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Because the poor lack happiness, the money is used to buy happy experiences.
Being fooled and lame by consumerism, there are still many ways to be happy, reading books, visiting parks, hiking, city work, etc., and many sports can be happy without spending much money
This is actually a paradox, the desires of the poor have been suppressed for many years and need to be released to heal childhood. And rich people don't cry and roll around to ask for things since they were young, because they always get better things in advance. Compared with his peers, he seems to have no desires, at least he can restrain himself.
There is no solution to this problem.
Yes! Being able to hold money really tests a person's heart, and now I don't care how much money I save, I won't say it.
The real rich are not saved, the family has enough money, his parents and relatives have let him experience enough money happiness since he was a child, so you see that he doesn't like to spend money indiscriminately, in fact, his family has paid him financially far more than you imagine. Poor families, from childhood to adulthood, parents don't know how to plan for their children, and it is normal to treat themselves to make up for the hardships when they have a little money. Anyway, the reality is that ordinary people have saved some money for decades, and they will immediately empty their wallets and saddle millions of debts.
What does it mean, your family has no accumulation, and many people dare to spend it because their parents can earn it.
We must learn to figure out the minds of others, know ourselves and know each other, so that we can survive a hundred battles. Personally, I think that the reasons for low savings and high consumption are: 1. It is difficult to go from luxury to frugality, and when I was young and ignorant, I was led crooked by the circle, which broadened my horizons, and I couldn't change it for a while. 2. Parents are extremely pampered, willing to smash pots and sell iron, and even take risks to cover the bottom line. 3. In this society now, no one will starve to death, as long as you don't get seriously ill, there is no risk in being a moonlight clan, and you can't save money to get rich. 4. Some people are naturally afraid of hardship, and their work consumes too much energy, so they can only spend some money to eliminate their sorrows, otherwise it will be very painful.
Yes, brainwashed by consumerism.
A cup of milk tea and a cup of coffee a day is more expensive than many people's food expenses for a day.
How much money you earn is important, but how much you have left is the key.
It's not that you can't understand, you don't want to admit it.
Either there is no gnawing at home, or the family is not allowed to gnaw.
A year's income to buy a car and fall into the consumerist trap? It's normal to earn millions of dollars a year and drive a million-dollar car, but if you have a lot of money, you can only drive a fit
It shows that they are old and good in their hometown county, 20-100 a year, no high mortgage and car loan, the baby does not burn money, and can buy street boutique clothes for 1500 without blinking.
That's why these prices exist.
It's normal that small cities just like to compare these, so they don't want to go back to their hometowns after staying in big cities for a long time. There are a lot of rich and poor people in big cities, and no one cares about you, just get used to it.
That's when you look at the perspective of the county town out of ordinary people, there are also carnivorous classes in small places, and my classmate's relatives who are engaged in the sand field in the county town are not luxury cars and villas.
This is a normal phenomenon, because non-urban people are less exploited, every penny you spend, will eventually come back to your hands, everyone is a part of the economic cycle, you spend a hundred, others will turn back and spend this hundred into your hands, the more you spend, the more you have. Suppose you cut your hair, spend 100 to buy clothes, others earn 100, and when you turn around, you will eat a big meal and give 100 to the chef, and the chef will make 100 and turn around and go to your house to cut your hair.
And in the city you are exploited, you spend a hundred dollars, after a round of circulation by the government and capital, the salary is only 50 for you, and the faster you spend, the less you are left.
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