.
Mr. Li Ka-shing saw that he had followed him for so many years, and in order to let him spend his old age in peace, he wrote a check for 2 million yuan to him.
The driver said no, he could still get one or two hundred million.
Li Ka-shing was surprised and asked how you can save so much money with only an income of 5 to 6,000 a month?
The driver replied, I will help you drive every day, and when you call in the back, you will buy a little bit of land in any place.
When you say which stock you want to buy, I will also buy a little stock, and now I have an asset of 10 million or 20 million.
See, sometimes it really doesn't matter who you are, it's who you're always with.
Cherish the opportunity to be with the cow, if you don't have it, find a way to create opportunities, which is the most direct, effective and fastest way to achieve a counterattack in life.
④
There is a saying that a person's wealth and wisdom are the average of the 5 people he regularly comes into contact with.
If you're like me, surrounded by a bunch of poor friends and relatives, you're bound to be poor forever. Of course, I've been trying to make some changes lately.
It is only when we associate with people of wisdom or wealth that we have the opportunity to learn, be inspired, or access resources from them.
Therefore, whether in school, work or life, the cattle around us will have a profound impact on us.
Everyone aspires to succeed, but being good or not isn't the only thing, sometimes it's who you choose to be with.
"Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black." Let's optimize the interpersonal relationships around us a little, appropriately reduce some useless socialization, stay with the cattle people more, grow together with the cattle people, and create their own brilliant life.