In the Chinese-speaking entertainment industry, a piece of news is very lively and sensational. The fact that the famous pianist Liu Shikun was happy to have a daughter at the age of 81 not only broke the previous record of gambling king Stanley Ho becoming a father at the age of 78, but also refreshed people's perception of childbearing age.
Liu Shikun and his 45-year-old wife welcomed their first daughter, and the age difference in the family is jaw-dropping. An 81-year-old father, a 45-year-old mother, and a newborn baby, the picture seems to have passed through three generations.
However, this is only part of the phenomenon of "old and old" in the entertainment industry, and there are many more amazing stories waiting to be revealed.
Luo Dayou: The psychological journey from Dink to the desire to be a father
In the Chinese music industry, Luo Dayou is undoubtedly a legend that cannot be ignored. What is less well known, however, is that this musical genius has undergone a dramatic shift in his outlook on life.
When he was young, Luo Dayou was a staunch supporter of Dinkism, believing that children would restrict his creative freedom and lifestyle.
However, as time passed, Luo Dayou began to rethink the meaning of life. At the age of 56, he got married, almost the age of 13 when his wife was 13. This marriage has brought new expectations to Luo Dayou's life.
Two years later, at the age of 58, Luo Dayou ushered in a major turning point in his life - he became the father of a daughter.
This hard-won little life made Luo Dayou completely change his view of life, and he began to realize that the warmth of family and the responsibility of being a father brought new inspiration and motivation to his music creation.
Despite the challenges of parenting at an advanced age, he and his wife are still full of joy and anticipation.
Li Shuangjiang's happy love miracle in his later years
Li Shuangjiang's life story is legendary. In his 50s, he thought that his life had stabilized, but he did not expect an unexpected turn of events. He fell in love with a student who was 27 years younger than him, and this love that spanned all ages eventually bore sweet fruit – their son, Li Tianyi.
Li Shuangjiang said in the interview that he never imagined that he could be a parent again at such an advanced age, but at the same time, there are many pressures and challenges, including the society's questioning eyes on "old husbands and young wives", and how to give enough care to children in a limited time.
Cherishing hard-won happiness: Kou Zhenhai and his "family treasure"
Actor Kou Zhenhai's life experience is full of drama, the 54-year-old who was supposed to enjoy his old age in peace, but ushered in the second spring of his life, he formed a new family with his wife who was 21 years younger, and soon ushered in the crystallization of their love - a cute boy.
This hard-won child was regarded as a treasure by the couple, and they named the child "Family Treasure", which means that this little life is the most precious treasure of their family. Kou Zhenhai often lamented that although he was old, having children allowed him to find a new meaning in life.
However, despite the fact that a happy life also hides deep worries. Kou Zhenhai often worries about whether he will be able to be by his side when his son grows up.
This worry made him cherish every moment of time with his son even more, and it also made him play the role of a good father more attentively.
The stories of these three artists make people deeply feel the power of the impermanence of life and love and family to cross the age gap. Their experiences have revolutionized the traditional notion of family and shown us the wonders and possibilities of life.
Although these three artists have faced various challenges, the hard-won happiness they have undoubtedly painted their lives with brilliant colors.
"He Shen looks at the emperor" in the play: the actor Wang Gang and his son in real life.
The well-known actor Wang Gang grew old at the age of 60, and his son became the focus of his later life. The depth of his love for his son made his colleagues joke: Wang Gang looked at his son's eyes, just like He Shen, who he played in the TV series "Kangxi Dynasty", saw the emperor, full of deep love and admiration.
However, this near-doting approach has led to some unexpected results. In a public program, when the host asked who the "Iron Triangle" was, Wang Gang's son directly blurted out: "My father, Tielin, and the country", without using any honorific titles at all.
This scene not only embarrassed the audience, but also raised questions about this method of education.
Zhang Jizhong had three generations in the same house in his later years, and the family was happy.
The story of Zhang Jizhong, a well-known director who has attracted much attention, is particularly fascinating. When he turned 68 years old, he married a woman who was 31 years younger than him, and in just two years, he had a son and a daughter.
