Don't associate with old people
Life is like a journey of change, we often experience acquaintance, acquaintance, love, and finally parting. In the process, some become our past, while others are the direction of our future. However, there are some old people who should not be reconnected in our lives. Don't have any contact with old people, because old people and old things can easily make people fall into the whirlpool of memories and find it difficult to extricate themselves.
The ancients said: "The embankment of a thousand miles collapses in the anthill." "Rekindling the old fire with the old people on the road of life is tantamount to recreating the past emotions and constantly consuming the fresh vitality and vitality of one's heart. We need to learn to say goodbye to the past and focus on the future. This is not forgetting or betraying, but the only way to grow. Let's explore the deeper meaning behind this wise saying.
First, we should recognize the complexity of human nature. In the process of connecting with the old people, it often evokes the emotional entanglements and contradictions of the past. As Shakespeare said, "Everything has a beginning and an end, just as men meet and part." "Parting in life has its inevitability. Some people and things can only stay in the past and become a good memory in our life journey. If you contact the old person again, it is easy to cause emotional fluctuations and entanglements, and even lead to trauma in the soul. Therefore, we should learn to let go of the past, cherish the present, and embrace the future.
Secondly, life needs to be constantly growing and improving. Connections with old people often make us get stuck in memories and struggle to extricate ourselves. And this kind of memory is often a waste of time. As a philosopher once said, "Time is the measure of all things." "Time is limited and precious, and we should use time to grow and improve ourselves. If you are always immersed in the memories of the past, you will lose the opportunity and motivation to grow. Therefore, we should focus on the future and strive to pursue our dreams and goals.
Furthermore, we need to understand the vicissitudes and impermanence of life. In the journey of life, we will encounter many changes in many people and things. Sometimes these changes can make us feel lost and helpless. But if you keep in touch with the old people, you will only let yourself stay on the trajectory of the past and not move forward. As the saying goes, we must accept the changes and impermanence of life and embrace new life and challenges. In this way, we can continue to grow and improve.
In addition, we all know that the knowledge in the world is endless, and similarly, the handling of interpersonal relationships also requires continuous learning. "Take copper as a reference, and you can be dressed properly; Taking the ancient as a mirror, we can know the rise and fall; Taking people as a lesson can see the gains and losses. "We should learn from others how to handle relationships better, but these experiences and lessons are not gained by reconnecting with old people, but by interacting with new people, observing and learning from them. We need to keep a clear head, not to be stumped by the people and things of the past, and to be brave enough to move forward to a new stage of life.
Finally, we should understand that life is our own and everyone has their own path to follow. Sometimes we need to face life's challenges and difficulties alone. "The spirit of independence, the spirit of freedom" We should learn to think independently, make decisions independently, and not be swayed by the influence of the old people. We need to learn to be strong in the face of life's setbacks and difficulties, rather than relying on the comfort and support of the old people. That's how we can truly grow and be independent.
In short, "the embankment of a thousand miles collapsed in an anthill." "Don't associate with the old people, because it can upset the balance and stability of our lives. We should cherish the present life, embrace the future, and keep growing and improving. Let's let go of the baggage of the past and bravely move towards a new stage of life!