Fang Xiewen's character is very transparent, he enjoys the moment as a matter of course, he will not be considerate of others, he can't see her people's contributions, he only cares about his own feelings, we call this kind of person selfish,
It is true that Fang Xiewen is such a person, maybe he didn't know until he died that his son-in-law disliked him so much.
"The Story of the Rose" itself is a family ethics drama, which tells us a truth, women should have their own direction and cognition, although there are too many trivial things, and they are scarred all over the body.
I also want to live a wonderful life, I believe that among the friends who enter marriage, there must be a husband like Fang Xiewen, don't be discouraged, watch the story of the rose twice and find a balance in your heart.
In the original book, it was specifically explained that the reason why Huang Yimei married Fang Xiewen was completely because she wanted to forget Zhuang Guodong.
And the play is somewhat close to the novel, and the combination of the two is not because she loves Fang Xiewen much, but because she is unprecedentedly warm and touched.
Before marriage, Xiewen is really a boyfriend that everyone envies, and he pays all his sincerity for his beloved goddess, such as giving up a high-paying job, giving up his life goals, taking Huang Yimei as the center, staying in Shanghai to accompany and accommodate her,
This spirit of selfless dedication will be numb to anyone, so she will uncontrollably think that this is love and marry him.
There is another important factor in the novel, that is, Huang Yimei's parents, who especially like Fang Xiewen, know everything about being a daughter, and can really choose to marry someone she doesn't love for the sake of her parents.
She has a hard attitude and must divorce Fang Xiewen. In the face of the sudden family predicament, Fang Xiewen was of course unwilling to compromise, and he did not agree to sign after delaying, but despite this, Huang Yimei resolutely separated.
During this period, she met true love, and in order to be with others, she decisively gave up custody.
It's just that the two didn't love each other for a few days, and the man died of illness.
On the surface, Fang Xiewen is a victim in this marriage, but he has not received anyone's sympathy, just take his aunt as an example, he looks down on him from the bottom of his bones, just because his mother-in-law is beautiful, and all the mistakes are attributed to his father-in-law.
What the son-in-law Tang Hua didn't know was that the reason why his father-in-law was so verbose tonight was because he had a premonition that he was about to die, and his life was at the limit, and he just wanted to talk to the people closest to him. But the meaning of the refraction to the son-in-law happened to be the opposite, he took a twelve hour flight, so tired that he didn't want to say a word, but the father-in-law didn't care about this, and just let him chat with him all night.
So Fang Xiewen was disliked by his son-in-law until he died.
Fang Xiewen admitted that he was very happy after marriage, he just went to work, and didn't care about all the trivial matters at home, because his wife would handle it in an orderly manner, and Huang Yimei had no requirements for him, and he didn't need to make any changes, only he knew that it was his wife who wanted to forget her first love Zhuang Guodong.
In the original work, Fang Xiewen is mediocre and unmotivated, but it is not a reason for everyone to crusade against him, because Fang Xiewen is not as bad as in the play, he does not owe Huang Yimei, and he has never hurt Huang Yimei.
In order to save his wife, he followed him to his mother-in-law's house, but the entire Huang family treated him as a person, and that kind of scornful attitude made people feel suffocated, as if he couldn't get on the stage. To clarify here, Huang Yimei has no contradiction between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law at all, and after reading the original book, you will understand that her Huang family is superior.
At this point, Taichu's boyfriend Tang Hua has the most right to speak.
After dealing with his father-in-law's funeral, Taichu returned to the Huang family with her boyfriend and found that her father-in-law was the real victim.
Obviously, Tang Hua has also been excluded here, she is the second Fang Xiewen in the family, they hold Taichu too high, when she is spoiled by the pearl in her palm, she should be favored by anyone,
Therefore, the husband must endure her unconditionally, accommodate her, and even be looked down upon by his father-in-law's family, and he must not have any dissatisfaction.
The Huang family looks down on the poor, and feels that their love is worthless, despite their selfless dedication, they can't get a smile, he feels that it should be and taken for granted, and only Zhuang Guodong can enter the eyes of the Huang family.
It's a pity that people are not serious about Huang Yimei.