Zhang Jizhong often proudly says: "Age is just a number, and the happiness of the family is the most important thing." However, there are also many challenges hidden behind this happiness. Due to the very large age gap between them, he had to deal with physical exhaustion, such as feeling out of breath after not long while playing with the children.
Despite facing many challenges, Zhang Jizhong still insists on holding a grand birthday party for his children every year, trying to be a competent father. This perseverance and efforts have been appreciated and recognized by many people.
The Price of Spoiling: A Lesson for Li Shuangjiang and Li Tianyi
In this series of old and son-in-law incidents, the incidents of Li Shuangjiang and his son Li Tianyi are undoubtedly the most alarming. Li Shuangjiang's doting on his son has reached the point of no return.
Li Tianyi, who is not yet 18 years old and does not yet have a driver's license, bought a luxury BMW with the support of his father, Li Shuangjiang.
What's even more serious is that only two years later, Li Tianyi was imprisoned for a crime, completely destroying his future. Li Shuangjiang was devastated by his cruel crime, and he bitterly said in an interview: "My doting ruined his life, and this is the biggest regret and lesson of my life." ”
This embarrassing case has served as a warning to other celebrities who have children in their later years. It is a profound reminder that excessive spoiling does not allow a child to grow up healthy, but can instead be the culprit that destroys a child's future.
These stories show the different choices of old stars in the face of fatherly love and education methods, from Wang Gang's extreme favor, to Zhang Jizhong's hard adaptation, to Li Shuangjiang's tragic lesson, each case has triggered us to think deeply.
These stories remind us that finding a balance between pampering and discipline as parents, regardless of age, is always a timeless topic that deserves to be explored in depth.
Embarrassment on the show: Kou Zhenhai's family had a seat conflict with others.
At a high-profile fashion show, Kou Zhenhai attended with his wife and children. was supposed to be a happy scene for a family of three, but an unexpectedly staged a "family farce" that made people cry and laugh.
The scene is dramatic: Kou Zhenhai, with gray hair, looks like a kind old grandfather; A young and beautiful wife, at first glance she looks more like a child's sister; Their young son was jumping from seat to seat and looked particularly lively.
However, this seemingly harmonious picture is suddenly broken, and the child has a whim and wants to switch seats with his mother. After being rejected, the child lost control of his emotions and gave his mother a punch. This scene surprised the audience very much, and Kou Zhenhai was also in a dilemma, he didn't want to hurt his wife's dignity, but he couldn't bear to blame his son harshly.
The accident not only exposed the huge age gap in their families, but also showed the difficulties that older families may face in the way they are educated.
The photo of Zhang Jizhong and his parents-in-law seems to be in the same frame across generations.
At a birthday party in Zhang Jizhong, a seemingly ordinary family photo sparked a lot of discussion. In the photo, he invited his wife's parents to refer to him, but when the three of them sat side by side, the picture showed a dramatic effect: Zhang Jizhong had gray hair and a vicissitudes of life, and he looked a little older than his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
This photo inadvertently shows the particular family composition of their family. Zhang Jizhong once half-jokingly said: "Sometimes I feel like a grandfather for children, but love knows no age."
However, this large age gap undoubtedly poses unique challenges for families, such as generation gaps and differences in lifestyle habits.
Luo Dayou's family went out to take care of their granddaughter by their grandparents.
Although Luo Dayou has only gotten a daughter in his 60s, he still has the enthusiasm to take the whole family out to play. However, every time they go out, they encounter a similar embarrassing situation: passers-by tend to misunderstand that they are grandparents with granddaughters.
Luo Dayou once sighed: "I know that I look like an old grandfather, but every time I am misunderstood, I still feel a little uncomfortable in my heart." Although this situation brought Luo Dayou a little trouble, it also made him cherish every moment with his daughter even more.
Once, an enthusiastic passer-by took the initiative to ask "how old is your granddaughter", and Luo Dayou's wife gently corrected: "This is our daughter." "This little accident is a bit embarrassing, but it is a true reflection of the reality of this special family.
These seemingly ordinary daily scenes profoundly reflect the special challenges faced by the old celebrity family. The huge age gap not only attracts people's attention in appearance, but also brings many questions worth pondering in daily life.
However, in their own way, these families interpret the true meaning of love without age, and also provide us with a new perspective to re-examine family relationships.
At the age of 11, the second-generation star Kou Xiangrui got a superior starting point from his father Kou Zhenhai
Kou Zhenhai's expectations for his son can be said to be very high, and he hopes that his son can show his strength in the entertainment industry. When his son was only 11 years old, he signed a contract with a well-known agency to pave the way for his child's acting career.
Kou Zhenhai once said in an interview: "I hope to see my son grow up in my lifetime, although some people say that I am too anxious, but I think early planning is necessary."
In the circle, this rush has caused a lot of controversy. Some question whether a child is deprived of a normal childhood, while others worry that early exposure to the entertainment industry could have a negative impact on their development.
However, Kou Zhenhai has always insisted on his choice, and he believes that this is the best way to pave the way for his son's future.
The inheritance of the piano family: Liu Shikun's grand plan.
As an internationally renowned piano master, Liu Shikun's expectations for his daughter are naturally inseparable from the music itself, and he hopes that she can inherit the music career. When his daughter was only 8 months old, he founded a piano school in her name, a move that was both his expectation for his daughter and his determination to pass on his music career.
Liu Shikun once said with great anticipation: "I hope to pass on what I have learned in my life to the next generation, and my daughter will become a continuation of this dream." In addition to starting a school, Liu Shikun also prepared a generous education fund for her daughter to ensure that she can move forward on the road of music in the future.
Plan ahead: Luo Dayou's legacy is arranged.
Faced with the age gap, Luo Dayou realized more clearly that he couldn't accompany his daughter for a long time. Therefore, he began to make arrangements for his daughter's future early. Luo Dayou not only made a detailed will, but also carefully planned his daughter's education direction and life advice.
Luo Dayou once sighed: "I may not be able to accompany her for too long, but I hope to pave the way for her future." This will and life plan is the last gift I can give her, and I hope it will continue to guide her after I leave. "
This will not only clarifies the distribution of property, but also makes detailed plans for the daughter's education direction and life advice. Luo Dayou hopes that with the help of this form, even if he leaves, he can influence and guide his daughter, so that she can face life better.
In the entertainment industry, there are many phenomena of old people having children, but its impact is worthy of our in-depth discussion. This particular family structure has both unique advantages and challenges that cannot be ignored.
On the positive side, these older fathers are usually more experienced in life and have relatively stable financial conditions. They are able to provide a better living environment for their children and pass on the wisdom they have accumulated over the years to the next generation.
As Zhang Jizhong said, "Our age advantage allows us to look at the growth of our children more calmly."
However, despite the huge age gap between siblings, it also poses a variety of problems. The challenge of physical strength and energy is one of the most obvious of these. Zhang Jizhong once sighed frankly: "Sometimes I really wish I could be 20 years younger, so that I can have more energy and physical strength to accompany my children."
In addition, the generation gap may also affect communication and understanding between them.
The negative effects of over-indulgence should be taken as a warning, and the case of Li Tian is a warning that excessive pampering and indulgence can lead to serious consequences. This reminds us that no matter how old a father is, he should be careful in educating his children.
Despite the many challenges faced by older fathers, they bring unique advantages to their children. The wealth and life wisdom they have accumulated have not only become valuable wealth on the road of children's growth, but also a rare guide for children on the road of life.
As Luo Dayou once said, "I may not be able to be with her for too long, but I hope that my experience and wisdom can guide her life."
The pros and cons of the phenomenon of having children in old age ultimately depend on the balance of pampering and discipline between parents and their ability to provide the most valuable life guidance for their children in a limited amount of time.
It reminds us that the key to being a good father is to get to know your children with your heart, to give them the right amount of care and to guide them at the right time.